Flawed? Okay... But heartless? What's the excuse there?

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Miss-Behave

@Miss-Behave

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Posted: 6 years ago

So shakti in his recent interview said that kunal is a flawed character, not perfect. That goes for kunal and nandini both with the way they are acting. Flawed is the part I get, but what about the insensitive, heartless, inconsiderate and ignorant parts to their actions and attitude?

Nandini asserting rights on kunal and putting expectations on him to spend time with her as if she is his wife despite knowing mauli has got to know about both of their betrayal and instead of staying away and out of the picture out of guilt and shame for being caught in this affair, she is adamant on continuing the affair by showing up at mauli's house uninvited to see kunal out of jealousy of seeing him with mauli, not even considering that mauli is his wife who has rights on him, and she has no right on kunal, or that she should stop trying to come between mauli and her husband? Nandini also not caring about dida being sick because of her and kunal's actions, and in general her not giving a damn about the world's taunts, mauli's pain and suffering. What is merely flawed and not heartless and selfish about this?

Now look at kunal. Just like nandini is acting like he is her husband who should be spending time with her, kunal is ignoring his sick dida and her requests as well as mauli's pain, and betraying them both to go spend time with nandini as if she is his wife and he will be doing injustice to her by not spending time with this mistress of his. Kunal is shamelessly continuing to go behind his wife and family's back to talk to and spend time with nandini even despite the affair being disclosed and instead of staying away from nandini, cutting ties with her and trying to make up to his wife and family, he is not even attempting to make up and repent for his betrayal and instead only cares about spending time with nandini. How is this merely flawed?

I am so done with these two so-called flawed characters who neither give a damn about the betrayed friend/ husband whose hole life has gone upside down and has lost her smile over their betrayal, ans neither do they care about the sick dida who has once again given kunal a chance to rectify his mistake, and just in general only give a shit about one another. 🤬

To me, it seems like kunal just wants this pretense to end of this 1 month period of divorce and having to be with mauli and family for dida, and just wants to F off and live with nandini. Why doesn't he leave if he is firm on his decision that it is nandini he loves and wants to be with her? Why not leave mauli straight away, and leave his family who will definitely not accept him now with nandini on tow? My head hurts because of these two.

Edited by sammy17 - 6 years ago

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@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: kim-900

I really did not want to reply to your post but I will try to answer your rhetorical question.
First of all, would you not want to spend time your significant other regardless whether he is married or not?

That is a scary rhetorical question 🤣 I haven't had the desire to sleep with any married, or taken man yet (unless certain celebrity soccer players count). I pray to god that it remains that way. So hypothetically speaking, it is only natural to want to spend time with someone I love. But if the man was married I hope I would have enough common sense to understand that he is not mine, he belongs to someone else so I don't get to have him the way his wife would.

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sandiab

@sandiab

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: kim-900

I really did not want to reply to your post but I will try to answer your rhetorical question.
First of all, would you not want to spend time your significant other regardless whether he is married or not?
Nandini stepped really low when she cheated her friend what greater than that. Nandini sold her brain to Kunal and she sees nothing other than Kunal.She is very jealous and insecure type due to her longing for love and companionship. Kunal himself does not sympathise with Mauli instead he feels guilty and these two is different if you feel sympathy than you try to ease their pain and you want to make them feel comfortable.
Kunal feels guilty for hurting her and he wishes if told her the truth, his love for Nandini he considers it his right and no can stop from loving his love Nandini.
That's love, makes you selfish and makes you mean person and you only sacrifice if the person you love does not love you back or your love causes them troubles or danger.

the problem with kunal is that his expressions are saying one thing and actions another. every time mauli tells him off and moves away. his expressions are confusing to me coz I feel like I am watching someone who is brat thinking well if u act like u dnt care about me I wnt care about u. if mauli was running after him begging him to work on their relationship and he had more control in the relationship I think we might have a very different story after the revelation. I think he would love to control mauli

bT then he just seems pissed to be around his family
the reason why he is with rondini is coz she is weak and useless and dependant on him.

this character does not know wat he wants and is useless
nandu is a useless B

Edited by sandiab - 6 years ago

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sandiab

@sandiab

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Posted: 6 years ago

there is flawed and then there is Nandini

to her mauli does not exist.

also it maybe that CVS are seeing the hate and finally throwing this character under the bus and making her negative. coz no flawed positive character would act like this. I also feel like with the other colors leads character trying to help mauli and kunal. that very soon kunal will realise the error of his ways and nandu will be kicked to the curb. also no positive character will say that as soon as I call kunal will come running. that line reeked of a character being negative.

Edited by Metis - 6 years ago

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Rosh4rose

@Rosh4rose

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: sandiab
there is flawed and then there is Nandini

to her mauli does not exist.

also it maybe that CVS are seeing the hate and finally throwing this character under the bus and making her negative. coz no flawed positive character would act like this. I also feel like with the other colors leads character trying to help mauli and kunal. that very soon kunal will realise the error of his ways and nandu will be kicked to the curb. also no positive character will say that as soon as I call kunal will come running. that line reeked of a character being negative.

