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Originally posted by: Snow_Angel
Yes abuse is real just bcs we are not the one facing it we judge them saying why she is not protesting...but girl's who are suffering from years it's not easy for them to come out from all that easily and girls like nandini who doesn't even have a family to support it's worst for them..all I feel they deserve a satisfy life too and all they need is just a push and little help from society
You said it so well Sanj .A lot of us have family and friends to back us up lest something goes wrong but what about people like Nandini that don't really have anyone to support them?What people dont realise is saying things and practically doing those things in the same situation are two different things.It's always easy to say "hey she could do this or hey she shouldnt be doing this" but in reality things arent as simple as that. Marriages mean a lot to many women out there in our country even today. Scores of them take years to come out of abusive marriages. So many reasons as to why they put up with it- societal stigma related to broken marriages and divorces, the whole idea of pati parmeshwar and whatever he says is your gospel ,lack of support from family and friends,lack of financial stability and the list goes on. It isnt as easy as saying "oh I wouldnt be doing this".What the person goes through in that situation and why she chooses to do it and under what circumstances..its all going to be different for everyone and only the person going through it can understand and feel the real pain. Also as far as Nandini is concerned I am already seeing small signs of protest. All she needs is a little bit of support and push to break completely free and stand up for herself which will come to her in the form of her friends Kunal and Mouli. I have a feeling her character is going to be the dark horse here .See we still don't know what the real Nandini is like at the moment because this Nandini is way too suppressed,afraid and confined to be herself anymore..So on what basis do we judge her right now? We will see who the real Nandini is only once she gets rid of her abusive husband and is free to be herself once again..Her real personality isnt out yet and I am waiting to see that shift in her character so I can assess and judge how she really is as a person and what sets her apart from the others.
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