To all those who think it's just fiction !

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well , firstly television reaches out far and wide . And if you begin to justify Extra Marital Affairs is it really fair ? You know why there's a backlash ? BECAUSE IT IS WRONG . And wrong in no form should be promoted . By putting this content on TV they're normalizing and in fact glorifying CHEATING .
I've been cheated on in a relationship of mine . Can y'all fathom how heartbreaking it is ? The one person you've placed your trust on , love in decides to fall prey to his attraction ? Do you know in real life , you start viewing every relationship as bad , your self esteem takes a hit , you begin to question your self worth . Do you know the pain that comes along . That's why I relate to Mauli and in her case , it's worse it's her best friend as well . I can't believe people think it's just fiction , it is , but fiction affects the minds of people a few maybe like , we know how to differentiate yeah you do , great , Kudos ! But a lot of people don't and minds like those will be impacted negatively .

In real life at any given point you're bound to meet people more attractive than your partners , but does that mean you cheat on them ? No. No relationship would survive then . That's it .

Mauli's breakdown today was me a year ago over my absolutely horrible boyfriend . You learn to move on, you forgive but this period of self loathing is something you can ever forget. This pain .

EMA is Not Ruhani Aarzoo . Nor is cheating your girlfriend or anyone for that matter . Both Kunal and Nandini are horrible people . The END .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Fiction plays on people minds. Tv shows also impact several households. My sister mother in law was like tv's vamps mother in laws. So yes tv makes a impact even on educated people 😆
Tv has a responsibility as mass media. U cant show crap n expect people to enjoy.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree..but we must give the makers a chance to tell their story , it all depends on what and how they will show maulis journey and whether or not the "it" couple pay for their sins
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You're absolutely right!
I think it's not even about TV affecting people negatively it's more about promoting the wrong! We now live in times where some people believe it's completely ok have EMA.
They believe there's no right or wrong thus no morals either. So if people start glorifying EMA now, they'll also be justifying incest later leading to an animalistic society
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yes, u r absolutely right!
Entertainment business , any form , does influence our society. We may be the blessed few who can differentiate bw real n reel but there r thousands out there who gets drawn towards this glamour world. They think whatever they show r true. Why is there so many drop outs from school? Why Teenagers elope n get married? Young ppl run away from home, mostly from villages and come to these big metros wishing to join the film industry.? All this is becos they get drawn by what they see. They believe that what is shown on the screen may even happen to them. In India, TV is a very powerful media. It reaches even the remotest villages. These villages may not even have a theatre or even a proper hospital but they will surely have TVs at home. That's why channels should have an eye on what they show. A show may be regressive but in the end the vamp or villain will always be punished. But here they r glorifying EMA and that's wrong. In no society EMA is right! Silsila would have been welcomed if they had shown kunan as grey characters n not whitewashed everything by bring God into this mess.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheAphrodite

Well , firstly television reaches out far and wide . And if you begin to justify Extra Marital Affairs is it really fair ? You know why there's a backlash ? BECAUSE IT IS WRONG . And wrong in no form should be promoted . By putting this content on TV they're normalizing and in fact glorifying CHEATING .

I've been cheated on in a relationship of mine . Can y'all fathom how heartbreaking it is ? The one person you've placed your trust on , love in decides to fall prey to his attraction ? Do you know in real life , you start viewing every relationship as bad , your self esteem takes a hit , you begin to question your self worth . Do you know the pain that comes along . That's why I relate to Mauli and in her case , it's worse it's her best friend as well . I can't believe people think it's just fiction , it is , but fiction affects the minds of people a few maybe like , we know how to differentiate yeah you do , great , Kudos ! But a lot of people don't and minds like those will be impacted negatively .

In real life at any given point you're bound to meet people more attractive than your partners , but does that mean you cheat on them ? No. No relationship would survive then . That's it .

EMA is Not Ruhani Aarzoo . Nor is cheating your girlfriend or anyone for that matter . Both Kunal and Nandini are horrible people . The END .





Absolutely agree buddy. I had posted similiar topic much before when nothing like this was shown so that if v have majority votes v might be able to convey the makers that v are not keen to watch their show. There was a mixed response so I realised that as much as people don't like what's expected there are also people who were fine with the stuff shown. I anyways stopped watching the show there and then. Though I don't know what is happening now, I do check news sometimes or the forum as somewhere feel the storyline might have not been like how I thought or people might have started speaking out. I saw news that the show has started showing the bond between Nandini and Kunal and really feel people had doubts this would happen then. Now atleast they should react, this storyline should not be supported.

It might be a story but people watch it as they like it right so why not comment talk and show their dislike. I see many saying they are not in favour of what is being shown so why not convey that message.

