Harman... Best hubby or just a dhobi

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RIMO9013

@RIMO9013

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Posted: 7 years ago

Yest episode showed harman was forced to take a challenge to wash the clothes of entire kinnar family where he's living with Saumya these days, this task was given by the corrupt guruma who is totally under preetoo influences, as preetoo wanted her son nt to play dhol and beg neg on streets so guruma made him busy in household chores

Here we get to know another side of harman character he himself said that I was born to wrote another type of love story bt now its oke he's washing clothes it symbolic of working equality, no matter which type of work it is bt husband and wife can exchange their duty and works any time according to needs there is nothing shame on doing household works fr a husband as he's an equal part of marital relationship so there is nt necessary that a husband has to perform only earning and outside works and wife is only for fulfilling indoor works

There is nothing anti male ego to help ur wife in household works fr instance many of us may be noticed many times our father is standing beside our mom in kitchen and helping her in chopping vegetables or cooking, did u ever noticed the proud blushing smile on ur moms face or the satisfaction of becoming a life partner in true sense on ur father's eyes it's called husband wife equation it's a feeling of love care affection something only u have to feel nt to describe with words it's something tender beautiful essence of the most beautiful relationship in this world that is husband wife relationship

So i really don't think to exchange their duty harman has committed any crime or its a matter of shame fr a male character bt it's a pride fr a husband that he is ready to give support his wife in any case no matter what the situation is he's always there for her and her family as harman considered kinnars his extended family i think we should think with maturity to understand this type of out of the track character and a most beautiful relationship in this world that is married relationship

Ghar ka kam karne se ya biwi ko help karne se mardangi kam nehi ho jata balki rishte me thoda mithas aur ghool jata so fr me harman is a #HusbandsGoal in true sense by washing clothes his matcho image didn't decrease bt humanity and husbandry emotions in himself increased #harman again proved that he has travelled a long way in his life from a happy go lucky reluctant village boy to a loving caring protective dutiful husband... I JUST CAN'T THINK A BETTER HUSBAND THAN U #HARMAN U AGAIN SET A NEW BENCHMARK FOR ALL HUSBAND COMMUNITY

PS.. Completely my pov anyone is free to agree or disagree no need to make it a war zone

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sairitu

@sairitu

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Posted: 7 years ago

Very well said Yaar. there is nothing that we disagree with your opinion.

Its amazes me,whenever i see harman going to any extent for his ladylove.This man has no limits😊 .

It not only proves that he is a great lover/husband who respects his wife equally but also as a great human being who doesnt see any gender difference and feel awkward to wash all kinnar clothes .

Lot of husbands cant even think of touching their wife feet or washing clothes and cleaning vessels on the name of equality or love,its easy to say that we are equals but its difficult to practice it literally,here makes harman so special that he is a man of actions not words.👏 .He is undoubtedly the best husband ever in real or reel life.

I am not fan of vivian nor rubina as i like characters more than actors.i didnt even know them before watching shakti.i am also new to this fandom wars on social networking platforms. what i didnt understand here is some of vivian fans are making fun of harman character and haya and trying to pull the harman character down with their constant negative remarks.what kind of fans they are when vivian himself loved the harman character the most,cant they agree with their hero? How could they degrade harman character which is the best on tv?

Coming to the current track-----

No matter how good haya scenes are but this kinnar test drama and harpreet, mohini drama are being stretched bit too much and became unbearable for viewers .Makers of shakti are so non creative and useless ,instead of focusing on main leads journey and show some progress in their relation ship ,they are obsessed with harpreet drama and their romance 😡😡

god knows ,when will we get to see haya living together as preeto started another drama by leaving the harak house as per the latest segments .I am sure this is their plan again as harak can never cheat preeto .how could he fall for mohini overnight after harman left their house ? Can take their dramas anymore ? when will this makers come out of this preeto obsession ? 😕😕

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anitarani

@anitarani

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+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

Avooo Rimo - Vivian deewani...🤗

Please do keep coming to the forum with your

sweet insights...For me...its definitely not

degrading for the male to help his spouse..

