Amrit Sarla Saroj...What is there relationshiP??

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Posted: 13 years ago
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You know, i will be honest i was excited to see this show when i heard that Neha janpandit was going to be a part of it. I know she's not well known and those that do know of her aren't necessarily fans of her, but i've always felt that she cuts short in her roles before she can develop them into something great. Just my opinion. Anyways I started enjoying her in my mom's soap woh rehne wali (i know sad0...anyways...back to my point...so i started to watch this show and realized that the concept wasn't something i was going to be able to tolerate as well as i had hoped...

sorry i just dont like the idea of extra-marital affairs and i certainly hate abuse, but after reading the orignials plot i wasnt sure i was going to be able to stomach this show...but i watched it from the periphery (aka random epi)...but i must say that yest and today's epi sold me...i shall follow this show simply to watch amrit and saroj..man the chemistry and the scenes were too freakin adorable...and i cant wait to see what develops...

anyways i will share one thought i had about seeing amrit sarla scenes...you know i concluded that each of them NEEDS the relationship not necessarily WNATS it...the reason i say this is because clearly amrit needs sarla for her money and heck he's a guy so of course the occassional showering of affection equaling bed time def doesnt hurt, plus he can ditch her when he doesnt want to deal with...from a guys point of view its not a bad deal...but you can tell that he's not completely comfortable with what he is doing...every tiem he goes there he's cool till he sees the pic on her dresser and when he is reminded that he's fooling around with a married woman his conscious pricks at him...he knows what he's doing is wrong...but frankly he doesnt really have anything to compare to nor worry about...i do beleive that will change once he marries and falls for saroj...you can already see the effects of saroj on him when he's with his lover he has thoughts of her and they only met for like 10 min no words no contact...saroj is going to wreck havoc on what he thought he watned out of life...and i cant wait to see it 😆

as for sarla...she's clearly in the realtionship for what most neglected woman want...ATTENTION...yup that's all seh wants she wants to be able to spend with a man, talk to him, cuddle with him, expect affection and in return she gives the man money and bed time...you see she said no to amrit when he asked her to marry him b/c she doesnt want to give up her current life, she's quite content with her marriage it provides for her the materialstic things money, big house, status, a husband thats there in name...but (at least from what i can tell) he's never there he doesnt provide her with affection, physical content and emotional support which is where amrit coems in...i think the reason she was so interrogative of saroj is cause she has a good thing going with amrit and she doesnt want to loose it, but she knows that amrit isnt IN LOVE with her and she's afraid that once he marries he may fall in love with his wife and that will be the end of their mutually beneficial relationship...

as for saroj...i feel bad for her, but not...she's falling for her fiance and it's so beautiful to see esp after seeing the robot like acceptance she had for madhan...amrit is someone new, he's hot and as far as she can tell he's a good man...the reason i feel bad is cause the poor gal has no idea who her husband really is. a jobless cheater...but i am desi at heart and beleive that she will be able to transform the flawed man into the person even he doesnt know he can be...(heck i can hope...and i'm sure it will take forever and a half)...

Sorry for the long ramblings...its been a long time since i've had the desire to write about some tv ppl...lol

Arps

PS please feel free to share your thought's i love read them

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Posted: 13 years ago
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great post. it's going to be really interesting seeing how saroj changes amrit. and agree, the episodes are getting better, i haven't seen todays yet but i liked how he was imagining her face everywhere already😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arpuuu ur here too😛

