Originally posted by: pamk06
Interesting view but i have two Question:
First:So if this was only lust and if there are no emotions involved, then logically confession should have ended with consummation. He led her till the house, he could have easily led her to the bedroom but he stopped. His priority at that point was to make her comfortable, give her assurance. He was and is genuinely taking care of her needs. When a person feels only lust for the other person, do they really care about the emotional well being of a person? Emotions do not make a play at all, it's all physical and thus if it was lust, it would have been much simpler. I do not think it is only lust, I think there is an emotional connection which seems to be stronger that what he has for Mauli and that why it would destroy everything because inspite of the destructio Kunal would not be able to emotionally let Nandini go.
Second, if he did not have respect for Mauli, then why would he hide his relationshp from her. Wouldn't he flaunt it the same way that Rajdeep used to flaunt girls in front of Nandini. What has he got to lose? Infact if Mauli leaves, his path to Nandini would be clear so why this hesistation . If they did not care for her, why are they going to this lengths to protect their relationship from her? Wouldn't you take this steps only for that person that you don't want to hurt??
Good questions ..see he need not consummate with her asap ..she is willing ..so he will have that guaranteed anyways so he won't hurry ..u talk as though in ema what ever time they have they would be consummation ..which is not true .who said in lust there won't be any emotions .then stalkers ,acid pourers they r doing all that with emotion only ..what they have is pure lust .when u ask them they will say they r in love which is not true
See relieving u r self physically when no option available.u just go to prostitute u ...relieve u r self u don't even see her or his face again that is physical .
Lust is different . U lust for a particular person ..u want her or him only ..while doing that u don't care about the consequences..u easily did h lie cheat or some times even murder too u have emotions Involved but those emotions are all negative emotions ..lying cheating etc . U care the least about the self respect of the other person .u just want them .that's it
Coming to kunal respecting Moulin ..first know what does it mean respecting a person if u respect a person u never cheat them on their back .respect means never hurting their self respect and dignity .by cheating them u r doing the same .respect dies not mean hiding things and lying for u r selfish desire .some day some one Wil know the truth i.e some one in society ,Maui does not know it yet .do j know what happens .they laughed at her back for being ignorant .
Are u giving respect to u r spouse by making society laugh at her back or will u give respect to her by being truthful to her and let her know before the society knows
U respect u r parents means u will never cheat them .respect does not mean acting good before them and doing things on their back .society knows about it one day and will laugh at u r parents back for not knowing what their kids do .they will ridicule them and term them as parenting failure .
So by making society ridicule and laugh at u r parents are u giving them respect by hiding things before them .
Simply u r avoiding truth bcos u selfishly want to pursue u r desire and if parents or spouse know it they won't let u pursue it
He does not want to lose Mauli ..that's the crux of the issue here .he knows by losing a wife like mouli for a person like nandhini his own parents and mom will despise him ..forget about society he does not want to lose his respect before his family and society and may be ..I am saying may be he wants that financial security of Mauli .
See here he is caring for his respect,he cares a damn about self respect of nandhini as a mistress .he just wants her .this is lust .if u love u will always see the world respects u r loved person.uwon't give heed to u r selfish desires .that is love
Euphoria feeling,talking all night wanting to spend all time with them ..feeling of elation u get when j meet them ..this is not love This Is What Kunal Feeling TowRds Nandhini ..The Care He is showing Is Shallow .It Is Not Deep If He Deeply Cares He Knows How The world Looks AT Her When Truth Us knOwn He Would Care About Her Self respect And Would Have Divorced Mauli Asap AndMarred Nandhini .Then I Would Have Agreed He Loves Nandhini.
.love is taking care of the person ..showing respect by never cheating them ..seeing that the dociety always respects them ..putting that person above your selfish needs this is love .
..here Mauli working day and night for kunal clinic ..this is love
She taking responsibility of nandhini and wants her respect back ..this is love
Coming to rajdeep he is evil .he is least cared about his respect before his friends itself . That's why he ready to give her to his colleague or partner whatsoever
Kunal is not evil .he lists nandhini and so he wants her and at the same time he wants his respect before his parents .that's why he is cheating
Beating parents and taking money and go for gambling ...rajdeep is thus sort of person
acting good before parents wanting to be called as good boy before them want their appreciation and so u steal no e.g. and go for gambling ..this is kunal.
Neither of them r good ..one is bad and another is evil
Edited by VARUNI2014 - 7 years ago
