Was Mauli Wrong?

So I have seen that Mauli leaving Nandini with Rajdeep thing has surfaced so I would like to add my point of view to the ongoing discussion about it..

What they have shown - Mauli goes to Rajdeep's house, Nandini is happy about getting married (At least she looks happy), then she goes to bring tea for Mauli and Rajdeep, Rajdeep being the jerk hits on Mauli and Mauli tells Nandini about it, then Rajdeep points out that Mauli is jealous of Nandini's husband, her big house, the lavish lifestyle Nandini will have and Mauli won't hence Mauli is lying to separate them and Nandini believes Rajdeep over Mauli, obviously believing that Mauli is jealous of her frivolous things, she didn't think for once why Mauli would accuse Rajdeep? I don't know about family pressure because I don't think it was shown that Nandini was forced by her parents and if it was then Nandini didn't tell Mauli about it for Mauli Nandini believes that Mauli is a jealous cunning person who's plotting to separate Rajdeep and Nandini.

Still Mauli knew that Rajdeep is not a good guy for Nandini why didn't she go back after one month or a year so let's look at this logically Mauli cleared Central Pre-Medical Test after 12th standard, in 12th standard she must be what 17 years old, it's not clear whether Mauli qualified right after her HSC exams or she waited one year for it, in any case let's say she was 18 when she qualified, after it she must have moved to a medical college out of Uttar Pradesh considering Kunal is from Mumbai and Mauli-Kunal met in college, so it's common sense that he didn't come to Lucknow for his MBBS, so Mauli was not in Uttar Pradesh for 5 years and even if she visited it must be for roughly a few weeks... So are you telling me that an 18 year old girl who's studying to become a doctor, lives in another city will leave everything, waste her life after a friend who accused her of being jealous? How much can we expect from an 18 years old?

After years when Nandini came back in Mauli's life, what did Mauli do? Mauli became the only hope for Nandini to come out of an abusive marriage, remember before meeting Mauli, when Nandini dreaming about telling Rajdeep that she's pregnant, she wasn't happy when Rajdeep said that he'll divorce her, she was afraid because she didn't have a place to live, after Rajdeep kicked her out of his car in road, if it wasn't for Mauli Nandini wouldn't have a place to live, Kunal did not come to help her on his own, Nandini called Mauli and Kunal picked up the phone at last it was Mauli who helped her.

So I find this absolutely ridiculous that people want Mauli to take care of Nandini, people wanted that Mauli leaves her dreams of being her doctor and destroy her life to protect her friend who doesn't even care about her, and Nandini is not a 10 month old baby, she is responsible for her actions, she was responsible when she chose to live with Rajdeep, she is responsible when she fell in love with her friend's husband and at the end of the day both of her decisions have adverse effect on Mauli, Mauli met Kunal when Nandini left her now when Nandini is back Mauli will lose Kunal

about past yes she was wrong .. If her education or age is factor then nandini was same age ..innocent mentality , she wanted love ...the way she grew up never saw love other than from best friend.. when that friend gone, it's logical to think my friend hates me ...
Nandu was wrong too so was Mouli in term of friendship
friendship don't break like this
as someone said if you given her credit for being doctor, where was your responsibility when she was doing wrong ... no friend no this ...atleast not in real life too
in past both were wrong

It's not about Mauli's life, as an 18 year old Mauli took perfect decisions for her life and now she is an extremely successful doctor, it's about Nandini's life, Mauli is not responsible for Nandini's life and Mauli can warn Nandini which she did but it was up to Nandini to make a decision and as it can be concluded Nandini is not so good when it comes to taking decisions of her life, I don't see why Mauli is wrong if she didn't waste her life running behind Nandini, I don't think she was wrong then but now it seems she has ruined her life running behind Nandini

yes a perfect decision when she was ready to give up I think nandu helped her ( FB scenes )
so she was practical I got it and let her friend do whatever she does .. be she die or live who cares ... that show kinda selfish and full of ego too
human are like this ...its not anyone fault
we bound to do mistake nandu did ..so did Mouli in term of friendship...she has flaws too ..

one second why Nandini at fault if she will lose kunal or not ( future ka kya pata..how so sure!!! no guranty that she will suffer ) ...nandini didn't said aao pyaar karo did she!!!!
she even ready to leave far away from them...let Mouli handle her relation then and stop blaming on third person ..

Nandini helped Mauli, how exactly? Did Nandini take the CPMT test in place of Mauli or did Nandini pay her college fee? Mauli was nervous and afraid of failing the exam, Nandini asked her to study that's it, that's not helping that supporting Mauli, like now if Nandini gets a new house and Mauli helps her pick a house that's not help unless Mauli pays for it.

Yes, you do let people take decisions of their life, you can warn if they are going wrong but you can't waste your life behind people who are so ungrateful or people who accuse you of being cunning, jealous person. Mauli was an 18 years old and she warned Nandini, Nandini chose to believe Rajdeep what can Mauli do now, when Mauli was old enough to understand everything she kept asking Nandini if Rajdeep is nice and Nandini lied, when Nandini asked Mauli for help, didn't Mauli help her?

I agree that nandini did wrong by not trusting mauli

I am pointing out a fact that Mauli met Kunal after Nandini left Mauli, now Mauli will lose Kunal after Nandini is back in her life, it was even pointed out in that scene where the picture frame of Mauli and Kunal breaks when she reaches to protect Nandini's picture

Originally posted by: harshiidiv

I agree that nandini did wrong by not trusting mauli

But mauli is too equally wrong by leaving her friend who is not independent & straight forward Like her

Friendship is to trust ur friend ,stand for ur friend & also stop her doing wrong deed & if ur frnd is going on wrong path u should be make her aware but mauli left her knowing everything just bcoz she didn't trust her..

So for me both r wrong in past..

Allow me to reiterate myself, Mauli was 18 years old, how can she take responsibility for Nandini's life when Nandini can't? And I clearly stated that Mauli wasn't in the state and how would she know where Nandini and Rajdeep are living after marriage, she didn't know Rajdeep did she?
So Nandini goofs up and Mauli is responsible

seriously mental help mean nothing to you !!!!!!!
my friends had miscarriage during exam( final exam) ...she was not ready but me and others helped her mentally ...she still couldn't forget that day ...thats call real help ...how brilliant you can be simetimes you won't do anything without mental help
I will say again in term of friendship Mouli was very wrong and selfish too
what was that situation ..if I'm not wrong Mouli knew her friend more than anyone ...she knows how Nanidin thinks how she took every thing still just for ego left her and it is plain truth
I have 2 friends who doctor now ...yup they were very busy even different city too..but two minutes call never hurt them
here Mouli claimed to be so good then she couldn't even call her ...damn she not even aware that her parents die !!!! can I say insensitive..she had her number ..for 7 years mainly for her nandu was dead person with a number which she didn't use to satisfy her anger n ego about Choose One game
ok fine for once told nandu's parents!!!!! no just vanish
again and again age coming so nandu was same age
Nandu was wrong in that age Mouli too wrong in that age