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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mishty is a six years old little girl ...just acting on her emotions . She's hurt and confused so she's lashing out on the people who have made her feel this way ...Kunal and pari. Her mother being an educated woman and on top of that a doctor should have used some intelligence and taken the child for counseling after she discovered who her father was . Children need counseling and play therapy to handle complex emotional situations because they can't handle these on their own. Kunal as a paediatrician should Also know this . He and Mauli should have got together and come up with an educated intelligent solution not something illogical like just keeping the 2 kids apart etc. that's not going to help mishtys emotional crisis. However the writers have clearly not thought about this so instead they are showing us that Mauli and Kunal who are 2 educated intelligent people can't really sort out their own children's issues..and Mauli is coming across as an incompetent mom.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: greeshma014

it surprise me when I hear making kids stay with grandparents is not a good idea. A kid brought up in a joint family will be more happy and sensible than in a nuclear family. And why all of a sudden mouli bad mother thing. Kunal just re entered. So she was good mother all 6 years.. but now bad mother. Wow.. and abt she leaving the child and going to camp, sorry Mishti never had any problem with that. And most importantly writers never showed Mishti in mental depression or something like that and think abt Kunal thing day and night. She is perfectly happy and fine when she is with Dadi, dida and popsi. It's only when Kunal or pari comes in front of her, she thinks abt it. Otherwise she is happy. Mouli got the biggest shock of her life when she got to know that because of her daughter , pari could have lost her life , not once but twice. I don't think she will be sirtsit silently and talk in a lovey dovey manner.. later she will talk like that. But not on the spot. And about Mishti , she is irritated that people point out her mistakes now more often now. First dida , Dadi and now Mishti. If they keep silent, she will ne happy. Now she says only ishan loves her. It's because he never tried to correct her in pari's matter. Tomorrow if he says aapne Jo pari ke saath Kiya, it was wrong.. boom.. popsi Wil be out of her good books.


you say it all...i have nothing more to say...👏
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Posted: 6 years ago
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IDO20: Sorry, but it's you who is coming across as biased. Please stop defending Mishti blindly.
She's not behaving like a normal six-year-old. Her actions are borderline psychopathic. Yes, Pari was being irritating today, but Mishti deserved every bit of the blasting Mauli gave her.

And Mauli is behaving like an idiot with respect to Kunal, but she's not a bad mother. Millions of children have mothers who are forced to stay away from their children for many days in a year. They grow up perfectly fine human beings and loving their mothers.

In olden days, when people stayed in joint families, children spent more time with servants, grandparents and aunts than with their actual parents. No big deal.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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It is not me i see what the writers shows me. Post leap Mauli is independent single parent has a male friend - Naya soch. She dots on her daughter Mishti. She is eager to take her from the camp. Great mom Mauli was.
But as Kunnu re enter with his bachcha. What I see:
1. Kunal always bonding with her baccha, cooking food, singing lala bye, consolling itni bari bari anshu ole baba mera princess. Joking, taking her for parks perfect dad. He is best with kids.
2. Mauli is super busy she cannot forgo going to a hospital even on diwali holidays and cannot join her daughter's fun time. Bad Mom and it has happened quite often that is what Mishti accuses.
3. An impulsive Mauli thinking N and K are happy lovey dovey - jumps into an engagement as she wants PAPA for Mishti - best decision for Mishti. But she can break the engagement in a second - where is Mishti here ? Mauli please spare your kid for your own impulse.
4. Mauli forgets her daughter's play date - there is a planner in the mobile, aise you are always on the phone so do not tell me you do not know this.
5. Mauli wants her daughter away from kunal. She consols her be with her in the night. Brownie point for her. But she cannot control herself to treat sick pari. Accepted - but you do not need to sit their and play games till late. Cannot help her hidden emotions had to come out.
6. Mauli is a professional she has to go for camp, Have we ever seen her calling Mishti. Kunal can call Pari but Mauli is busy sorting her own chores.
7. After coming back you are disturbed, but cannot you give a tight hug to your kid and say you missed her. Your emotions are more important.
8. IS mishti a robot - when you want to comfort her you say you are POPSI ki favorite. But now Ishan is not your papa. Jazbaat only belongs to Kunnu, and mauli for kids Mauli dictate the rules.
I am sorry to say Mauli is incompetent as a mother from whatever is shown. I cannot assume what is not shown.
Relating to mishti s mistake rectify her for what she has done and do not blame her for what she has not done. It was an accident and Pari compelled her. She just wants to make peace with Mishti to fulfil her moms wish. If mishti likes her, mauli aunty will also be her mum. Now do not tell me she is just a kid for that logic Mishti is also a kid. Mauli needs to hear her out and make her understand firmly or consult a doctor.
Grandparents can be best mentors - but parents also need to give time to kids. If not leave it to the GP. You cannot leave your kids with your parents and then question them why did not you told me what she did? There was a film called POSTO in bemgali it is about grand parents vs parents please watch it.
All Mauli can do is break Mishti s trust and confidence by yelling aise karte waise karte, and define relationship for her. First Mauli needs therapy (phsycology, sexual or whatever). She is not well (emotional patient) and needs to be treated and then she can treat her daughter.
Parents do meet after divorce. Do not Rithwik meets his wife and there will huge examples around us. Take Kunal s help - no she is jealous for Mehek. Seriusly Mauli sucks moreover GK sucks.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