In fact there's more love and appreciation

from the wife when her hubby helps her in

whatever way possible...and here we talk

about Harman...who has been unique from

the outset itself...What is irritating and a

big put off in the faltu track of Guruma

and their challenges...a big put off...and

so Harman responding to them...even if

it means helping out Saumya is seen

negatively. Waise ...where will you get

a more positive/loving and co-perative

pati like Harman.. ...akhir banda bilkul

hero hai...dont forget that...😳

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JodhaAmer

@JodhaAmer

Beginner

Posted: 7 years ago

Bravo Rimo sis, i like your article soo much.

I totally agree with, here Harman gives a completly new concept of love, he portrayed perfectly the image of helper husband nd yes our parents help eachone the other without any shame, nd let me to say, even in my religion "Islam" , our prophet PBUH, was helping his wives in household works. So what is the prb?

I respect deeply Vivian Dsena for accepting this challenging role nd didn't feel any shame to do it.

Thank u again my sister

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MyDriYa

@MyDriYa

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 7 years ago

Nothing wrong with Harman doing those things... But I didn't like the scene...🥱

He is a very good husband but now why to prove anyone .. It's dragging now ... #Challenges

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alzahara

@alzahara

Inactive

Posted: 7 years ago

Okay I don't think when the husband help his wife that is shame or wrong.

The sharing is good

But here Harman was washing clothes of strange people (all Kinnear) rather than his clothes or soumya clothes.

So I personally dislike this.

Harman give mush more and more for nothing. He humiliated him self to mush

I need him strong man not follower of other.

On other hand Soumya take more and mush more than she give and she has part of responsibility on what's Harman cond condition now.

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Dhieb Yosra

@Flora15

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Posted: 7 years ago

Thanks rimo for making this thread and take a bow for it 👏 👏 👏 Really Harman is a man of actions and not of words like any other man. Harman believes completely in equality between Husband and wife in everything. It doesn't matter for him exchanging work with his wife.. Harman have no shame or any complexe to do household.Adored his dialogue when he said to that guruma he he's writing a different love story and he's proud washing clothes as helping his wife will increase their love story. Harman is a husband goal per excellence. Don't know why people criticizing Harman and talking badly about himWhat's their problem if a husband help his his wife,? Doing households made him great in his wife eyes and any other woman watching Harman sure will turn jealous. Men are talking about equality but in practice they're invisibles or they accept somethings and rejecting others but Harman is different and unique ;equality means equality in everything. Harman is a new gem in daily soaps and he's for me real, dutiful , caring and loving husband. He's millions times better than others hros in others love stories who look fake, sofisticatcated, superficiel, repetitive and has been. Harman is a true lover, simple, real, man of words, equal to himself and his big heart isn't only filled by love but by humanity too. Pround of Vivian for playing Harman character and doing this big challenge. What made Harman different is his belief in equality between him and his wife is unconditional bcz Harman is establishing this equality between him and his kinar wife. Harman is an iconic husband and many women would feel jealous as they can't rejoice with that equality even being complete.Saumya is really the luckiest wife. About Harman washing all kinars clothes, what's the problem in that if Harman considers them as his family in law and if that work is given to his wife sure she'll do all kinars household. His wife is doing her duties as a wife fulfilling the grain condition on her husband behalf so he have to do her work on her behalf. Harman has done that with love and for love without any single objection. Harman is the best hubby that any woman dreams with.

Really want write more about this scene as it was the talk of lovers and haters of the show but I can't.Anyway thanks dearest Rimou and wish see others posts🥺

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Hend Refai

@Hend_Refai

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

My lovely friend Rimo

thank you so much for your lovely post

I agree with you and don't agree with you

don't get confused and I will explain to you

first thing Harman is not Vivian there is huge difference between them so if we criticizing something in Harman character it doesn't mean that attacking Vivian

Vivian as a actor do his character scenes perfectly no mater what he is asked to do and that is the professional of actor

Secondly there is nothing wrong for a man to help his wife in house work

like my sister Naima said Prophet Mohamed peace be upon him and his companions were helping their wives in the house work there was no shame in it and this was in public they didn't try to hide it although they were a ruler for great empire but in their houses they were doing their house work simply and easy without any shame

so it is something to proud of for a man to help his wife

you remember in the hut track Harman was washing his clothes and it was easy and the scene didn't hurt anyone but everyone was happy with the scene cause it show how caring Harman is

But for me as a viewer for the show I really hate this track and this conditions thing