oh man I missed reading ur lamba PPs😆😆 but girl really AWESOMEEE post n I completely agree with what u said!!! At first even I kinda found the concept of the show a little ugghh cuz of u knw past "experience" but seeing Amirt ( I LOVE EIJAZ my first crush ☺️) so anyways seeing Amrit-Saroj scenes I've decided that im gonna over look the concept of the show n watch it for Amrit-Saroj they're AMAZING!!!!! and in tdy's epi they were so BEAUTIFUL 😍 n the O re piyaa in the back *BLUSH* too cuteee <3333 im so waiting for them to get married obvsly Saroj will change Amrit im sure its gonna be interesting to see how all this happens n what sarla does 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Amrit and Sarla both have some needs and a void in their lives that the other fills, Amrit is in for the money and Sarla for the attention and love that she's lacking from her married life, so their relationship can be called both selfish and conditional. The love that Saroj is feeling is unconditional and once Amrit see's that he won't be able to hurt her no matter how badly he wants the money. If he still ends up hurting her then he's a heartless 🤬 but I have a feeling it's not going to go that route.
Amrit and Sarla's bubble will burst one of these days for sure but once Amrit and Saroj get past this then they'll be able to withstand anything and anyone in their lives together. Hah I'm a dreamer, a true Pisces. Love conquers all. ❤️
I feel for each character as down the road. Amrit will be struggling with his conscience and his love for Saroj which will be agonizing for him and for us to watch. Saroj is going to feel hurt and betrayed as she has no clue as to the other side of Amrit. Sarla will eventually need to let go of Amrit once she realizes that she really can't control or lure him with money and the harsh reality that she can't have everything that she wants.
I'm looking forward to seeing the roller coaster ride, I'll have my kleenix by my for times this serial is going to make me cry but at the end it has to be Amrit and Saroj. I love their adorable jodi. ❤️
Have a good weekend, see you all on Monday.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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waht a lovely beautiful post dear..i'm so mch in love with Amrit and saroj jodi so cute and adorable ...😍
well love can change anyone so im waitin for thes how saroj will chng Amrit...hope somthing like that happn..😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ arp04srocks Very nice post..Agree.😊
@Sakeena sis Me too want same Track...😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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arpuuu

what a pleasant surprise

finally i got u here

thank god u started watching this show

and BANG ON .UR COMMENT ON SARLA

every1 here is either hating her and confused abt her character thta what she wants

i wanted to post a thread clarifying it

but u jus nailed it gal

and yeah amrit saroj scenes r equally hawt adorable sizzling...all at the same time

DONT LEAVE THIS FORUM ARPU

ITS REALLY NICE TO FIND OLD FRIENDS BACK
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post on Sarla and Amrit's need. You are correct. THis relationship is a give and take and they are both happy with what they are getting out of it so far. But Sarla is a smart woman too and she has a bit of an upper hand than Amrit in this relationship. She enjoys his company but as you can see there are some emotional strings attached from Sarla's side that are not there from Amrit's side. To him its pure business. He makes her happy...she gives him money. But Sarla has a sort of dependence on him...she needs him there for her when she is feeling lonely, which will def see a disturbance when Saroj enters the picture. So she is anxious to make sure that all remains the same even after he marries, but at the same time preparing herself for the worst (like what she said putting color on him on holi.. that it might be the last chance for her).

But if Amrit and Sarla's relationship is exposed to everyone(EVERYONE) then there is no predicting what will the outcome be. So its a delicate situation... that needs to be handled with care. Vinod is the voice of reason here...unlike Amrit's mother who thought getting him married will solve the problem for her, Vinod knows that it will lead to major problems and he has warned them all ahead.

As for Saroj and Amrit's relationship, i think there are already differences from what was shown in the south shows. Like in the mallu version, The guy never saw Ganga before marriage, i think only his mother and family met them and fixed it. He didn't care two hoots for her, he avoided her like plague. And there was a bit of possessiveness for Sarla's character (almost making the audience believe that he was not just physically but emotionally involved with her too). THere was also a lack of respect for the younger brother, he didn't care that his lil bro disapproved of everything he did. He never felt the need to explain himself to anyone.
Here Amrit is less attached to Sarla and at least for now has some sense of Saroj's existence. Though, i am afraid he is faking it. And then his attempt at appeasing Vinod, that sweetness wasn't there in the south shows between the brothers.
So i am hopeful that it will be different from the south shows.

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