Makes are only concerned with trps and they can change the story as per the trps. Extra marital affairs are absolutely possible and happening but the kind of environment shown in this serial does not in anyway justify one. Here it has only happened to add masala and because people are watching. This is just moulded for the sake but it is not justified at all not to Mauli not to any husban-wife who really love each other and even not to genuine friendship. For me all these relations matter and when they were also so well formed here an extra marital affair can't be. It just takes away that trust from any relationship so people should not support the storyline.
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Today's breakdown . So heartbreaking .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Am I the only one who finds this story heavily influenced by Sridevi, Boney Kapoor and Mona Shourie. 🤔 It doesn't look that fictional
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Originally posted by: ~*sindhu*~

Am I the only one who finds this story heavily influenced by Sridevi, Boney Kapoor and Mona Shourie. 🤔 It doesn't look that fictional


How much pain Mona Shourie must've gone through ! Just how much .
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Originally posted by: TheAphrodite

Well , firstly television reaches out far and wide . And if you begin to justify Extra Marital Affairs is it really fair ? You know why there's a backlash ? BECAUSE IT IS WRONG . And wrong in no form should be promoted . By putting this content on TV they're normalizing and in fact glorifying CHEATING .

I've been cheated on in a relationship of mine . Can y'all fathom how heartbreaking it is ? The one person you've placed your trust on , love in decides to fall prey to his attraction ? Do you know in real life , you start viewing every relationship as bad , your self esteem takes a hit , you begin to question your self worth . Do you know the pain that comes along . That's why I relate to Mauli and in her case , it's worse it's her best friend as well . I can't believe people think it's just fiction , it is , but fiction affects the minds of people a few maybe like , we know how to differentiate yeah you do , great , Kudos ! But a lot of people don't and minds like those will be impacted negatively .

In real life at any given point you're bound to meet people more attractive than your partners , but does that mean you cheat on them ? No. No relationship would survive then . That's it .

Mauli's breakdown today was me a year ago over my absolutely horrible boyfriend . You learn to move on, you forgive but this period of self loathing is something you can ever forget. This pain .

EMA is Not Ruhani Aarzoo . Nor is cheating your girlfriend or anyone for that matter . Both Kunal and Nandini are horrible people . The END .



Something I posted on 18th August given below...I just saw one episode which I liked because of this friendship bond and thought this is different. I googled just to know more and read that something like this is to happen. So posted immediately as I did not want it to happen. Atleast i did not want to watch this type of pathetic storyline so stopped watching the show. But I had many comments then some who supported me some who felt it was ok even if true and some who felt v should not comment as v don't know what is to actually happen. I kept a watch on the story line however thru google to just know if wat I felt was true. I just watched the Maha episode after a month now and again same path it is taking...disgusting Is one word I can use but I feel it is going on due to ppl only as ppl can ban watching and show their dislike. Personally don't feel fiction is understud by all and also relations shud not b destroyed in fiction. Why not show good...why only bad things...well if this get's trps v are at fault ...makers hardly bother...they can show anything for trps ...Do see this..was posted a month back
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I know that a serial is not for real and is fiction but most times people follow serials religiously so feel there needs to be a thought behind anything created.

I do not follow Silsila but few days back saw one episode where one friend remembers her childhood friend and misses her badly. With no friendship serials nowadays I liked this part. Tried to search on google what this serial is about and was surprised to see it to be a love triangle. But when I saw 2 3 other episodes it was clear that the couple loved each other and the wife loved her friend. She supports her and helps her come out of issues. Takes her along with everywhere something no one will do especially when husband wife are so busy and get very less time together as shown here. What a gem of a friend and the story further shows her husband fall in love with this lady. Hardly can I believe that such plots are written. Serial it is but many watch right. It takes away belief on friendship, it does not allow u trust people. It is sad that friendship and a husband wife relation is so easily broken and nothing can be trusted. But Is that the case.

Will anyone trust a husband ever again..a friend ever again..a relation ever again if stories are written this way. Why should every story have same ending. Can't we show good genuine friendship. Can't a husband really love his wife in such a way that he can also be friends with his wife's friend. I believe a person really in love is always in love and he will not change loyalties whatever it is. So does not matter if person is beautiful or has same likes. Yes ofcourse his wife has to be good which this lady is . She is too good. Then y show such a twist only for trps.

I Do not support this kind of story. People outside might stop trusting friends and husbands due to such stupid stories. This is just not acceptable to me, is it to u.

I hope they do not show love between these two otherwise I will be disappointed. How I wish friendship could have been explored instead. A pure innocent story is nowadays just not made. Unfortunately people also watch such stories.

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