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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabia.shaktiaro


She would have left Rajdeep ages ago if she could. She's been living with him since 6 or 8 years? I don't really remember but yeh. Well, Nandini is married too? How is that OK if she falls for him but it isn't OK when he starts developing feelings for her? Just because Mauli is nice and Rajdeep ain't? I don't buy that. Attachment is a natural thing..it just happens.

N is married too and it's actually okay if they both fall in love but personally I am not into this; it's glorifying extra marital affairs it's just my pov
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabia.shaktiaro


Everyone was told what the plot/show is gonna be about. Kunal will have his own reasons so will everyone else. And it's totally natural I feel, emotions change, people change, circumstances change. How they show the characters handling the situation/circumstances is something to look forward to .. for me at least.

I totally understand it's just a darn show but then they say,these days they are teaching youth,creating awareness bla bla through these TV shows.. but this @bold,are you sure?Yes,feelings changes,people cheats,people have affair outside marriage but is it really okay to step out of a perfect marriage,leaving your wife,in this case a perfect one( for an another woman), whom you love and who loves you immensely,cheating on your wife with her BFF coz she is an abla-bechari nari.
What are we really supporting?!
Edited by piya2025. - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well said. I also want to nandini become strong emotionally. How the way she is letting her husband rule on her is something horrible. I want nandini to differentiate between right and wrong and take stand according to the situation.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Y12345

N is married too and it's actually okay if they both fall in love but personally I am not into this; it's glorifying extra marital affairs it's just my pov


I'm not for this either. But it's natural, I'm quite honest about that.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: piya2025.

I totally understand it's just a darn show but then they say,these days they are teaching youth,creating awareness bla bla through these TV shows.. but this @bold,are you sure?Yes,feelings changes,people cheats,people have affair outside marriage but is it really okay to step out of a perfect marriage,leaving your wife,in this case a perfect one( for an another woman), whom you love and who loves you immensely,cheating on your wife with her BFF coz she is an abla-bechari nari.

What are we really supporting?!


When does the youth even learn anything from TV lol. 😆 Coming back to your "is it ok?" - NO, IT CERTAINLY IS NOT. Circumstances make you do things you never though you ever would. Not supporting Kunal or anyone, but there will be happening something definitely before he starts developing feelings for her. It still needs to be unfold to actually comment on that..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree , while the concept is a little difficult to digest since Kunal-Mouli hv a perfect marriage with little hiccups here and there which is normal in every marriage and Nandini is Mouli's best friend who always wanted good for her , so she developing feelings for her husband will be questionable , but even after all this the show has a great scope to hit the right chords with good execution and some more depth or back story shown for characters like Rajdeep and Nandini especially and also showing proper interactions between Kunal-Nandini-Mouli without jumping to the affair part soon ..

I really dunno how and when Kunal will fall for Nandini , it just dont sit well with me , so I dont want to think about it right now .. But Nandini falling for a perfect man like Kunal and at the same time feeling guilty for developing such feelings for her best friend's husband can b interesting as I want to see how she copes up with it .. Its natural for her to fall for Kunal after coming out of a abusive relationship and then witnessing such a perfect husband in Kunal but at the same time Mouli being her best friend , I want her to b in a dilemma of sorts .. But I dont understand how can Kunal fall for any other woman when he already hv a perfect and loving wife in Mouli .. anyways lets see
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabia.shaktiaro


She would have left Rajdeep ages ago if she could. She's been living with him since 6 or 8 years? I don't really remember but yeh. Well, Nandini is married too? How is that OK if she falls for him but it isn't OK when he starts developing feelings for her? Just because Mauli is nice and Rajdeep ain't? I don't buy that. Attachment is a natural thing..it just happens.


Well, whenever there is a story about extramarital affairs general people start judging it as a nasty thing. But the same people will worship Radha and Krishna completely avoiding the fact that it was an extra-marital affair as well. Marriage is a social institution just like family which should be respected but feelings is a thing that doesn't follow the norms. So, if someone is falling for someone or gradually developing feelings for someone else, you can't forcefully stop it either. It's a natural mental process. A person in love with other man/woman can decide to stay loyal to his/her partner but what about the feelings?

