Originally posted by: arshi_asya
One has to understand one thing about Kunal. He is a narcissistic and sociopathic person with an attitude of entitlement.
He will never admit that he did wrong by going to Nandini because that admission will break everything about his personality.
He will continue to play being a victim himself and make everything about himself only because that is one trait of a narcissitic person. They always think that the entire world has wronged them while when it comes to accept their faults they become cold again and play a victim card. You can't expect answers from such people. They lack that level of empathy. They will only disappoint you if you expect something from them.
While Kunal doesn't lack empathy completely, he still remains a sociopath since he did nothing to stop hurting Mauli with his actions. He knew what he was doing and how his actions will hurt her and he still continued to do that. And that's the trait of a sociopath.
@bold - this! i kept saying this again and again that it was his conscious decision and his actions kept hurting for a long long time.. he didnt care about mauli when he used to meet nandini.. he cared only about himself.. it wasnt just for a moment or a day that he had hurt her but it went for a long long time.. if he had actually cared about her then he would have seen her pain.. he was indifferent.!
It is not only difficult but impossible to make Kunal admit he did wrong, keeping in mind his persoanlity traits. Mauli's expectations from Kunal of a closure are going to hurt. She has to find closure within herself and make peace with the fact that she didnot do anyrhing wrong. Kunal will not let her get over it. Kunal can't give her closure since he has already fed a closure in his mind. For him, telling Mauli and divorcing her was the closure and he doesn't know what more he could do beyond this.
that will be great if she finds her closure herself but i really care she doesnt destroy herself in this process..
as i had always thought that kunal also need redemption so i would like him to see the consequences of his actions. but they have wasted the camp track aise hiii..
What if Kunal admits that he did wrong by going to Nandini, he will be refuting his own actions and feel guilty about something he doesn't even feel. Then, he will have to feel sorry for having Pari with Nandini. How will that admission help Mauli?
this is the thing which i want an answer for. why do people want him to regret his going to nandini when she is dead? to make him even a more irredemable person??
He has already said that she is not at fault and yet he went away. It's Mauli who is not able to find closure within herself and get over it. She is looking upto a wrong person for answers. She needs to talk, just talk and let everything inside her flow out like a stream. That will help her release a burden from her heart and also help her see things beyond which she has not yet seen on how she didn't do wrong by her devotion to a man she loved but it was his cowardice to have cheated on her and not have audacity to communicate with her. And that is the only thing that will help her let go of the past.
i dont who will tell her this.. but she needs to know "why he left her" she needs to know.. i wish somebody could tell her that kunal was wrong and he was a weak person.. he compromised with his so called fake principles.. but she isnt that weak that she can keep loving him when there are no such qualities left in him for which she used to love him once..
Mauli's own broken expectations from Kunal are hurting her and she has to make peace with the fact that he isn't the man meant to fulfill her exectations. Strength to move on comes from within while external factors may work as catalyst sometimes.
It's all in the mind and as long as mind holds on to it, it can never let go of certain things
last line is ❤️ my personal experience..
