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š²š”Wokay, so I didn't have to write this, but I had to write this...
I don't watch this glorification of EMA soap. But I watched yesterday's epi at the behest of my good friend, my bunny, @amortentia15
So Amor you asked this upon urself. HEHE!!
PHIRST THINGS PHIRST !!!
SO, I watched it while sipping on my tea...And its starts with two woman in YELLOW SAREE!!
I gathered phirst one is Wifey..given she is handing a pooja ki thali.
BUT Lo BEHOLD EE KAA UUI Maa, the souten drops the Pooja ka thali in her hand as soon as she the hujjband smiling with his wife...Telling you Ghor kaljug aagaya hai...Sauten getting sidelined HEHEH!!!
Phir there is a fire accident..ME IJJ ROlling my eyes...and then from the corner of my aieejjj ,I see the souten is wearing the pleats of the saree like a SASH!!! I wish they had written on it in bold letter SOUTEN!!!
I waited bhith bated breath, ki abahi...yeh naalayak baalak vastra haran kargaa...and tad...ee toh episode hee nahi tha...it was bloody isstart wala promo.
Anyways moving on
Then the episode isstarts...
OMG he goes in and on the wall PHULLL BLOOD MAAA LIKHA HAI !!! DEAR MRS!!!
Chalo teek hai, moving on...innocent hero hears a sob...and we see a shivering KHOON SE LATPAT Damsel in distress.
Hmmm...What would anyone with an ounce of logic do. CALL THE POLICE!!!
But nooo...EE hero ijjj so innocent, he decides to take her in his arms. Teek hai I get it, he is providing her comfort..BUT WHY THE f**k IS HE NOT CALLING THE POLICE. THIS IS A f**kING CASE OF ABUSE !!!
Why is THE MAN WHO DID THIS TO HER ROAMING THE STREETS SCOTT FREE!! š”š”
WOKAY...she is shivering...What head headless hero do...HE GOES AND CLEANS THE WALL!!! Poora ka poor EBHIDENCE hee Dho Dhaalaa saale nee.
On the other hand, the wife is BIJI attending a wedding IN A SKIRT !! ( Well I do love Aditi's look in this episode tho. For once they have put her in beautiful clothes.)
WAAHH!!! CV's U NEED UR BRAINS SCANNED IMMEDIATELY PIILEEASEE Kaahe kee ooo MAA GOBAR HEE MILEGO !!
And then OH LO BEHOLD !!! An abuse victim who must be in utter physical and emotional pain, is suddenly AROUSED !!! W*F IS THIS !!! ISSE THO I SHUD HAVE JUST WATCHED SOME BHOOTIYA SHOW !! That would have made more sense.
And the innocent doodh peeta hua bachcha who came to save her...is now twining his fingers with hers..OH MY DEVAA!!! WHERE ARE U !!!! Rakshak hee bhakshak hui gavaa eehaan.
Teek hai, toh ITS DONE!!! THE DEED !!! UFFF!!! Wht the hell. She even had time to wear silver bangles to match her blouse after have borne so much abuse at the hands of her man. And she had even CURLED HER HAIR !!!
OH WAS THERE ANY FOREPLAY!!! I mean surely there must have been right? AM I mean to believe there was...or was she so READY FOR HIM after having lost half the blood in her SHIVERING BODY!!!
And I was like yeah whatever...And after all this, he says...TEEK HAI MUJHE CHALNA CHAHIYE!! WHAT!!! WHAT DO U MEAN CHALNA CHAHIYE!!!
OMG this hero is really headless. What happens to the abuser? Is there no discussion on what happened before I got here and why and shall I call the doctor AT LEAST !!! I thought he was running a hospital or something naa.
Anways...I think that is enough rant for a day.
I love Dhrashti. I really do. But this serial has been written and executed in very bad taste.
I know a lot of people are talking about EMA after yesterdays epi.
BUT EVERYONE INCLUDING THE MAKERS HAVE SIDELINED IS ABUSE !!!
IS it okay to get abused? And is abuse an excuse to have an EMA? And when there is so much abuse, shouldn't a woman find the strength to sort her marriage, take legal help, and gain back her life, instead of embarking on a clandestine affair with her best friends husband minutes after been abused. Seriously the logic is pretty EFFED up in this show.
Any sensible person would have CALLED the POLICE and an AMBULANCE !! They would have kept the evidence in tact. She was in SHOCK !! First aid says one should cover trauma victims with something warm. Not give them an effing shower.