Harman doesn't need to prove his love to anyone he proved it over and over and over before

so for me it is hard to watch this scene

not because Harman washing cloths

but because they ordered him to do it

to humiliate him

So he didn't do it because he was helping his wife

he did it because he was ordered to

you say he consider them as his wife's family and that is why he accepted it without problem

but they don't consider him as one of them

they asked him to wash the cloths as a servant or to humiliate him nothing more

they way they ordered him and they way they throw the cloths to him to wash

that is why it was not good for Harman character to do it

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RIMO9013

@RIMO9013

Sparkler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: sairitu
Very well said Yaar. there is nothing that we disagree with your opinion.
Its amazes me,whenever i see harman going to any extent for his ladylove.This man has no limits😊 .
It not only proves that he is a great lover/husband who respects his wife equally but also as a great human being who doesnt see any gender difference and feel awkward to wash all kinnar clothes .
Lot of husbands cant even think of touching their wife feet or washing clothes and cleaning vessels on the name of equality or love,its easy to say that we are equals but its difficult to practice it literally,here makes harman so special that he is a man of actions not words.👏 .He is undoubtedly the best husband ever in real or reel life.
I am not fan of vivian nor rubina as i like characters more than actors.i didnt even know them before watching shakti.i am also new to this fandom wars on social networking platforms. what i didnt understand here is some of vivian fans are making fun of harman character and haya and trying to pull the harman character down with their constant negative remarks.what kind of fans they are when vivian himself loved the harman character the most,cant they agree with their hero? How could they degrade harman character which is the best on tv?
Coming to the current track-----
No matter how good haya scenes are but this kinnar test drama and harpreet, mohini drama are being stretched bit too much and became unbearable for viewers .Makers of shakti are so non creative and useless ,instead of focusing on main leads journey and show some progress in their relation ship ,they are obsessed with harpreet drama and their romance 😡😡
god knows ,when will we get to see haya living together as preeto started another drama by leaving the harak house as per the latest segments .I am sure this is their plan again as harak can never cheat preeto .how could he fall for mohini overnight after harman left their house ? Can take their dramas anymore ? when will this makers come out of this preeto obsession ? 😕😕

Thanks dear for sharing ur precious views on my post u even describe my thoughts better than me and I really appreciate ur way of thinking on gender equality and equality of work

Yes harman is a man of principle and practice nt man of words he proved that.

I really disgusted with this wired worst guruma and harpreet mohini vulgar drama don't know when will we get rid of this crap i had never seen more worst cvs than shakti cvs before they actually don't know how to handle the talent of actor and they are litarally obsessed with preetoo and her obsession for her son which crossed all limits these days still i find harman is the only saving grace of this show its only harman character and I must say harman is lucky to be played by @VivianDsena01, vds spectacular acting skills we r hooked to this show and yes vivian is really happy to play harman he's getting immense popularity and recognition for this character so as a die-hard vdians i will keep supporting him till he's with this show

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RIMO9013

@RIMO9013

Sparkler

Posted: 7 years ago

#10

Originally posted by: anitarani
Avooo Rimo - Vivian deewani...🤗
Please do keep coming to the forum with your
sweet insights...For me...its definitely not
degrading for the male to help his spouse..
In fact there's more love and appreciation
from the wife when her hubby helps her in
whatever way possible...and here we talk
about Harman...who has been unique from
the outset itself...What is irritating and a
big put off in the faltu track of Guruma
and their challenges...a big put off...and
so Harman responding to them...even if
it means helping out Saumya is seen
negatively. Waise ...where will you get
a more positive/loving and co-perative
pati like Harman.. ...akhir banda bilkul
hero hai...dont forget that...😳

Awww thanks for my new nam karan i soo like it😳 warna mai to yunhi badnam hoon in galiyon me 😆 i got so many titles fr masses jobless hormonal aunty 🤣 lol lol getting married is equal to become aunty according to new logic bt with this logic so many telly heroines should be called as aunty 🤣 rip logic

Now coming to harman and his washing clothes, I really didn't find anything wrong or degrading himself by doing household work and helping his wife bt yes i litarally irritated and disgusted on guruma commanding behaviour fr me she's none to judge harman if he's worthy fr Saumya or not but what to its fault of cvs they r totally failure to execute the track

Bt at the end of the day I love my harman banda bilkul hero hai sahi maine me 👏

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