Mauli should be honest with Misty

She should tell misty .. yes he is your father.. but he left us when you were gonna be born for pari and his mom..

Completely disagree . Much as we hate Kunal and he's a disgusting character , this is strongly advised to never speak of such things with a child as small as Mishti. It leaves deep scars in the psyche of children which leads to several psychological issues that carry forward into adulthood , including poor personality development , depressive tendency , lack of confidence, poor concentration level , trust issues , coping issues and many others. Children MUST always be protected against murky events of their parent's lives till they reach adulthood or at least late teenage , when they're more equipped to deal with complications of adulthood.

Originally posted by: Carmilla

Completely disagree . Much as we hate Kunal and he's a disgusting character , this is strongly advised to never speak of such things with a child as small as Mishti. It leaves deep scras in children which leads to several psychological issues that carry forward into adulthood , including poor personality development , depressive tendency , lack of confidence, poor concentration level , trust issues , coping issues and many others. Children MUST always be protected against murky events of their parent's lives till they reach adulthood or at least late teenage , when they're more equipped to deal with complications of adulthood.

What is more important to Mauli - overall development and mental health of her child or playing a who-wins-the-child game with Kunal ?? Mishti is not an award to be won in a competition. She's a child for God's sake.

She needs to be told. But in what way I do not know may be mauli can ask a child psychologist or counselor I think ishan can handle this better because the way I have seen he has a good approach towards kids not ott and not rude.
I had a disturbing childhood my parents used to fight very often and we started living separately I was with my mom they never got divorced but never stayed peacefully also. I was very unsecured kid with lots of whys. My uncle mama was one person I used to ask why this why that. He was my buddy and give me very answers which I used understand right or wrong I do not know but at that age I was happy to talk to him. As I grow up my mother got seriously ill and we came back to live with my dad. My dad took care of my mom during her difficult times I also got comfortable life he had money. Once I started my relationships I started to understand that two person can have differences and complex relationship. Dad and I opened up our talks and our distance minismised, my mom passed away too.
So child's get hurt they become unruly but as they grow up they mend it also

first of all if mauli really wanted mishti to believe ishaan is her popsie she should not have done this engagement, she could have simply did register marriage with ishaan without mishty knowing...but with what she is doing sooner or later mishty herself would question her how was she born before marriage as thats the thing she will hear whenever she will tell about her mom n dad marriage to her friends which will slowly lead to number of questions on her head about her identify...adding, now with pari becoming mishty's bestie it was giveaway from mauli for Kunal to doubt if ishaan-mauli are marrying just now mishty might be his daughter...

It is better to tell the truth
IF NAN WAS ALIVE HE WOULD NOT EVEN LOOK AT THEM
All because of his divine love !
Mauli should never be with Kunal again
If Kunal misses a family he can marry again "another kheer maker, crying & saree wearing beauty "
He can ger even more daughters & sons !
TRUTH is that "He wanted only Rondini
He had it .

If Pari can act like a dadi amma why can't Mishty know about the reality of her father. I think Mauli and Ishan should say everything to her. But the way it is shown till now, Mishti is more like Kunal and Pari is more like Nandini. So obviously Mishti will choose her biological father over Mauli.

Truth has to be told children behavior is very unpredictable they at time behave maturely also and understand. Mauli is vulnerable so she let some one else to handle mishti s turmoil. She should not be strict with her. Patience and patience is her way. For pari I do not want to comment she is born with the nature of an adult.
What will mishti do not sure child's even human behaviors is a dare sciene

Reading all the replies.. i am totally confused..

Originally posted by: Mumoos

Reading all the replies.. i am totally confused..

I wanted mauli to be honest cos i have a fear.. kunal will yet again choose pari over misty and end up hurting misty..

This way atleast she will know her mom n popsie are with her..

Then she can slowly accept kunal .. but impulsive kunal might end up hurting the child too now..

She has to be told how that is important like adapted children are always told that they are adapted from their childhood like you can say you are not born from mama s tummy but mama s heart also some wants to meet their bio parents you should allow them and take it from me they will come back to u