Why keep going on about self-respect??

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Honestly, people keep jumping on Mauli so easily. Why? Because she hasn't fully gotten over her husband whom she really really loved.

People keep saying she has no self-respect. So what did she do 6 years ago? She could've kept Kunal and killed her self-respect right? But she didn't!

Not everything is about self-respect! It's what her heart probably still wants. Does she like that she's struggling? No! Does she wish she could completely move on? YES! But she can't. Just like each one of us here has our own weakness and we struggle to resist things and people who aren't good for you, Mauli has that weakness too. Stop berating her under the self respect' tag! She chose that long ago! Now it's not a matter of self-respect after 6 years. It's her emotional struggle and it's real!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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People are annoyed since things are hinting towards mounal reunion.Till n ow everything is fine we can understand her emotions and why she is not able to move on.but if Mouli still chooses Kunal at the end we can question her self respect . That man doesn't have an ounce of guilt and insulted her badly twice,didn't treat her humanly when she was in pain.how can she forget everything so easily. If she doesn't want move on with sometime else she should better stay single.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ragiballs

People are annoyed since things are hinting towards mounal reunion.Till n ow everything is fine we can understand her emotions and why she is not able to move on.but if Mouli still chooses Kunal at the end we can question her self respect . That man doesn't have an ounce of guilt and insulted her badly twice,didn't treat her humanly when she was in pain.how can she forget everything so easily. If she doesn't want move on with sometime else she should better stay single.



Then question her self-respect IF and when she does that. Why now? What is she doing so wrong now that people are disappointed in her? Everyone's assumed the worst instead of waiting to see how she reacts. If any character has made sense in this show it's Mauli's! Sometimes she goes wrong, mostly right but she makes sense because her emotions are so clear for us to feel.

She's getting self respect lectures just because she's getting affected by Kunal. How is that fair?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Completely agree on this.Moving on forgetting a big betrayal is not easy.And I don't think maunal will be end game.May be mauli will stay single.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Honestly, people keep jumping on Mauli so easily. Why? Because she hasn't fully gotten over her husband whom she really really loved.

People keep saying she has no self-respect. So what did she do 6 years ago? She could've kept Kunal and killed her self-respect right? But she didn't!

Not everything is about self-respect! It's what her heart probably still wants. Does she like that she's struggling? No! Does she wish she could completely move on? YES! But she can't. Just like each one of us here has our own weakness and we struggle to resist things and people who aren't good for you, Mauli has that weakness too. Stop berating her under the self respect' tag! She chose that long ago! Now it's not a matter of self-respect after 6 years. It's her emotional struggle and it's real!


I Agree with this.. what i wish is Mauli for once hits back/ slaps kunal.. or punishes him rather than just letting him go that easily..
After the first revelation had there been any other wife looking at the screen with mistress calling - First would have given her earfull for calling her husband, warning her to stay away. Then turned around to the husband broken the phone to pieces a d said.. look this has happened and dictated her terms cos he was the one at fault..
Here she was so passive../ is still passive only dialogue baazi..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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thank u for writing this post.. 😊
i dont want her to end up with kunal but thats my opinion.. and cant expect mauli to behave according to my wishes.. I think even if she still loves kunal and is not over him yet, i cant tell her that she has no self respect..

she can love him till death if she wants and there is nothing wrong in loving a person who was a huge part of your life.. love is an emotion , a feeling , not a tangible thing which one can take away from her..

i hope she has no love for him.. but i can just hope..
ur last words "She chose that long ago! Now it's not a matter of self-respect after 6 years. It's her emotional struggle and it's real!" ❤️
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I am one of many who said she needed self respect. That's my opinion.

I don't mean that as in a hateful context or annoyed at her decisions. I said it in general because sometimes we need to respect ourselves. Sometimes we forget we bleed too. I said it concerning everything not just about her loving a dick.

Mauli, as a person and a woman, needs to love herself, put herself first and respect who she is. A badass, independent, relatable woman who feels pain like everyone else. The only way to move on and to find true love is to love and respect yourself first.

There's nothing wrong in loving a man but IF she goes back to the man who ripped her entire world apart that's just sad.

Mauli is a great piece of character. I still have great hopes for her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I dnt want mauli to stay single..she is very young..life partner is needed not onlu for love and sex..life partner is needed for companionship to whom we can share everything..when children grow up they will have their own life..i want her to choose ishaan..
If she accept kunal and pari then its really unfair..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Instead of following kuch kuch hota hai nakers should follow kasauti where prerna choose bajaj ultimately though she loved anurag always till her last breath
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Posted: 6 years ago
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What is the difference between her and the divine couple then ? They had the same excuse that they are in love .

Of course mauli can choose kunal in the end .i have no hopes from the cvs..

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