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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yeah, we all know that. Extra Marital Affairs happen and homebreakers exist.

But the thing I want to say is , in reality you don't get to see a proper vamp..U get to see shades of grey in people. Like Nandini has...There are people who do so wrong to you ..while in their heads, they think they are right , they are innocent and when the same thing happens to them, they cry buckets..
Nandini cried when Rajdeep slept with other woman. She has never had a stand , not for herself, even not for her unborn baby...She couldn't stop Rajdeep from doing this because well, we know. Yet, she doesn't realize she did the same. With her best friend's husband. Nandini , I feel, has always been appreciated by people since childhood that she is 'sanskaari', fine lady etc. So even when she has slept with Kunal, she has that notion in her head that whatever she has done is divine. Because she has always been a fine lady and God will never let her do wrong. She wants to justify the intercourse by uphailing it in the name of God.
In the previous episode, she kept saying to Mauli - ' Hamara vishwas karo, humne jaan boojh ke nhi kiya ' ..
1) Vishwaas ? You seriously expect her to trust you ? Ki tum '' jaan boojh '' ke nahi soyi thi Kunal ke saath ... Agar '' jaan boojh '' ke nahi soyi, to unknowingly bhi nahi ...
She is just saying things for the sake of saying them. She doesn't introspect what she's saying and so she doesn't realize the stupidity of her statements.
2) So Nandini, what do you want Mauli to do ? Forgive you ? Then what ? You will still continue seeing Kunal, So you expect this whole situation to turn into bigamy.

Nandini , you need to understand that if u were fine with sharing your husband with another girl, that doesnot mean every other woman does that !

There are people for whom you do a lot but in return they stab you. This is one of those cases. Nandini has wronged Mauli.

The thing that all of these discussions are taking place is because these characters have not been shown as proper vamps, unlike other scenarios where people involved in EMA are shown , with a very cunning kind of background score playing.
That is why, reality is different. Its complex. You can't tell looking at a person if he/she will backstab you. You don't get to see proper vamps, you get to see Nandini,

You don't get to see black and white in reality. You get to see GREY.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yes People like Nandini do exist. My friend (just a college, not bestie) had a thing for my boyfriend 3 years back .I knew and even he knew but he made it clear that he treats her only as friend.
There were major Red flags in my relationship but I cudnt understand. He always emotionally blackmailed me to get physical. I cudnt but on his bday, when he insisted I cudnt say No and we did it. And after that he gave me a oral contraceptive bcz of which I bled after 2 days profusely. When I called him to tell, She picks the call and cuts it !!
I called back and this time he picked it . When I asked him what is he doing with her, he cut my call .I msgs him dat I m bleeding. And he replied Whatever happened was with mutual consent and he isn't obligated to help me
I was crying the whole night while he must be busy doing with her . That was the End . I left my job, changed state, changed number, I cut off all mutual friends ...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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You have emerged out stronger girl. I wish it doesn't happen with anyone.



Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Yes People like Nandini do exist. My friend (just a college, not bestie) had a thing for my boyfriend 3 years back .I knew and even he knew but he made it clear that he treats her only as friend.

There were major Red flags in my relationship but I cudnt understand. He always emotionally blackmailed me to get physical. I cudnt but on his bday, when he insisted I cudnt say No and we did it. And after that he gave me a oral contraceptive bcz of which I bled after 2 days profusely. When I called him to tell, She picks the call and cuts it !!
I called back and this time he picked it . When I asked him what is he doing with her, he cut my call .I msgs him dat I m bleeding. And he replied Whatever happened was with mutual consent and he isn't obligated to help me
I was crying the whole night while he must be busy doing with her . That was the End . I left my job, changed state, changed number, I cut off all mutual friends ...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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if CVs want to show Nandini as home wrecker then cvs should have not shown mauli and Nandini as best friend


or they want to show two best friends can't remain friends forever when a man come into their life ?


and I don't why there is only Kunal to help Nandini

I understand Nandini need love support but when she is in critical situation but why it has to be Kunal

why cvs don't bring another guy for Nandini

another can also help Nandini


if keep CVs keep showing life threatening situations again And if Kunal will again support he help her then Nandini bonding with Kunal.become strong more and she will not able to forget Kunal

so either CVs stop showing life threatening for Nandini or if they want to show life threatening situations again and again for Nandini then please bring other unmarried guy to help and support Nandini so that Nandini able to come out of Kunal jaap



it is understandable that after lot of torture by rajdeep she needs love and support . but it should not be Kunal healing her wound .it should be another another guy to heal her wound
Edited by surabhi01 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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True that. I so agree with every sentence.
Women can be independent and shouldn't be shown that their existence is not possible without man

Originally posted by: surabhi01

if CVs want to show Nandini as home wrecker then cvs should have not shown mauli and Nandini as best friend


or they want to show two best friends can't remain friends forever when a man come into their life ?


and I don't why there is only Kunal to help Nandini

I understand Nandini need love support but when she is in critical situation but why it has to be Kunal

why cvs don't bring another guy for Nandini

another can also help Nandini


if keep CVs keep showing life threatening situations again And if Kunal will again support he help her then Nandini bonding with Kunal.become strong more and she will not able to forget Kunal

so either CVs stop showing life threatening for Nandini or if they want to show life threatening situations again and again for Nandini then please bring other unmarried guy to help and support Nandini so that Nandini able to come out of Kunal jaap



it is understandable that after lot of torture by rajdeep she needs love and support . but it should not be Kunal healing her wound .it should be another another guy to heal her wound

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Yes People like Nandini do exist. My friend (just a college, not bestie) had a thing for my boyfriend 3 years back .I knew and even he knew but he made it clear that he treats her only as friend.

There were major Red flags in my relationship but I cudnt understand. He always emotionally blackmailed me to get physical. I cudnt but on his bday, when he insisted I cudnt say No and we did it. And after that he gave me a oral contraceptive bcz of which I bled after 2 days profusely. When I called him to tell, She picks the call and cuts it !!
I called back and this time he picked it . When I asked him what is he doing with her, he cut my call .I msgs him dat I m bleeding. And he replied Whatever happened was with mutual consent and he isn't obligated to help me
I was crying the whole night while he must be busy doing with her . That was the End . I left my job, changed state, changed number, I cut off all mutual friends ...

I am so sorry. But I know you deserve better. You have shown your strength by walking away and allowing yourself the chance for a happy life. I am so proud of you!
Edited by kiransgirl - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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This post is spot on. There are people like this in real life. They don't think what they do is wrong and they honestly don't care about the lives they ruin. They will justify anything. Yes, it happens. I have already discussed in another post how a friend of mine in college caught her best friend and boyfriend cheating. Thankfully, she moved on.
I think also that some of the reactions in posts here also mirror behavior of beliefs in real life. You just have to read closely🤢 But it is the truth.
I do know this though: liars and cheaters hurt themselves. Their darkness does not escape them. When you have a good heart, you see goodness in everyone; when you are a cheater and a liar, you will never ever trust anyone because you think everyone is like this. You see that is their punishment. They will never have peace.

Hold your head high and do the right thing.

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