She would have needed emotional comforting. Not sexual comforting.
Was she even in a state to give her consent?
And can consent given in a delirious state like that be taken as consent?
Or did he assume he could touch her just because she was clinging to him?
TBH even a husband won't touch his wife if he found her bleeding and broken like that. This relationship is seriously messed up many levels.
And most importantly I have a question. What would have been the line of action had Mauli found her? I mean gender equality ka zamana hai. What if Mauli would have touched her in an inappropriate manner? Would that have still been called Juzzbaatt?
The problem I had was in the way they shot the scene.
Firstly they have used abuse so lightly, not realising the extent of trauma abuse victims undergo. Secondly when a person finds an women seriously abused to the point she is physically and emotoinally injured, they call the police and the doctor. They don't go about taking them to the bedroom.
That justification of that consummation let a terrible taste in my mouth.
Instead had they shown they had an affair under normal circumstances, I wouldn't have ranted. But to show it immediately after an abuse...that was done in terrible taste.
But hey ho..Chalo../what ijjj the lesson we learn.
When you find a brutally battered woman CALL THE EFFING POLICE !!!
I don't watch this glorification of EMA soap. But I watched yesterday's epi at the behest of my good friend, my bunny, @amortentia15
So Amor you asked this upon urself. HEHE!!
PHIRST THINGS PHIRST !!!
SO, I watched it while sipping on my tea...And its starts with two woman in YELLOW SAREE!!
I gathered phirst one is Wifey..given she is handing a pooja ki thali.
BUT Lo BEHOLD EE KAA UUI Maa, the souten drops the Pooja ka thali in her hand as soon as she the hujjband smiling with his wife...Telling you Ghor kaljug aagaya hai...Sauten getting sidelined HEHEH!!!
Phir there is a fire accident..ME IJJ ROlling my eyes...and then from the corner of my aieejjj ,I see the souten is wearing the pleats of the saree like a SASH!!! I wish they had written on it in bold letter SOUTEN!!!
Phir I cringed..Kaahe poochat ho, was it becojjj Sauten fell in the arms of the oh so innocent man.. No absolutely not.. I cringed at her BLOUSE !! EEKS, at least back hook wala blouse pehen leti...yeh kya blouse pehena hai souten behenaa..I can see all ur hooks. PILEAASSEEE CHANGE KARKE AAOO !!!
Tho mee moorakh thought this was the coveted episode and was waiting with eyes like potoo bird ( haa Ju...tujsee hee seekha woh word)
I thought since hujjband is such a naabalak wala inncocent balak ( bloody nalayak) that souten is thrusting the chest in his face and showing him all the hooks of her blouujjj so he knows he must unhook them.
Anyways moving on
Then the episode isstarts...
Trapped in a loveless marriage wala bichara balak calls the damsel in distress. But ee kaa the doorwa is open.
OMG he goes in and on the wall PHULLL BLOOD MAAA LIKHA HAI !!! DEAR MRS!!!
Had it been me entering that houjjj, I would have screamed,...I did BTW ki Juhi ee kaunsaa bhootiya show dekhe ko kahee ho bitiya...
Hmmm...What would anyone with an ounce of logic do. CALL THE POLICE!!!
But nooo...EE hero ijjj so innocent, he decides to take her in his arms. Teek hai I get it, he is providing her comfort..BUT WHY THE f**k IS HE NOT CALLING THE POLICE. THIS IS A f**kING CASE OF ABUSE !!!
Why is THE MAN WHO DID THIS TO HER ROAMING THE STREETS SCOTT FREE!! š”š”
WOKAY...she is shivering...What head headless hero do...HE GOES AND CLEANS THE WALL!!! Poora ka poor EBHIDENCE hee Dho Dhaalaa saale nee.
Wokay I munched into a mattri and continued watching. HOPING KEE AB EE BEWAKOOF BALAK PHONE GHOOMAYEGA!!! š
But NAAHEEE!!!! EEE kaaa he is giving her a SHOWER !!! W*F..ABEY pooch toh leta if she has been raped...NOW ANOTHER EBHIDENCE DHOOO DAALAA BEWAKOOF NE!!! SIGH!!! š²š²
ISS Ko tho Pakad pakad ke dhona chahiye
On the other hand, the wife is BIJI attending a wedding IN A SKIRT !! ( Well I do love Aditi's look in this episode tho. For once they have put her in beautiful clothes.)
