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In an ideal world Mouli would kick the cheaters and family would disown their kamina son.
But realistically some relationships are hard to let go. One is parents-children and another is husband-wife (or partners in general). It just is. People fight hard to save these relationships. We ignore so much pain and tolerate so much within our family that we wouldn't do otherwise.
Friendship, while a purest relationship in my eyes because its on based on blood or need or norms, is easy to leave behind. And because its not based on anything but on mutual trust and affection, its easy to loose it too. Once the trust and affection is gone, for whatever reason that might be, the friendship is gone. Friends dont even need to betray one another for the friendship to be lost. I mean we are all adults on this forum, how many friends have we lost along the way just because we left school, town, country? We can look back and smile at the fond memories but do we feel the urge to reconnect and become bffs with all of our old besties?
Marriage on the other hand is not just a relationship between two people but its also an institution, oldest and sacred one at that. It involves families and kids, and if we are being practical there are financial aspects to it (mind you, i am very aware that none of these are gonna be an issue on this show but just talking about reality). So, one cannot just dismiss the influence of family and society in a marriage. Yes, as we are evolving as society we are are getting more and more open about divorces, as we should, but working and marriage and trying to save your marriage shouldnt be seen as regressive. Why do you think, there are so many marriage counseling done these days?
Coming back to the show, while i hate that Mouli is being so pathetic at the moment, I do understand her trying to give her marriage a second or third chance. We cant forget that Mouli and Kunal had 7 years of successful married life. So, it does make sense that she thinks maybe its just a fling. Unlike us viewers she hasnt witnessed the god awful dates sessions with "tera deewana" on the background, or how divine they think their love is. Heck, Nandini hasnt even said to Mouli that she loves Kunal. Is Mouli being desperate. Yes, of course. Is it sad to see that? yes, it frustrates me more than KuNan temple visits used to. But its not totally baseless.
Ultimately, Mouli will have to forgive Nandini, not for sake of equality or for Nandini, but for her own sanity. Mouli will have to forgive and move past it because she deserves a closure. However, forgiving Nandini doesnt mean resuming the frienship. I think friendship is one of those bonds that cant be mended once broken. Mouli and Nandinis friendship saga ends here and its best to bury it and not look back.
Btw I also dont think marriage will be same, even if Kunal does effort to mend it (apparantly he doesnt even bother to fake a smile according to new OLVs).
Conclusion: I will be furious if the show ends with Mouli and Nandini dancing on Pinga.
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