Kunal has not redeemed himself - Page 5

Originally posted by: _charu_

My only point is , why is maulis happiness, self respect , dignity , self confidence DEPEND on kunal? Cant she be happy without him ? Cant she move on without his irrelevant and illtimed apology? Cant she get over him given any circumstance ? Why?

hmmm i liked these questions..

my answers to these -- if it were some kameena husband then mauli doesnt need any kick from kunal to move on.. but kunal was a good husband.. he was shown loving , caring and kind person in general too..

he used to flaunt his love . PDA u see!!

pampering mauli and all..!

so for mauli it is unbelievable that a person like kunal can do this to her and there were no problems in their marriage..

so how can mauli really have faith in her destiny that this time she will be lucky..

ishaan can also change na??

so either mauli needs to know what made kunal ditch her or she needs to see the differences between the two guys..

or she should be optimistic that life wont ditch her again..

so i really think kunal needs to tell her the answers to her "whys".

Because my opinions are not different from yours , i dont want kunal and mauli together but i want mauli to happily move on with ishan , KNOWING that he took help from kunal to know her better , knowing that kunal purposely separated her from dida and radhika because that was sandhyas condition and because of which mauli cancelled the engagement . Knowing that her dream of a perfect family can be fulfilled again . Honestly speaking , it can go anyway.

i dont doubt ur intensions.. i know u..

regarding kunal knowing mauli better.. if he had known her he wouldnt have doubted her and accused her etc.. kunal suggested the heart winning formulas (formula 44 😆) , as an ex husband he knows what gifts mauli likes so no brownie points given to him for knowing these things..

that purposely separating mauli from family was so pathetic. it is such an outdated idea.. it felt like there is no logic in this show..

and also we all know that he isnt a positive character who can shine after these so called sacrifices will be exposed..

did u see camp track??

mauli tpok the entire blame for her letting kunal go. she was again considering him. reasons?? he is a good father.. did she leave him bcz hr was a bad father?? where is the logic in all this.?

again if they show that kunal did all this so called sacrifice and made mauli weak on her knees then?? my point is why all these efforts to make mauli think about him?? just to keep buzz about them?? doesnt it destory mauli ?

people hated mauli in the camp track. she received so much hatred bcz it was illogical.

again if they try to sell the show in the name of maunal then?? they cant use mauli for all this..

If mauli hated kunal for his betrayal or insults , she would be a different person post leap but she was still living in her past. So why do we see this sudden change in her ? That she is happy and contended with ishan ? Its Yet To Be seen If She Is Doing This For MiShti Alone Or Because She LoveS And Respects Ishan. Lets Wait And Watch

i guess u didnt watch the recent episodes.. watch lohri episode u will know if she is doing it for mishti or herself.. just listen to her answers to sweety . the confidence mauli had and the happiness on her face tell everything.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I also feel that an apology will serve no purpose now,..maybe Kunal might feel better about himself if he does, Mauli should accept that nandu was Kunals love and that their marriage was not as happy for him as it was for her..because obviously she did not satisfy him. I think she needs to just accept this as something that was inevitable and move on, put kunal and nandu behind her, You know I'm feeling that she has already done this ...that's why she gave those dialogues and promises to Ishaan ...and that's why she's quiet now,.shes actually made peace with her past and she's moved on..so she's calm and peaceful now ..not robotic as is being said,.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

i guess apology will serve the purpose of letting mauli FEEL the fact that there wasnt actually any problem in their marriage.. if kunal accepts that he could have tried enough then mauli may inhale "chain ki saans" 😆

i mean it will give her a closure that although he loved nandini but his leaving mauli wasnt bcz mauli was a bad wife or he wasnt content but bcz he compromised with his usools..

do u remember mauli's dialogues in confrontation episodes,,??

she asked him "main kaise iss guilt me jeeugi.. mujhe khud se ghin aa rahi hai"

she meant that althought its her husband not her who had an affair outside their marriage but she will always look down upom herself that her love wasnt enough for them..

she hasnt got free from that guilt , i guess so.!!

true...but you know sometimes and often men who cheat or leave their wives will always find a reason why they did what they did ...and often the issue will be with the wife or marriage even though it was not the wife's fault and she really was a very good wife.. and then the wife needs to eventually realize that she was a good wife it was the husband who was faulty ...but as this is a show ..Kunal most probably will make an apology to mauli as they will want to tie up loose ends. But Mauli can also realize on her own ..that she was a good wife and she gave everything for the marriage...it was Kunal who was not satisfied ...she was not at fault as she gave it her all..maybe she'll self realise this and then find inner peace that it was not in her hands or her fault why Kunal left her 😊

