sorry i just dont like the idea of extra-marital affairs and i certainly hate abuse, but after reading the orignials plot i wasnt sure i was going to be able to stomach this show...but i watched it from the periphery (aka random epi)...but i must say that yest and today's epi sold me...i shall follow this show simply to watch amrit and saroj..man the chemistry and the scenes were too freakin adorable...and i cant wait to see what develops...
anyways i will share one thought i had about seeing amrit sarla scenes...you know i concluded that each of them NEEDS the relationship not necessarily WNATS it...the reason i say this is because clearly amrit needs sarla for her money and heck he's a guy so of course the occassional showering of affection equaling bed time def doesnt hurt, plus he can ditch her when he doesnt want to deal with...from a guys point of view its not a bad deal...but you can tell that he's not completely comfortable with what he is doing...every tiem he goes there he's cool till he sees the pic on her dresser and when he is reminded that he's fooling around with a married woman his conscious pricks at him...he knows what he's doing is wrong...but frankly he doesnt really have anything to compare to nor worry about...i do beleive that will change once he marries and falls for saroj...you can already see the effects of saroj on him when he's with his lover he has thoughts of her and they only met for like 10 min no words no contact...saroj is going to wreck havoc on what he thought he watned out of life...and i cant wait to see it 😆
as for sarla...she's clearly in the realtionship for what most neglected woman want...ATTENTION...yup that's all seh wants she wants to be able to spend with a man, talk to him, cuddle with him, expect affection and in return she gives the man money and bed time...you see she said no to amrit when he asked her to marry him b/c she doesnt want to give up her current life, she's quite content with her marriage it provides for her the materialstic things money, big house, status, a husband thats there in name...but (at least from what i can tell) he's never there he doesnt provide her with affection, physical content and emotional support which is where amrit coems in...i think the reason she was so interrogative of saroj is cause she has a good thing going with amrit and she doesnt want to loose it, but she knows that amrit isnt IN LOVE with her and she's afraid that once he marries he may fall in love with his wife and that will be the end of their mutually beneficial relationship...
as for saroj...i feel bad for her, but not...she's falling for her fiance and it's so beautiful to see esp after seeing the robot like acceptance she had for madhan...amrit is someone new, he's hot and as far as she can tell he's a good man...the reason i feel bad is cause the poor gal has no idea who her husband really is. a jobless cheater...but i am desi at heart and beleive that she will be able to transform the flawed man into the person even he doesnt know he can be...(heck i can hope...and i'm sure it will take forever and a half)...
Sorry for the long ramblings...its been a long time since i've had the desire to write about some tv ppl...lol
Arps
PS please feel free to share your thought's i love read them