Why didn't I feel bad for Nandini? - Page 2

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

In the Mahila Morcha incident, I didn't feel a thing for Nandini, mostly because at first I was confused as to why Nandini is smirking, I was wondering is she turning into a complete black character but a friend helped me understand it was not the character but actor, that was a turn off to be honest..

Let's look at the scene
1 Rajdeep paid women to humiliate Nandini - It was done by villain of the show to hurt the female lead, it was not done by society with the intention of realization, the intention was whitewashing Nandini, because the fact remains that Rajdeep did not lie everything he said about Nandini was true but because Rajdeep said it, it becomes a lie and that's the reason writer uses Rajdeep, he is a white paint for Nandini's character.

2 None in the society saw what happened - Mumbai is a place where none gives a damn about what you are doing, Nandini was humiliated in front of women who were paid to humiliate her, they don't care about Nandini, they want money that's it, so where exactly is the humiliation?

3 Nandini in trauma - I think the only way this could have effected her was mentally and she shivered for 15 minutes that's it, that's the end of all the hoopla, it takes me more time to come out of trauma of watching every episode (Sometimes I feel like a sadist)

4 Aftermath of the event - Nandini didn't even have to fight Rajdeep for divorce, Nandini's majnu gifted her freedom, it was that easy to get rid of Rajdeep, since Nandini is going to be a businesswoman and whitewashing process is complete they don't need him for a few years

It all comes down to what did Nandini lose?
Yes, she cried but the woman thrives on tears, that's her daily routine, shaking and crying is her USP
She gained her freedom, her love
Who's the loser here?
Again in all this the only loser is Mauli, sometimes I feel it's easy for Nandini, she isn't answerable to anyone, Mauli submitted divorce papers, she was obviously hurt but there was none to console her, Nandini got her freedom, Nandini does not have to live with a man who wronged her but Dida is forcing Mauli to stay with her Rajdeep. What I don't understand is that kunal spent 7 years with Mauli, I can understand he doesn't love her anymore but doesn't she deserve a little bit of decency from this man? He can free Nandini, he can say how his love is not wrong then why can't he tell HIS grandmother that it's not upto Mauli to give him a chance because HE does not love Mauli?

Why would I feel bad for Nandini when everything is being served in a platter to her from freedom to love? Where Mauli doesn't get an ounce of it?
Writer said that immorality won't be promoted and there will be consequences, what exactly did Mauli do to go through this pain? She just helped a snake and I understand she has to pay the price but still for how long?

So bang on! 👏

They should stop this overdose of violence with Nandini. They should find other ways to gain sympathy. It's annoying. They themselves have made Nandini such a pukeworthy character, it's tough to feel anything for her. Having said that, no human deserves such treatment. There's a way to deal with it. There's a reason I find Mauli as perfectly written character till now ( don't know about future). She didn't stoop to violence level even when she got to know she was cheated in worst possible way, still she didn't even slap any of Looney. She didn't use any derogatory word. That's what I call class. One need high level tolerance to not misbahave with people like kunnu-nannu.

Originally posted by: Rithu0203

True.

Amidst these things, till y'day I was expecting Nandini to think a little bit for her friend Mauli. But, now no more hopes from her. She didn't value the friendship.

She didn't even realize what wrong she did even after all these happenings.

Can understand in y'day's episode she was in panic attack, not in her senses to think about anyone else.

But, when Kunal came with divorce papers signed by Rajdeep, initially she wants Kunal to leave with the reasons that those ppl will come again, she is dirty, Kunal is good human etc. But, not even once about Mauli or that he should be with Mauli.

And when she was told that he will be with her, she accepted it without what will happen to his wife and his family.

Even before, she didn't have a bit of conscience about her actions, about her betrayal to her bff. Howcome, a person be this much selfish, blind or mad in love especially from a man?

And not only Rajdeep is used by writers to whitewash Nandini's actions, but Kunal also will be used.

Seems like Nandini will again be shown as a victim due to Kunal's cheating[by agreeing to dida's conditions]. Like yet another man cheated on her, atleast that time wish Nandini to introspect herself, what she is doing and see the reality.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

In the Mahila Morcha incident, I didn't feel a thing for Nandini, mostly because at first I was confused as to why Nandini is smirking, I was wondering is she turning into a complete black character but a friend helped me understand it was not the character but actor, that was a turn off to be honest..

Let's look at the scene
1 Rajdeep paid women to humiliate Nandini - It was done by villain of the show to hurt the female lead, it was not done by society with the intention of realization, the intention was whitewashing Nandini, because the fact remains that Rajdeep did not lie everything he said about Nandini was true but because Rajdeep said it, it becomes a lie and that's the reason writer uses Rajdeep, he is a white paint for Nandini's character.

2 None in the society saw what happened - Mumbai is a place where none gives a damn about what you are doing, Nandini was humiliated in front of women who were paid to humiliate her, they don't care about Nandini, they want money that's it, so where exactly is the humiliation?

