Why isn't Nandini thrown out?

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Alohomora_
So crying is manipulation but chasing and stalking someone,coercing her for a love confession, physically blocking her way from leaving, making big big promises to her of their love being RIGHT and TRUE ,promising to be there for her and yet having second thoughts about meeting her one day after having sex isnt manipulation at all right? And I didnt see you call out on K's manipulation anywhere. I read only N being blamed by you and couple of others as well as though h eis a 2 year old toddler who gets easily manipulated !

In today's episode, Kunal manipulated her into confessing something she didn't want to & for that he blackmailed her by saying that he won't eat unless she does what he wants. That's manipulation in every sense.

And what did Nandini do? Agreed to comply.

The whole thing is that Nandini isn't putting a stop anywhere. With every demand Kunal puts forward & she complies without question, she gets deep into the manipulation. And then she will reach a point, where she will find it impossible to say NO to him. Often manipulation, harassment and other things are shown as romance on TV. He asked her to put rose on her hair- she did, he asked to confess- complied again, dress in red- complied, hug him-complied, cook for him- complied, asked to stay in park- complied & all those things on his demand. She has gone blind in pleasing him without question & she doesn't even realize that she is being manipulated into pleasing the man again. She was trying hard to do it with Rajdeep too by making him good food, dressing up for him & again she is doing the same thing. Rajdeep never appreciated her, Kunal is using appreciation to surround her in a trance that he wants her to believe.

Nandini isn't using what's her right, a weapon she can use- a sentence called NO. Absence of her conscience at this point is leading her to a dangerous relationship which is bad for her the most & Kunal is using love to drag her onto this path. So, the question is when will Nandini wake up? Nandini at this point is submissive to Kunal only because she thinks Kunal isn't abusive like Rajdeep.

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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

In today's episode, Kunal manipulated her into confessing something she didn't want to & for that he blackmailed her by saying that he won't eat unless she does what he wants. That's manipulation in every sense.

And what did Nandini do? Agreed to comply.

The whole thing is that Nandini isn't putting a stop anywhere. With every demand Kunal puts forward & she complies without question, she gets deep into the manipulation. And then she will reach a point, where she will find it impossible to say NO to him. Often manipulation, harassment and other things are shown as romance on TV. He asked her to put rose on her hair- she did, he asked to confess- complied again, dress in red- complied, hug him-complied, cook for him- complied, asked to stay in park- complied & all those things on his demand. She has gone blind in pleasing him without question & she doesn't even realize that she is being manipulated into pleasing the man again. She was trying hard to do it with Rajdeep too by making him good food, dressing up for him & again she is doing the same thing. Rajdeep never appreciated her, Kunal is using appreciation to surround her in a trance that he wants her to believe.

Nandini isn't using what's her right, a weapon she can use- a sentence called NO. Absence of her conscience at this point is leading her to a dangerous relationship which is bad for her the most & Kunal is using love to drag her onto this path. So, the question is when will Nandini wake up? Nandini at this point is submissive to Kunal only because she thinks Kunal isn't abusive like Rajdeep.

I have the same questions as you Asya. She does comply with him in everything that he says maybe because this is the first time she is experiencing what she feels is love and affection after years of being tortured and feeling unwanted and she is rather BLINDLY lapping it up.I guess she will wake up and snap out of her trance only when reality strikes her hard- the reality of their affair and how it would break her friend completely. She probably will be highly guilt ridden then but unfortunately it would be too late and the damage would already have been done. From that point on where the story goes we will have to wait and see.

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kiransgirl

@kiransgirl

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Posted: 6 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Alohomora_
So Kunal chases her for a confession right from day one, physically blocks her way from leaving the city for good,convinces and emotionally manipulates her saying what they are doing is RIGHT and TRUE LOVE. But Nandini somehow is the ONLY villain and manipulator suddenly? WOW!! Hypocrisy of our society by and large.Admi kuch bhi kare give him a free pass. But how dare a woman do the same thing..lets start calling her a wh**e s**t bitch prostitute vamp etc etc.

Actually everyone mostly blame BOTH cheaters. I don't see anyone supporting Kunal. In fact, I tend to blame him more because, after all, he is the one breaking his vows to his wife. And I get really sick and tired of this nonsense about patriarchy and how we are blaming a poor women. If she is a cheater, I am not giving her a pass because she's supposedly a woman. She's a nasty character. I mean despicable

Also please stop insulting prostitutes. Prostitutes don't like their jobs. Chances are they have no choice. They have been driven to engage in such jobs. Nandini is in a class by herself. She's a prostitute by choice.

Spare me the man v. women, victimhood crap.She doesn't get a pass

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