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Posted: 7 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Dishoom

I appreciate her for choosing her work and not this moron. Thanks for giving one more reason to respect and love mauli ❤️

Everyone is not a betrayer.😆
K betrayed the promises they make during saath phere.
Mauli kept her words.
Even as a doctor they do take that OATH.
She didnt betray either of her oaths👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Mauli had a critical delivery to attend to...it wasn't that she was going on a rendezvous with a friend of hers leaving Kunaal high and dry... A woman is critical and Mauli will have to fulfill her husband's desires else the husband will stray??
She is abiding by The Hippocratic Oath, that's her fault???
She is the one working in the relationship now...if it was the other way round would the same questions be raised... Why kunaal left her for a patient in the middle of a lovemaking session...thats absurd...
Mauli being mahaan...that she is i agree... Who keeps people in their homes out of sheer goodness without demanding anything other than lovr and trust nowadays... Which is why i had said earlier that she is going to pay dearly for her greatness...and greatness is considered a virtue not a vice i guess...
About her being blind yes she is ...regarding Kunaal and Nandini because she cant think in her wildest dreams that this could happen... Her best friend and her husband in an amorous relationship with one another... is not something a woman can think Of... If it was someone else yes she could have had a doubt... But this is the woman who had been her childhood friend... And had come out of an abusive marriage some months back...

The fact is up until now Mauli hasn't been shown to have a fault that could make Kunaal fall out of love With a woman like her... And even if he did for his own unfathomable Reasons it isnt noble or divine as is being shown... It is just that...cheating...
Now the least an ungrateful man like him can do is tell his wife the truth and not make a mockery of his marriage...

She is not dumb she is too good to have anything tondo with these two people in her life...





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Posted: 7 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: Arnav90


My words were as per Forum views, Here i saw numorus posts abt kunal falling for Nandini just by looking at her while dancing, I said here he felt attracted at that point not love


Ok...He felt only physically attracted at that point?? Hmm so why did that ended him in crying episodes, thinking about Nandini all the time to the point of being obsessed?? Also why was that later labelled as love??

I don't know other forum member's views. I can state about mine only. When I say he is in LUST with Nandini after seeing her rain dance what I mean is that I COMPLETELY, UTTERLY DISAGREE with the fact that makers are trying to show that as a HOLIER THAN THOU " LOVE" from Kunal's perspective.

In simpler words a married man falling for another married woman(maybe strayed from her hubby for various reasons) especially who is his wife's bestie, just because of seeing some rain dance is Lust and not love!!

So we can agree on one thing that you too said what he felt at that moment was not love. Fine with me.

However, Your endeavor to pinpoint Mauli as wrong is still incomprehensible to me!!



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: WaveTeal

Hmmm... So being high on hormones justifies one having EMA!!!(This is sooo absurd and obsolete yet ludicrous logic that I won't even bother any counter philosophy)

But...My morality index just got updated and I can't thank this post enough!! 👍🏼Had a good laugh I must admit!! 😆

And good that this whole post is rather proving that Kunal is indeed in lust with Nandini!!!! Another thanks for proving those supposed people you are talking about in this post as right!!

Love at first sight - Again my knowledge index got updated by knowing it's rare for men.

Rain dance, That would be Lust at first step(of dancing) no??😉

But according to your logic I have one confusion did Kunal see Nandini for the FIRST time when she was rain dancing?? 😲Damn then I might have literally watched some other show!! 😕


Rest of the part on Mauli. I have more problem when creatives are at one end showing her so much intelligent and at other end she is being so unrealistically blind to her surroundings. An intelligent person (in most cases) can for sure sense the behavior pattern of their spouses. And another complaint I have with Mauli is her lack of possessiveness, too much blind faith!!! It almost feels like makers are deliberately not showing any flaw to her character to gain sympathy from the EMA opposers + increasing the controversial aspect!!! 🤔

@Red...That's what most of the forum members were saying all these days as if he had seen her wet for the first time during rain dance no?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Stav

You're blaming mouli about ditching Kunal like are you serious , my mom is doctor as well and for her attending a critical patient comes first it's her duty , ever heard of something called hippocratic oath that doctors take ?? So yes for doctors patient's life comes first even before some romantic date or family function or stuff.. Mouli did what doctors are suppose to do ..

