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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_asya


And there you just violated the forum rule by personally attacking the member.
And you think that's an excusable behavior because you are trying to defend an actor that is playing a hated character like Nandini.
Atleast respect those you wish you stand for.

I HV not attacked any member.plz read twice.nd moreover I am not a fan of any actor/actress.didnt have that much time in life to defend an actor.i am only defending a woman as I am myself a woman.thanks.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz


I'll have to agree with you here. I agreed with her POV almost all the time, but she sometimes engaged in making snide remarks towards people with a different POV.

In her farewell thread too, she made sarcastic remarks towards a person who had tried to point out that constant shivering might be a symptom of anxiety attacks.

That being said, the Mod is this forum can be quite unreasonable at times. We're allowed to criticize but not mock? That's quite unrealistic since often the two go hand in hand.


oh I read the farewell post just now,she really refuses to understand others and introspect her faults😆..she remembers me referring to her as liar and hypocrite,she takes offence at another person who once said something like "people who mock nandini's shivering might mock real people behaving like this too" but she sees no fault in her multiple snide remarks for others,she sees no fault in herself when she says people who were discussing nandini's psychology lacked moral compass.
she says she adhered to every single rule, nobody told her personal attacks were against rules?😆
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@ bold yes on some forums of IF there isn't absolute freedom of expression,you can criticize but mocking and name calling characters is considered crossing limits.Frankly this does not bother me much as I can express my opinion on characters without mocking them but I suppose these restrictions can and do bother some others.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Feynmann

I HV not attacked any member.plz read twice.nd moreover I am not a fan of any actor/actress.didnt have that much time in life to defend an actor.i am only defending a woman as I am myself a woman.thanks.


OK. My bad. Just got the context of your previous comment. It referred to Kunal. Didn't get it at first.

Sincere apologies from my side.

But it still doesn't change the fact that she made no attempt to refuse or turn him down or showed any complex emotions after the action itself. Kunal is pathetic doesn't mean Nandini has to go that road as well.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Feynmann

Maybe it depends on people's choice.
I am 29nd a very open minded person.if this things happen s with me in this 21st century I would rather leave my husband ND might blame him fr whatever bt find no reason in blaming the other woman.if swearing is Soo good then why people blame others when they hear it in some shows(I will not take the name of the show).
Okk leave it.i am not a regular TV serial person.was just watching this serial for some days ND came to the forum ND got stunned by the words used.so just commented.my mistake.


Bold: Who isn't blaming the husband in this scenario? please show me one person on this forum that is not bashing Kunal and only bashing Nandini? Please, this is incredible that we have 5-10 post asking why Nandini isn't to be blamed (just go back few pages). there are more analyzing her "mental issues".
We dont bame Nandini because Kunal cheated on Mouli, we blame her because SHE backstabbed her friend by sleeping with the said friends husband. Are you saying that you in 21st century (idk why that is even relevant, but since its clearly of importance to you) would not blame your best friend if she slept with your husband? Can't the husband AND the woman best friend be blamed. Or are women in 21st centuty blameless by default? IS not not at fault for betraying Mouli? Is friendship a relationship without any responsibilities?

We are not open minded because we hold a friend accountable for betraying her best friend? I am sorry, but that is just too woke for me to even process. Maybe i am just that conservative but if i found out my BFF is sleeping with my husband I'd be mad. at BOTH of them. And no she doesn't get shift all the blame on the guy. She wasn't forced to sleep with him, she was well aware that he was married and that his wife loved him.

And to come back to mistress and prostitutes being bad words? uhhh since when? prostitute is a formal word. Bad words would be calling her"R*ndi" or even in english "wh*re" thats gross. And no has done it.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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We stand by Angels.. She was not wrong., the show n characters are seriously bringing that frustration..
Also, if we are allowed to appreciate good acting, why can't we criticise bad acting?

Nandini is a mistress so we r gonna call her that.. or MODs want us to call her Rakhail? Keep?

Kunal n Nandini are disgusting characters n if MODs are fans then they shd not be biased.

I want to know who is this vijay n how to contact him to change MOD n bring an unbiased one..
Edited by Ruhi122 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Please read my note in Angels' and Ruhi's threads.

Also please note that as long as the words being used aren't derogatory or namecalling they are allowed. There is a big difference between saying "Nandini is a mistress" and "Saali rakhail kahin ki". Or between "Kunal is a cheapster" and "Cheap creep wants to keep both women in his life". One is fine and the other is derogatory and namecalling in nature. The latter is not allowed.

Regards,

Shreya
Edited by Metis - 6 years ago

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