Why Mauli is better than Nandini

You took the words right out of my mouth. 👍🏼

First of all relieved that as seen elsewhere, there was no

if we compare the characters, most of us can relate to mauli.

Originally posted by: SweetNeeta

First of all relieved that as seen elsewhere, there was no

hysterics on path of M, just trying to seek answers,

and guaging where she went wrong, or what really was

missing for K's actions. The first selfless act was to

give him the keys inspite of her world falling apart in

front of her, and even through her pain, trying to make

sense of everything.

For N it will always be self first. Perhaps after so many

years of being totally walked over the minute she got

sympathy or divine love, she just took hold of it, and

behaved totally selfishly. Saddest part, she forgot

whom she betrayed, or that she will never have the

rock solid support or love of a true friend like Mauli

ever again.

Nandini always chose a man over Mauli. Earlier it was Rajdeep, now Kunal. To her her entire existence revolves around satisfying a man. Its like she cant live without a man & by that I dont mean physical, sex etc. Her mindset is that a woman needs a man to survive this big, bad world. She is dependent coz she likes being dependent.

Originally posted by: Anahi

if we compare the characters, most of us can relate to mauli.

she is an educated girl, hardworking, fearless, honest to her job and her family, she is giving, she is emotional, cute, flirt, seductress too 😆 awww i am never gonna see her in that avtar..

she is a perfect wife , bahu , person and what not.. she has a pure heart.. kunal has lost a gem. well lets not talk about him..

what makes her different from nandini is others-come-first thing.. she always gave importance to work than her personal life because she is a doctor and a patients life is more important than anything. when kunal felt sidelined she took her time out from her busy schedule to make him feel special.. when nandini entered into picture she always remembered that nandini should not be left alone and saved her from rajdeep blocking his way many times.. she made sure that nandini should feel at home, nandini should be encouraged to do something good in life.. kunal kept talking big about his dreams but did nothing.. she did.! she made his dream their dream and worked hard for it..

but she never compromise with her morals while pleasing others. she was never delusional she was never self centred.. she tried to balance things and thats what makes her the best in my eyes..

if i talk about nandini... ummm i find her very delusional and she has no sense of right and wrong. if i talk about qualities she was just a regular house wife before and now she has become the other woman..

she was a nice human being but what she lacks is the sense of right and wrong.. she didnt trust mauli in the past , give in to the demands of rajdeep and kunal too..

@angels11 - ayyye dont write sorry . we can have different opinions about things. see, i wrote "she WAS a nice person" . i agree what she has done is despicable and shameful. now she is no more a good person in my eyes..

Nandini has been turning out worse with every passing day. Her defence that humne sirf pyaar kiya... Calling K and saying Bechari Mauli, and shedding some crocodile tears for her when she didn't even think once that it was her betrayal which is hurting her more and she wants her freindship along with Love?? Like what the heck ... How can be this selfish even now...

There was one very big thing i kind of noticed!!
Inspite of kunal being her husband...inspite of being intimate with him for years...the girl dint let him touch her the moment she came to know he is with someone else!!! She held her dignity intact..she dint get swayed by his concern or watever it was at the moment although it was the most vulnerable moment of her life!! It just made me say you go my girl at that minute!!

And then there was Nandini...she never had tat conscience...of whether she is doing wrong or not!! She just gave in to the touch of this man without even being bothered abt the fact that he belongs to someone else!! Where is her dignity here! Was she ever trying to come out of her past abuses truely? O dont think so!!!
An domestic abuse victim takes years to come out trauma and will never let any man touch her just like tat...i really cant comprehend how she gave in so easily after being man handled and raped by a guy!!

And this dignity required no education!!! It required self respect...and integrity!! Nandini lacks tat completely!! U cant say that she was mentally physically abused which is why she has none of this left...being a victim herself these women try to never hurt another woman the same way!! This reasoning of hers cant be used again and again to cover up the "sins she has commited