Exactly what i said???👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yo what are you saying dawg? Mauli does not owe Kunal any physical satisfaction everytime he's aroused. I agree that she's being ignorant and turning a blind eye to the very obvious current events. But in the past she wasn't doing anything wrong, she was especially not being ignorant as Kunal and Nandini hadn't even started their EMA.
Sure, Mauli may have left Kunal unsatisfied and disappointed a few times in the past but that is not her "fault" yo. She has a busy job, which he is aware of. In addition, girls can also be "high on hormones". Mauli must also be disappointed everytime she has to leave Kunal and go to work. I see you're saying that Kunal and Nandini are wrong for indulging in this EMA, which I obviously agree with. However, I'm confused as to the point of this post then. Are you simply saying that Mauli is not a perfect character? If so, then yeah that's obvious, everyone has flaws. I'm sure everyone agrees.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Imagine someone going through a difficult labor and hospital telling them the doctor won't come because she has to attend to her husband's sexual desires
In Doctor Who's 11th season the doctor is a woman and there was a lot of backlash and people ridiculing the decision of a woman being a doctor, at that time I did not understand what's wrong if the woman is a doctor, now I understand that even in this age and time, even if you are a doctor, even if you are the sole earner of your house (Kunal left his job), even if your husband tells you that he can trust you and rely on you for money, the woman should not put people dying in the hospital over one night with her husband
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Marriage is not just about SEX or harmones,it should need better UNDERSTANDING.Kunal himself is a doctor.He definitely well aware how tough "Gynaecologist" profession would be being in the same profession.As charu rightly said this is the main reason Doctors prefer to marry person with same profession so that UNDERSTANDING would be there.Being myself a doctor like kunal or Mauli,i know Gynaecologists have frequent night duties.Like the same Kunal also aware of it when he was marrying her.Its his fault if he is not understanding her profession being in the same profession and even after well aware of it.So Helping friend in need is wrong ignoring husband but proposing wife's friend is not wrong ignoring his wife and enjoying kheer with kheer,hiding behind the walls,in the bathrooms 👏.wah what a logic👏.Finding faults in Mauli in this EMA is equal to = justifying Kunal indirectly.People not stupid here😆.



And lastly himself being a doctor,sitting calmly in the home without any work like a nikhamma depending on wife's salary definitely would get HARMONES as empty mind is a devil workshop.Life is not only about SEX or harmones so that getting aroused in a drop of hat.Ok its wrong on her part to not providing enough time for their intimacy but he could have COMMUNICATE it often and should be trying to put forth his opinion how he is drifting away due to her lack of commitment towards husband's time.Rather COMMUNICATING it he is indulging in other routes for the sexual fantacies that too with wife's bf behind her back.Wah what a commitment from his side👏.I am not married still i am to able to understand this at my age BUT this married lust filled guy couln't understand this at his age doing teenage chindi harkatein👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: -Lehar-

@Red...That's what most of the forum members were saying all these days as if he had seen her wet for the first time during rain dance no?


I think then she was Mrs.Rajdeep Thakur. The time when he fell for her, she was just Nandini. That must have made some difference to him.

But overall, that was a hasty way. The whole falling thing should have approached some other way which didn't make it more of physical attraction and more of emotional one.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Lehar-

@Red...That's what most of the forum members were saying all these days as if he had seen her wet for the first time during rain dance no?


Keeping in mind what any forum member says I am not liable to that, I am only liable to what I say yet am replying. I never said nor saw forum members saying "Kunal has love at first sight seeing some rain dance" according to the logic brought by TM. Lastly quoting abstract thoughts and opinions formed by forum members is illimitable. Lots of mouth says lots of things. It's the makers fault if they had shown the sequence in such a light.

At the place of rain dance there could be any other sequence as well. And if that turned out to be as shallow, as illogical, as visceral as it was projected on-screen same like that rain dance I would be still objecting that. When there is no emotional ground discovered whatsoever then it redirects itself to the physical desires.

Edited by WaveTeal - 7 years ago

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