what abt the heinous act that she did with pari...do u guys support that?...for the first time mauli take a intiative as a mother to teach her daughter right n wrong...who the hell will believe mishti that she never push pari in the pool when she has done worst with that 4 yrs girl by locking her in the room definitely her mother nor her folks will believe it...sorry i don't support mishti in whatever she is doing n behaving...she is taking a wrong path that not only affecting her childhood but adulthood too...the pool issue might be an accident but all her other acts were not accident but done on purpose n hatred...so whenever she meets pari...she is going to shower venom on her...making faces not realising her mistake neither guilty abt it...this are not signs of normal childhood...she is shouting that only popsy loves her...when her popsy knows what she did with pari at home...he will be disappointed with her behaviour too...

I am sorry guys...staying away...not meeting each other...its not an solution again...mishti is kunal's daughter...no matter what this bond is unbreakable...if a serious issue happens to mishti...kunal is needed...staying away n all this plain bull shit...its not going to help anyone...matters will be worsen...its better face it...sort it out and go separate ways...they are already staying apart n coincidentally meet what good is that doing for her...her hatred is getting extreme n turning into a rebel...so kunal needs to intervene into the matter and find a solution to stop this rivarly b/w the half sisters as their father and here mauli...radhika are closing the doors on his face just for mauli to move on ishaan...put all that craps of Maunal...Mauhaan aside n concentrate on the kids..a 6 yrs old having extreme hatred is dangerous...very dangerous...


@Red, Yes. It's very dangerous. That's why Mauli should go soft and make Mishti understand what's right and what's wrong!!

But, if any grown up mom scold kid when kids already wounded, it either make kids stupid or make extreme arrogant. Scolding never brings out goodness, it always come out with more hatred.

She is just 6 years old, shouting wont help because she doesn't understand this messy world.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Accident was only in the case of pool incident. Not the bathroom incident. In that incident , they didn't try to understand the seriousness of the matter. The child was never regreted and didn't apologize to pari. Anyone can see that she is going to repeat something again like that in future. First her faults and wrongs should be adressed properly then make her understand. Just apne galat Kiya dialogues are unfortunately not working for her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Entire clan including Kunnu, Mauli , Dida , Radika , Mristi & Pari must go for some kind of psychological treatment
Ishan must oeave them , he must look for a girl who loves him.
Mristi must learn not to harm people whom she dislike
Pari must made understand that her "dead mom was cause of some issues that can't be solved for now ... Kunnu must do that
she must be told it "
Mauli must make wise moves
No expectation from Kunnu though
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mouli should figure out what she has to do with ishaan and Kunal very soon. About making Mishti understand, may be she should say that , Kunal was not aware that mouli is pregnant and they are separate for different reasons. God knows if she will understand or not. If she fails to make her understand, give Kunal a chance. Which mouli refused to give him earlier.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages


she didn't push pari intentionally but her heinous act at home was enough to blow mauli's mind...i am glad that mauli raise up the matter why didn't anyone told her abt it...


Now Mauli has got another reason to meet Kunal. In the pretext of saying sorry to Pari she will meet Kunal again and say, 'I am so sorry Kunal. Mishti aisa nahi karn chahiye tha... ' etc.
She thinks of all the possibilities to meet Kunal but bever thinks of getting to know her daughter's problem. Got this lady is getting on my nerves now.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Now Mauli has got another reason to meet Kunal. In the pretext of saying sorry to Pari she will meet Kunal again and say, 'I am so sorry Kunal. Mishti aisa nahi karn chahiye tha... ' etc.
She thinks of all the possibilities to meet Kunal but bever thinks of getting to know her daughter's problem. Got this lady is getting on my nerves now.


this show is nothing w/o Maunal...whether we like it or hate it... 😆...well she had to apologise for mishti behaviour...what mishti did was extreme...pari could have lost her life or went into a trauma...well don't worry mehek is there so she will get irritated
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