Silsila-- A journey of Nandini and her endless sufferings - Page 4

Originally posted by: sangeeta33

Wow Beautiful post sanju

Nandini is the best and well written character so far she is not perfect like other one😉she has her flaws like normal human being thats what i like most and can connect with her i hope she got happness soon in her life

She is the character suffered the most too and still suffering ...I really hope she get her happiness soon

Originally posted by: Oxoacids

Hey beautiful post portraying Nandini's journey till date..😊I agree to many of ur points excluding one or two maybe..

U may ignore my pov n advice others to do the same too but still..😆

See u blamed Mauli or somewhere somehow held her responsible for leaving a friend who pampered her like a sister.. ok. Fine, she informed her, warned her maybe she should have done more, stayed by her side, fine..

But as we've probably not been shown how was Nandini trapped with Rajdeep so saying this as her parent's pressure is I don't know how much right.. (sorry if I'm wrong I've missed a few initial episodes so maybe there's something important I'm missingout)😛

Chalo Mauli was wrong, self centered in leaving Nandini alone but what about Nandini now..!?

Now even Nandini knows Kunal's reality that he loves her, is somewhere cheating his wife, ignore Mauli n his family members cause of her( I'm not blaming her here), also when his thoughts about the feelings between them is contradicting hers then why justify Kunal. Why not warn and inform Mauli too..!?

Ok, I'm not saying that Kunan hug was some sin but at least it was a mistake and Nandini realises that, that's where I consider her better than Kunal but just crying and not acting on the situation is strange.

Mauli was not there by her side, warned her and left her, wrong on her part but Nandini, she is there by her side, but knowing everything not warning her( maybe indirectly), not confronting Kunal.. isn't it wrong on her part!?

I've just raised a question, no offense to anyone, even I admire Nandini but this is something I also find reasonable..

First of all I never said mauli self centred...I said any best friend doesn't leave her friend in danger bcs of ego issue...there was an episode where nandini said she is seeing something completely different in kunal as husband..for her till now husbands are like her dad with whom her mom hardly used to talk..he used to order her and she used to fulfil it...She was never frank with her mom dad like maulis family and this is a big reason why she tolerated Rajdeep till this much...For her kunal is best husband any one can get and kunal still didn't cheat mauli..Nandini still don't know how and why he fall for her...She desnt know he go around and get jealous over people bcs of her..She never saw kunal ignoring mauli for her ..for nandini kunal is also struggling with this unwanted feelings and she feel avoiding each other is the best solution..She know mauli living a perfect life and just bcs of her she can't break maulis marriage..kunal never said he doesn't love mauli..he will never leave her for nandini...he just doesn't want nandini to move on in life...so here too Nandini is the one suffering at the end...She doesn't even know what exactly kunal feel for her? and even before it can effect all she want to leave the house but she can't do that alone she need help..She is new in Mumbai so kunal mauli have to atlest arrange a broker for her which she already told mauli but she didn't bothered may be bcs She doesn't want nandini to leave..anyway finally she leaving the house and this the best thing to do for now..

Originally posted by: Geetdrashti

Good points

You brought out which I was thinking for long

Aase bhi Kya dosti jo two minutes pe khatam, just give order choose me , how can anyone choose someone on two minutes argument, on two minutes situation . What can get in anyone head by two minutes incident .

There she proudly credit her being doctor and not for once thought how she was leading life Unrealistic

It different matter her ego was bigger than her friends future so she move on with her ego leaving friend

Good that Nandini finding herself now

you said everything...nothing much to add...we don't even break our normal 1 or 2 yr friendship like this and here we are talking about childhood bond...that mean she know her family background well too still she choosed her ego over friendship

Wonderful post and i completely agree with each and every point in your post my dear sanju😳.

I think I said it many times but will say again
look back at first episode 4th June
what was she !!!! how was she !!!! what was her thinking toward life and marriage !!!!
step by step she changed ...she now completely a new person with new thinking with new confidence to make her own life
there she was so scared to leave Rajdeep ( as she has no one ) here she now happy to live alone
loved the way her character going

Originally posted by: _Nightmare_

Wonderful post and i completely agree with each and every point in your post my dear sanju😳.

Since the beginning of the show the only character which went through immense pain n agony has been Nandini. All she wanted was a simple life with a caring and loving husband, but the unfortunate girl got a "Ravan" in the name of husband who not only abused her physically and mentally but killed her every day. In such a young age girl also went through the pain of loosing the child. This innocent and pure soul deserves every bit of happiness after going through all these turmoils.

About the friendship part it has always been "You have to choose me over every one else " attitude since the beginning. Yes, nandini made a blunder by not listening to the best friend , but as a best friend the other person just walked away knowing very well that nandini is going to tie knot with a monster who will tear her apart. As a best friend it was the duty of the person to atleast try to talk to nandini's parents (I assume the friend walked away as there was no convo btw friend and nandu's aprents). If i or anyother individual was in that place would have tried to stop the marriage till the last moment.. Well, sometimes ego becomes bigger than somebody's life.

Coming back to nandini, she is in a very tough situation now. She always admired and respected kunal for what he was. She was mesmerized to see that such men exist .She herself said that with a surprise that " aise pati bhi hote hein !!" .It just breaks my heart that this poor girl will never get a moment of peace probably will never find solace. She may end up like Naina leading a lonely life.

I really hope CVs don't make her life tragic after all the pain she went through🥺

it's not like she cheating mauli...She trying to ignore kunal as much as possible..She feel maulis happiness is more important than her feelings...how it make her selfish? atlest she is trying unlike her best friend who left her to die with Rajdeep and never try to know how is she later

Nandini is flawed character and yes she suffered from hands of rajdeep but partially she is responsible for distress becoz she never listened mauli and chose rajdeep over mauli.That's why she suffered as she trusted a man over her frnd .Even i can understand her falling 4 kunal is natural but writers hv failed to connect character nandini to audience as she developed feelings 4 kunal on jet speed. Sorry but i don't feel anything for nandini neither hate nor sympathy .I hate kunal but i don't feel anything for nandini .It's not any actors mistake it's mistake of writers and cvs. Iwas liking the journey of nandini towards being independent vut they spoiled it with faltu ka feelings .I know as most of ppl here ar D fans so will not agree here with me but it hardly matters most of neutral audience around me feel the same way as i feel.Nandini character is not able to touch the cord of neutral ppl heart becoz of poor writing of character

Originally posted by: Keepdreaming

I think I said it many times but will say again
look back at first episode 4th June
what was she !!!! how was she !!!! what was her thinking toward life and marriage !!!!
step by step she changed ...she now completely a new person with new thinking with new confidence to make her own life
there she was so scared to leave Rajdeep ( as she has no one ) here she now happy to live alone
loved the way her character going

and finally in new house too .I m so happy her character growth maintained and she had a journey to tell unlike other character it's her journey and that's the beauty of the story so far

for future let her deal with upcoming storm aka Rajdeep alone
I know she is capable of it