3 Nandini in trauma - I think the only way this could have effected her was mentally and she shivered for 15 minutes that's it, that's the end of all the hoopla, it takes me more time to come out of trauma of watching every episode (Sometimes I feel like a sadist)

4 Aftermath of the event - Nandini didn't even have to fight Rajdeep for divorce, Nandini's majnu gifted her freedom, it was that easy to get rid of Rajdeep, since Nandini is going to be a businesswoman and whitewashing process is complete they don't need him for a few years

It all comes down to what did Nandini lose?
Yes, she cried but the woman thrives on tears, that's her daily routine, shaking and crying is her USP
She gained her freedom, her love
Who's the loser here?
Again in all this the only loser is Mauli, sometimes I feel it's easy for Nandini, she isn't answerable to anyone, Mauli submitted divorce papers, she was obviously hurt but there was none to console her, Nandini got her freedom, Nandini does not have to live with a man who wronged her but Dida is forcing Mauli to stay with her Rajdeep. What I don't understand is that kunal spent 7 years with Mauli, I can understand he doesn't love her anymore but doesn't she deserve a little bit of decency from this man? He can free Nandini, he can say how his love is not wrong then why can't he tell HIS grandmother that it's not upto Mauli to give him a chance because HE does not love Mauli?

Why would I feel bad for Nandini when everything is being served in a platter to her from freedom to love? Where Mauli doesn't get an ounce of it?
Writer said that immorality won't be promoted and there will be consequences, what exactly did Mauli do to go through this pain? She just helped a snake and I understand she has to pay the price but still for how long?

I do not know why CVS torturing nandini. Instead of creating sympathy it is creating irritation for me

Good post...anyone in twitter? Screenshot this post and tag writer @GajraKottary

Not only u...i too felt no sympathy wen she was attacked by those ladies...everything the ladies said about nandini was right...it's her karma..she did wrong so getting punished..kunal too getting punished like rajdeep beat him second accident etc..rajdeep too getting punished going to jail etc...but wen this maharani is punished we should show sympathy...but i have no sympathy...she deserve it...infact mauli should have slapped tht besharam woman...(besharam as she herself tagged)

One line that i like the most is everything put on platter for Nandini by Kunal n Mauli. How long she is goin to be victim.

Bhagwan bhi uski madad nahi kar sakta jo khud ki madad nahi karte.
EMA also shown in kehne ko hum safar hai but show n character didn't get such black slash because its hv better execution and u feel for each character simultaneously.

Even I didnt feel bad for her.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

In the Mahila Morcha incident, I didn't feel a thing for Nandini, mostly because at first I was confused as to why Nandini is smirking, I was wondering is she turning into a complete black character but a friend helped me understand it was not the character but actor, that was a turn off to be honest..

Let's look at the scene
1 Rajdeep paid women to humiliate Nandini - It was done by villain of the show to hurt the female lead, it was not done by society with the intention of realization, the intention was whitewashing Nandini, because the fact remains that Rajdeep did not lie everything he said about Nandini was true but because Rajdeep said it, it becomes a lie and that's the reason writer uses Rajdeep, he is a white paint for Nandini's character.

2 None in the society saw what happened - Mumbai is a place where none gives a damn about what you are doing, Nandini was humiliated in front of women who were paid to humiliate her, they don't care about Nandini, they want money that's it, so where exactly is the humiliation?

3 Nandini in trauma - I think the only way this could have effected her was mentally and she shivered for 15 minutes that's it, that's the end of all the hoopla, it takes me more time to come out of trauma of watching every episode (Sometimes I feel like a sadist)

4 Aftermath of the event - Nandini didn't even have to fight Rajdeep for divorce, Nandini's majnu gifted her freedom, it was that easy to get rid of Rajdeep, since Nandini is going to be a businesswoman and whitewashing process is complete they don't need him for a few years

It all comes down to what did Nandini lose?
Yes, she cried but the woman thrives on tears, that's her daily routine, shaking and crying is her USP
She gained her freedom, her love
Who's the loser here?
Again in all this the only loser is Mauli, sometimes I feel it's easy for Nandini, she isn't answerable to anyone, Mauli submitted divorce papers, she was obviously hurt but there was none to console her, Nandini got her freedom, Nandini does not have to live with a man who wronged her but Dida is forcing Mauli to stay with her Rajdeep. What I don't understand is that kunal spent 7 years with Mauli, I can understand he doesn't love her anymore but doesn't she deserve a little bit of decency from this man? He can free Nandini, he can say how his love is not wrong then why can't he tell HIS grandmother that it's not upto Mauli to give him a chance because HE does not love Mauli?

Why would I feel bad for Nandini when everything is being served in a platter to her from freedom to love? Where Mauli doesn't get an ounce of it?
Writer said that immorality won't be promoted and there will be consequences, what exactly did Mauli do to go through this pain? She just helped a snake and I understand she has to pay the price but still for how long?