Originally posted by: Indira1211

true...but you know sometimes and often men who cheat or leave their wives will always find a reason why they did what they did ...and often the issue will be with the wife or marriage even though it was not the wife's fault and she really was a very good wife.. and then the wife needs to eventually realize that she was a good wife it was the husband who was faulty ...but as this is a show ..Kunal most probably will make an apology to mauli as they will want to tie up loose ends. But Mauli can also realize on her own ..that she was a good wife and she gave everything for the marriage...it was Kunal who was not satisfied ...she was not at fault as she gave it her all..maybe she'll self realise this and then find inner peace that it was not in her hands or her fault why Kunal left her 😊

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

yup i get ur point. but i am not saying mauli needs kunal to know that it was kunal's fault.. she knows it..but the point is kunal want such person who could betray his wife.. but still it happened. so mauli needs to know from his mouth that what went wrong..

she knows she was a good wife but she needs to assure herself that it wont happen to her again..

i just want her to feel that love again.. i dont want to see uncertain mauli..

i want that confidence back..

the confidence to fall in love again.

lol you know we also don't know why he decided to leave her ...we know he said he loved nandu ,..but initially we thought he loved Mauli too..so how could he have so suddenly fell for nandu after showing us that he was happy with Mauli.. yes some dialogue from Kunal and some confessions will be good both for Mauli and us😆

Originally posted by: Indira1211

lol you know we also don't know why he decided to leave her ...we know he said he loved nandu ,..but initially we thought he loved Mauli too..so how could he have so suddenly fell for nandu after showing us that he was happy with Mauli.. yes some dialogue from Kunal and some confessions will be good both for Mauli and us 😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

ExCtly why should he be redeemed ? Because he was a bad human being in OUR eyes . Not his. Acc to his thought process, his living an unhappy life with mauli wasn't fair to him or mauli. Why do we have to judge and not accept that he is flawed. In a moment of weakness , he fell in love with another girl . Being married , being committed , he made a promise to nandini . When he is flawed why should he redeem?

And are kunal and mauli getting married that everyone here is scared of kunal whitewashing ? So if kunal is being white washed , mauli might consider him Nd not ishan? I would say that inspite of all this, inspite of all his sacrifices and goodness, mauli must still choose ishan and not him .

I don't think you read my entire post. 😊 . What I am saying is that Kunal has not been redeemed because for that one first needs to acknowledge that Kunal was wrong. But neither the show nor Kunal acknowledges that hence as per the show he doesn't need redemption. Now if he doesn't need redemption because he was right then that means his love and happiness and marriage with Nandini was true in which case Kunal and Mauli reunion makes zero sense. Because Kunal was never in love with Mauli. I don't care about Kunal being white washed . For me it's about Mauli. Her integrity as a character. And more than Mauli accepting Kunal I want to see does Kunal want to go back to Mauli? If yes then was his EMA wrong? Why does he want to go back to her? And sacrifices and Kunal don't make sense at all. Please come on. What sacrifice has he made? Yes he lost Nadini whom he truly loved but there is no sacrifice he has made . And as far as goodness is concerned then well he is flawed more than good like all other characters. So I don't understand despite all goodness and sacrifice statement

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

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Originally posted by: Sabhayata

I don't think you read my entire post. 😊 . What I am saying is that Kunal has not been redeemed because for that one first needs to acknowledge that Kunal was wrong. But neither the show nor Kunal acknowledges that hence as per the show he doesn't need redemption. Now if he doesn't need redemption because he was right then that means his love and happiness and marriage with Nandini was true in which case Kunal and Mauli reunion makes zero sense. Because Kunal was never in love with Mauli. I don't care about Kunal being white washed . For me it's about Mauli. Her integrity as a character. And more than Mauli accepting Kunal I want to see does Kunal want to go back to Mauli? If yes then was his EMA wrong? Why does he want to go back to her? And sacrifices and Kunal don't make sense at all. Please come on. What sacrifice has he made? Yes he lost Nadini whom he truly loved but there is no sacrifice he has made . And as far as goodness is concerned then well he is flawed more than good like all other characters. So I don't understand despite all goodness and sacrifice statement

As.of now he doesnt want to go back to mauli..lets see , whats in hold for us in future

Originally posted by: _charu_

Buddy , according to your logic , at present , if kunal loved only nandini then his union with mauli doesnt make sense . So then mauli also loved ONLY kunal so her union with ishan should also be illogical and a compromise on her part .

love doesn't only happen once in a lifetime. If you love someone and that person rejects you and hurts you,.then you will eventually give up on that person...and when another wonderful person enters your life who is great and makes you happy...you will fall in love again..and I believe that is what's going to be shown in silsila. Mauli will choose Ishaan not because she's compromising or doing it for her daughter ...but because he is a great guy who she's fallen on love with ...and Kunal would have lost out ...😊