Nandini is really shameless
That is true , after all these she still wants ...That man
... 😆 ...

Edited by Metis - 6 years ago

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madlal

@madlal

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Posted: 6 years ago

Like Shakti mentioned in one of the interviews, both Nandini and Kunal are going through a period of smelling roses. The new spark that they have acquired after them falling in love with each other has made them selfish and unaware of anyone but themselves.

Even today Kunal is just sorry that he has hurt Mauli, He is never guilty of loving Nandini. He still feels their love is right and let the society go to hell. This is always the attitude of any cheaters. They will justify their actions with rights even though they know it is wrong. They have to have the other half and they will continue to justify until the spark fades away.

Kunal is in love and he wants Nandini constantly. He will do anything and everything to be with her. Mauli is nowhere in his picture. He still feels he has done Mauli wrong but is making no attempt to correct that mistake. Which is usually the case. Why should he correct the mistake?FOr him, he is not wrong. He is in love. His love for Nandini surpasses his love for Mauli.

Nandini is guilty, she knows she has done her best friend wrong, but that is not the point for her right now. Right now she is fighting for her man quietly.sadly.She is given hope again and again by Kunal. Hum log Saath rahenge and so on. She truly believes that. She was starved for hope and love and companionship that even after all that happened, she still believes Kunal is finally going to be hers. That belief is going to be the death of hers. She will always be the other woman. But she is not ready to

accept that. For her, Kunal will give her Maan, Sammaan and all the crap that she thinks, But she does not know she is the other ANNA KARENINA who will jump into the oncoming train and gives up her life once she realizes there is no one for her.

Just like how Nandini betrayed her best friend, ANNA betrayed her niece even after knowing that her niece loves Vronsky, Anna shamelessly went after him and caught him. But was she happy? No. But during their period of courtship, the only thing Anna and Vronsky were thinking of was themselves, how they can spend time with each other, even though their actions were hurting Anna's family and Vronsky's family. They did not care. That is what is happening to Kunal and Nandini right now. But life will catch up to them soon and then all hell will break loose.

Edited by madlal - 6 years ago

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 6 years ago

@madlal kunal has mpd like nandu . On what basis are you saying that he doesnt care for society ? While clicking the family pic , he is asking mauli to come closer so that people dont make fun of them . What was that ? And then he was ready to take out nandu on temple and ice cream dates in front of the same people .

Rest i agree with you ..why would they say that they are wrong ?

@sammy great post .

Edited by _charu_ - 6 years ago

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Rinnks

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: kim-900

I really did not want to reply to your post but I will try to answer your rhetorical question.
First of all, would you not want to spend time your significant other regardless whether he is married or not?
Nandini stepped really low when she cheated her friend what greater than that. Nandini sold her brain to Kunal and she sees nothing other than Kunal.She is very jealous and insecure type due to her longing for love and companionship. Kunal himself does not sympathise with Mauli instead he feels guilty and these two is different if you feel sympathy than you try to ease their pain and you want to make them feel comfortable.
Kunal feels guilty for hurting her and he wishes if told her the truth, his love for Nandini he considers it his right and no can stop from loving his love Nandini.
That's love, makes you selfish and makes you mean person and you only sacrifice if the person you love does not love you back or your love causes them troubles or danger.

So there is no importance of marital vows n commitment? Oh so suddenly one falls in love with someone n without thinking of wifey, jumps into EMA? Ok, so he fell in love. Could he not control? Could she not control? I mean being in love justifies wrong doing too? Oh he/she is in love, they don't see right n wrong.. and done, EMA justified.

Edited by Ruhi122 - 6 years ago

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Orchid

@_OrChiD_

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Posted: 6 years ago

This show's every actor should stop giving IV's.

Today I heard someone saying that old generation values marriage and this generation not much. Like really? Your show under scanner because this generation values commitment, loyalty too. This generation hates cheating and betrayal too .

They all are unaware of any reality.

They lives in milkshake world!!😆

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Miss-Behave

@Miss-Behave

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: _OrChiD_
This show's every actor should stop giving IV's.
Today I heard someone saying that old generation values marriage and this generation not much. Like really? Your show under scanner because this generation values commitment, loyalty too. This generation hates cheating and betrayal too .

They all are unaware of any reality.

They lives in milkshake world!!😆

LOL milkshake world. I don't know what to make of that but I guess I know what you mean kind of 😆 Whoever said that has lost their mind due to contractual obligation to speak positively about this show. Who said the current generation doesn't respect or value old generation views on marriage? Like you said, even us young gen believe loyalty, commitment and trust is necessary for a relationship to last and we want that in our relationships too. What a load of bollocks.

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Flawed? Okay... But heartless? What's the excuse there?

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