Nandini Darling learn to fight your battles by urslf

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Okay i saw new promo of silsila where nandini says that kya hamre leye kabhie koi awaz utheyega??Now i want to ask to writers why woman can't fight their battles by themselves.Why Indian woman keep on waiting 4 man to raise voice on their behalf and why always need man to protect themselves.This idiotic thinking have set trend in indian tv that woman always needs saviour in form of man who could either her frnd lover or husband.This show could have gained more trps if they have shown nandini trying to fight the battles of her life by herself not waiting 4 man to be saviour. I want to say nandini fight your own battles dear and let no one be on the driver seat of your life.



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Actually it was nowhere said that she wanted a man to fight her battles. If you watched today's episode you will know she did try to tell the boys off who were harassing her but she went into a shock after seeing her private pictures splashed all over and then they all attacked her in a group. For someone who has just begun to speak up for herself and freshly come out of a very traumatic and controlling relationship it will definitely take more time to fully shed her inhibitions and fight back tooth and nail against the society. If they show an overnight transition in her that wouldn't be realistic at all so they have probably saved that for a later phase in Nandini 's life.It is only normal for such people to wish you had someone to support you when you are targeted in a group and aren't able to find enough strength and are too broken from inside to fight back the vicious gang of bullies. Give her some more time and I am sure she will be fighting her battles alone very soon. That's what we all want at the end of the day-an independent Nandini 😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't know about other serials but here I am glad makers are not rushing nandini's self discovery track. She is still taking baby steps and her first step was to leave rajdeep. Nandini is resilient and strong but her journey towards becoming independent and find her strength is still in its initial stages. The makers have kept this show quite realistic and nandini answering back to those idiots and fighting her own battles today would not look completely believable. She barely got out of an extremely bad marriage and she had zero self confidence . She is slowly building her confidence .

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Title of the post itself says what exactly u r saying
This is for everyone not the people who r portraying the character
Gud job
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nandani can't chnage overnight, it will take some as per her char n situation and this is reality in india mano ya na mano ppl blame girls if anything like this happen , in this topic she couldn't fight alone, she tried but failed as situation n ppl were not in mood to listen anything. She was shocked n unaware of it, what she could have told n why ppl litsten n trus her ,kunal is living there so they have still listen.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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she trying that's big step
she not used to do it but she did with those boys
its not that she deals such situation everyday
it will take time
that's her character about
not same from beginning to ending
it will change with time
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sha_rocks

Title of the post itself says what exactly u r saying

This is for everyone not the people who r portraying the character
Gud job

but I find TM mocking nandini by calling darling
and yes it's for everyone
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Geetdrashti

but I find TM mocking nandini by calling darling
and yes it's for everyone

yaar matlab why you people are so senstive maine darling lekh deya im nocking nandini really?? Khair chodo tumhe samhjana mere bus ki baat nahi.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Alohomora_

Actually it was nowhere said that she wanted a man to fight her battles. If you watched today's episode you will know she did try to tell the boys off who were harassing her but she went into a shock after seeing her private pictures splashed all over and then they all attacked her in a group. For someone who has just begun to speak up for herself and freshly come out of a very traumatic and controlling relationship it will definitely take more time to fully shed her inhibitions and fight back tooth and nail against the society. If they show an overnight transition in her that wouldn't be realistic at all so they have probably saved that for a later phase in Nandini 's life.It is only normal for such people to wish you had someone to support you when you are targeted in a group and aren't able to find enough strength and are too broken from inside to fight back the vicious gang of bullies. Give her some more time and I am sure she will be fighting her battles alone very soon. That's what we all want at the end of the day-an independent Nandini 😊

I m not against kunal saving her today i know she is changing slowly for the good.I am not happy with the line she says in promo and ask kya hamare leye koi awaaz uthega?? Why is woman is shown to think like that somebody will come and save them in reality actually rarely wil stand by you .You have to fight your battles by yourself.I hope in future nandini becomes strong and take her decisions by herself not wait 4 sometime to do it 4 her.Vaise to i think they are showing this kunal helping nandini to make nandini fal for kunal .But in future i don't want nandini to look upto kunal whenever she is in trouble.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909

I don't know about other serials but here I am glad makers are not rushing nandini's self discovery track. She is still taking baby steps and her first step was to leave rajdeep. Nandini is resilient and strong but her journey towards becoming independent and find her strength is still in its initial stages. The makers have kept this show quite realistic and nandini answering back to those idiots and fighting her own battles today would not look completely believable. She barely got out of an extremely bad marriage and she had zero self confidence . She is slowly building her confidence .

I am also loving nandini's transformation.She is taking baby steps towards her independency.But I want nandu to realise that every time kunal or mauli will not be there to help her.She should gather her courage and fight her battles herself .I know she don't hv confidence now but hope she slowly starts giving back to ppl because i don't her to look at kunal when she is in trouble.

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