I just hope the show will deal maturely with such complexities. I really don't expect anything good from any Hindi shows. They all are trash. I liked the show just because of such bold and complex topic. If they are delivering quality content without turning any of the leads negative, I will continue watching. Anyway, all the daily soaps do glorify patriarchal ideas and toxic relationships. If TRP people can watch them without an objection, why such fuss around this one?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: SayaneeH.Lecter


Well, whenever there is a story about extramarital affairs general people start judging it as a nasty thing. But the same people will worship Radha and Krishna completely avoiding the fact that it was an extra-marital affair as well. Marriage is a social institution just like family which should be respected but feelings is a thing that doesn't follow the norms. So, if someone is falling for someone or gradually developing feelings for someone else, you can't forcefully stop it either. It's a natural mental process. A person in love with other man/woman can decide to stay loyal to his/her partner but what about the feelings?

I just hope the show will deal maturely with such complexities. I really don't expect anything good from any Hindi shows. They all are trash. I liked the show just because of such bold and complex topic. If they are delivering quality content without turning any of the leads negative, I will continue watching. Anyway, all the daily soaps do glorify patriarchal ideas and toxic relationships. If TRP people can watch them without an objection, why such fuss around this one?


I slightly agree to disagree here as topic came regarding Radha-Krishna...
Some story states Radha was married, some states not...but whatever it is...all in all there was just pure love between Radha-Krishna and it was no where Lust.
Its true they loved each other but they didn't cheat their partners...I agree loving someone and being in a marriage with some one else is not right...bubt we cant name this Extra-Marital affair as Far as I understand...

Regarding Kunal-nandini relationship...no one has a control on their own heart...may be kunal will fall for Nandini and nandini will fall in love with Kunal...it all depends on how do they justify Mauli's character in all this...
It would be easier to accept if Mauli and Kunal were non-compatible, or if they had any problems in their married life...given Rajdeep is abusive...but Mauli-Kunal seems to be in-love couple...

I am ok if Kunal or nandini falls in love or decides to get together...but I really want to see how will they justify Mauli's character...

Its not right to cheat your partner who loves you a lot and its not even right to cheat your best friend😉😉😉
So let them accept the truth that they really wanna get together and become one 😊
No peet ke peeche relationships please

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Falling for someone is natural, but could be infatuation, not necessarily love. And someone said there has to be something that will make Kunal love N, and to be honest, just because N is some abla nari doesnt mean that he should fall for her. I feel in this way, it gives the wrong msg. Mauli is a bit like Deepika in Cocktail. But then, the guy will ultimately fall for the soft spoken cultured abla nari salvaz kammez- Diana character. This is not progressive content but rather regressive where the guy have fun with the other girl( modern) but loves the abla nari, desi- cultured girl, hinting that modern working women are not -love material-
So this you see, really bothers me.
Furthermore, N seems trapped, and if Kunal is the light then fine. But why they have to be paired up romantically. Women are strong & they can fight their own battle alone. Kunal can help her getting out, but N needs to fight herself. And a woman can be independent enough to live alone, when she is free from an abusive relationship, she doesnt need to jump into the first right guy arms she finds. Esp if that guy is her friend hubby.
And K quitting his job and by default will have more time to romance N is ridiculous.

If they want to make Kunal and N in love, then they should divorce their partners. Esp Kunal, but he seems to have a good couple life with Mauli, and he cannot have both.

And i know how indian serials are, they will do the trip and fall with K&N, the hug, the eye scene and all that kind of stuff, to show their love as pure and innocent but cheating remains cheating.

I hope they dont make Mauli vamp and N devi. Just because the girl playing Mauli isnt that well known, people are ignoring her, and are already rooting for KUnan yet to happen

I completely sympathize with N, because I know she is being abused & she doesnt deserve this but I cannot understand her if she wants to have a relationship with Kunal. Same for Kunal, he could be an okay hubby but again, once the affair starts, I wont be able to grasp this. N ditched Mauli, but she helped her always, even after betrayal, she is a working to make ends meet, balancing everything at IL and is such a good wife, and a strong lady but she is going to be betrayed by her BFF and hubby. Feel bad for her. N being tortured doesnt give her a free pass to do everything- including cheating and having an affair with her friend hubby. That's unacceptable.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabia.shaktiaro


When does the youth even learn anything from TV lol. 😆 Coming back to your "is it ok?" - NO, IT CERTAINLY IS NOT. Circumstances make you do things you never though you ever would. Not supporting Kunal or anyone, but there will be happening something definitely before he starts developing feelings for her. It still needs to be unfold to actually comment on that..

What is there to laugh about?And to answer your question,they surely do get influenced by certain shows heavily..
As for, waiting to watch how the story unfold,well,best of luck with that..I don' support this.

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