And then once the shower is done...Nadaan Nandini, is somehow magically clad in an ethereal pink saadeee...There are no bruises, not cuts, no wounds...NOTHING!!!
AND ME IJJ BHONDERING ITTTAAA KHOON KISKA BAHA THA AND PHROM BHERE!!! I mean there was an entire EFFING WALL PAINTED IN BLOOD ...I was surprised BITIYA HAD any energy in her to even move...let alone FLOW IN PASSION IN FASHION !! UFF Make up toh dekho ...of a woman who we are meant to believe has just been abused to the point her f**king abuser has painted teh wall with her blood.
And i am like
WAAHH!!! CV's U NEED UR BRAINS SCANNED IMMEDIATELY PIILEEASEE Kaahe kee ooo MAA GOBAR HEE MILEGO !!
And then OH LO BEHOLD !!! An abuse victim who must be in utter physical and emotional pain, is suddenly AROUSED !!! W*F IS THIS !!! ISSE THO I SHUD HAVE JUST WATCHED SOME BHOOTIYA SHOW !! That would have made more sense.
And the innocent doodh peeta hua bachcha who came to save her...is now twining his fingers with hers..OH MY DEVAA!!! WHERE ARE U !!!! Rakshak hee bhakshak hui gavaa eehaan.
AND WHAT THE EFFF !!! There Wife is thinking of the moment when he filled her maang...and here hujjjband is smearing the maang of the souten with red powder...OMG ( Kidhar hai iss show he writers...Where is their Charan and KAMAL !! This is ultimate glorification of EMA by sanctioning it with the purest Sindoor...EEKS I THINK I JUST THREW UP IN MY MOUTHWA!!!)
And WHY THE EFF HAS THE HEADLESS HERO STILL NOT CALLED THE POLICE !!! OOHH HE CANNOT CAN HEE!! KAAKE BUDDHI THO LOINS MAIN PHASSI PADI HAI EE HEADLESS ML KAA
I am going to need a chill pill at this point.
And I was like yeah whatever...And after all this, he says...TEEK HAI MUJHE CHALNA CHAHIYE!! WHAT!!! WHAT DO U MEAN CHALNA CHAHIYE!!!
OMG this hero is really headless. What happens to the abuser? Is there no discussion on what happened before I got here and why and shall I call the doctor AT LEAST !!! I thought he was running a hospital or something naa.
Anways...I think that is enough rant for a day.
I love Dhrashti. I really do. But this serial has been written and executed in very bad taste.
I know a lot of people are talking about EMA after yesterdays epi.
BUT EVERYONE INCLUDING THE MAKERS HAVE SIDELINED IS ABUSE !!!
IS it okay to get abused? And is abuse an excuse to have an EMA? And when there is so much abuse, shouldn't a woman find the strength to sort her marriage, take legal help, and gain back her life, instead of embarking on a clandestine affair with her best friends husband minutes after been abused. Seriously the logic is pretty EFFED up in this show.
Any sensible person would have CALLED the POLICE and an AMBULANCE !! They would have kept the evidence in tact. She was in SHOCK !! First aid says one should cover trauma victims with something warm. Not give them an effing shower.
She would have needed emotional comforting. Not sexual comforting.
Was she even in a state to give her consent?
And can consent given in a delirious state like that be taken as consent?
Or did he assume he could touch her just because she was clinging to him?
TBH even a husband won't touch his wife if he found her bleeding and broken like that. This relationship is seriously messed up many levels.
And most importantly I have a question. What would have been the line of action had Mauli found her? I mean gender equality ka zamana hai. What if Mauli would have touched her in an inappropriate manner? Would that have still been called Juzzbaatt?
The problem I had was in the way they shot the scene.
Firstly they have used abuse so lightly, not realising the extent of trauma abuse victims undergo. Secondly when a person finds an women seriously abused to the point she is physically and emotoinally injured, they call the police and the doctor. They don't go about taking them to the bedroom.
That justification of that consummation let a terrible taste in my mouth.
Instead had they shown they had an affair under normal circumstances, I wouldn't have ranted. But to show it immediately after an abuse...that was done in terrible taste.
But hey ho..Chalo../what ijjj the lesson we learn.
When you find a brutally battered woman CALL THE EFFING POLICE !!!
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