What is stopping mauli from moving on

Originally posted by: yurimehta11

Mauli is suffering from Wife Abandoned syndrome

She fulfilled all condition of it i.e.when a husband leaves his wife out-of-the-blue without ever having told her that he was unhappy in the marriage. Following his sudden departure, he replaces the caring he'd typically shown her with anger and aggression. He often moves directly in with a girlfriend, leaving his bewildered wife totally devastated.

He had seemed to be an attentive, emotionally engaged spouse, looked upon by his wife as honest and trustworthy.

The husband had never said that he was unhappy in the marriage or thinking of leaving, and the wife believed herself to be in a secure relationship.

The husband typically blurts out the news that the marriage is over "out-of-the-blue" in the middle of a mundane domestic conversation.

Reasons given for his decision are nonsensical, exaggerated, trivial or fraudulent.

By the time the husband reveals his intentions to his wife, the end of the marriage is already a fait accompli and he often moves out quickly.

The husband's behavior changes radically, so much so that it seems to his wife that he has become a cruel and vindictive stranger.

The husband shows no remorse; rather, he blames his wife and may describe himself as the victim.

In almost all cases, the husband had been having an affair.

The husband makes no attempt to help his wife, either financially or emotionally, as if all positive regard for her has been completely extinguished.

Systematically devaluing the marriage, the husband denies what he had previously described as positive aspects of the couple's joint history.

Mauli and Kunal's marriage is perfect example of this.

Originally posted by: Mumoos

Do you think some where mauli failed to notice her marriage was failing.. cos she was so self absorbed in being there for everyone.. doing everything for everyone herself..

Kunal did show signs of withdrawal and moody..

I am not justifying kunal here.. but realistically speaking.. hubby is stuck in apt whole day and wife does not realise until night..

Husband and wife's connection is supposed to be better than that.. and when he does say we need to spend more time.. she always tagged Nandu along.. she should have kept these 2 emotions apart rather than being overwhelmed that she has so much of live and friend ship in life.

PS: Again i am not justifying kunal here. It's just my POV..

Marriage needs work from both ends and cannot be take for granted.