Real and heartbreaking - Page 2

Originally posted by: Cinnamonn

I agree but SOME wives get off their butt and change their lives for a good future. They shop, date, move on, fall in love again. It's life. That also happens in real life. So I hope that they show Mauli independent.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I think even they take some time to competely heal.

Until the divorce, the show is in one-month period.

Let's see what makers have decided after that, it better be good.

Now child is also in equation I doubt divorce will happen. I personally like to see their divorce asap. Makers do whatever they want to do with K and N.

Originally posted by: dips143

Quite sensible post

. absolutely agree that cheating ppl won't regret

thanks for agreeing

Originally posted by: _charu_

Normally the cheating couple might not show any guilt but here since mauli was nandinis saviour and mauli and kunal were the perfect couple , so much in love , the guilt factor was expected .

Show is still going on lets see what cvs planned for future.

Originally posted by: Migraine

U can't show dracula's in a show and later call it was the most realistic way a dracula would drink blood.

This show is far from reality.

Ek minimum reality to nagin jaise fantasy show me bhi hota hai

Silsila is not real by miles

Originally posted by: Migraine

The murder cases are indeed real. But silsila is not by any means real.

In real life 1stly ppl don't fall like that how kunal did. Or u want to say that was very real? A guy who is happy, even sexually active with his wife suddenly decides u know what? Damn nandini dances so well. Wow what curves. She is sexy n also vulnerable. Lets cheat with her behind my perfect wife mauli who has been providing for the family. Wow 😆

So realistic .then mauli who is a gynaecologist didn't even realise she is pregnant for 3 months

Realistic as hell👏 oscar lao re

Mauli who is so practical suddendly does a 360 degree and now like a teenage girl wants the cheater kunal as prize. I mean first wives definitely would fight but in most cases the wives are not financially secure.

Also there was no children involved.

The most unrealistic thing they have shown here is that a character like mauli would not react in this doormat way. We xpect this from nandini more.

Yes if they have shown Mauli a weak emotionally challenged character from the beginning then it would have made sense.

But she is the one jisne nandini ko churwaya Rajdeep ki changul se se aur ab wo khud kunal jaise cheater ke sath rehna chahti hai.

Dusri taraf nandini ek itna bekar character hai jisko lagta hai usne mahan kam kya hai ema kar ke. She thinks mauli ki bday plan kar ke na jane kaun si punya kar li ho. Omg😆 how realistic

Rahi bat murder ki it would have been realistic actually if there was any murder in silsila

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Silsila is real by all means. Just today a newspaper reported a story where a 34 year old woman who was mother of 4 children murdered her husband. Her partner in crime was her 19 year old lover. She had been married for 12 years and she met her lover just 4 months ago. Her husband and family tried knocking sense in her and she didn't budge. This makes up for perfect crime patrol episode.

And there are numerous cases I have closely seen. Mother leaving their child behind because they fell for younger men and husband and his family is left to take care of children while mother doesn't give a damn. Nd these are cases of grey zone.

A mother married her own daughter's husband and saying that she loves him and can't live without him. Her husband and family tried knocking sense in them too but failed. And yes, they too used divinity to justify their so called love.

So, these cases are very real. I don't know why would you think it's not real.

that mother marrying son in law incident shocked me.

Originally posted by: yurimehta11

that mother marrying son in law incident shocked me.

Half newspaper filled with murder news and if its spouse killing another spouse most common reason is EMA.

One more shocking incident I read today is wife having affair with husband's girlfriend so husband killed th the wife.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

You are sticking to one-dimensional characters. Human behvior is flawed. Kunal obsessing with nandini with a moment is what happens in real too. But Kunal didn't cheat in that moment, he dragged it to level of continued emotional and physical cheating. The moment he proposed, he crossed his the threshold. And from that moment he did not return.

Nandini falling for Kunal was real too though baba crap isn't real. Her planning bday too wasn't real. Otherwise how she behaved during affair was completely real, her own skewed justifications were real. But people falling for their Best friend's partner is a real shit.

Mauli's behavior at this moment is too real since I have seen even the strongest fall when such an incident happens. It breaks every part of an individual. I have had friends were so strong, fight depression and do things they would have never done otherwise. They so strongly cling to any hope they might get for quite a long. And it takes time for them to recover from it and take necessary actions.

Rajdeep was an abusive guy but Kunal is a cheater. None is better than the other. But you are forgetting, that emotions are not just in one-dinensional zone. Breaking relationships is a tedious task for most people I have seen. And that struggle is real. What you are calling a doormat is an emotional vulnerability of Mauli at this moment which comes naturally in long-term relationships, even after cheating.

Emotional vulnerability is not just limited to weak emotional people or teenagers. It can come to anyone in any situation at any age. Even financially secure people are not aliens and away from vulnerable moments.

And yes, perfect partners get cheated in most of the scenarios. Bad partner is not the only reason to cheat.

Mauli will be dead for me if she doesn't divorce on the D-day. Until then, it's a test for her.

With respecting ur opinions i would just end here in the short note that this pathetic show is nowhere showing realism.

It's partly realistic I agree but there's a lot that viewers can't digest!
Like you've mentioned, organizing the birthday party was unrealistic and sadistic! Secondly I'd rather have Nandini shamelessly confront Mauli as well instead of crying all the time when she comes across her! That just gets on your nerves! N if she's been non apologetic throughout then what makes her ask Kunal to leave! If you aren't regretting then stick to it! Also she shouldn't have attempted to leave only to come back once Kunal stops her! The resolve was laughable! If they truly were struggling then they should've shown more resistance or there shouldn't have been any resistance at all. To me that would be more realistic and relatable! They could've just given in and continued with their lustful relationship!

Also even if you put the realistic/unrealistic arguments aside, what was the point of making this show??? With Mauli suffering and Kunan going their own merry way?? There's a lot of crazy stuff that happens in the real world but is that what people wanna watch??? That gets super monotonous! With a concept like that people expect the show to have a message, and "juzbaat sirf juzbaat hote hain is not a message that anyone would wanna watch!!! If that's the case then even incest is justified 🤢 like u mentioned about a mother marrying her son in law 🤢 Things happen and unless you want to have a truly animalistic society, you can't show such things in a positive light or through a neutral pov