Facing your love is like facing yourself - Page 2

Originally posted by: jyoti06

@Sairitu : Ok this is what I feel the reason behind why Saya is suddenly shown acting like a selfish and like u said she is getting sadistic pleasure seeing HaYa separate ...

this is the reason below .. just my assumption ..

She is acting like a selfish person here who wants Soumya in this world so that she can proudly say others how they hv a beautiful kinner like Soumya in their world .. Mayb this is what makers r planning to show that its not Harman but Kinners who will take advantage of her beauty for their own agenda (which includes mayb selling her to Bangkok too) and this is one reason why Harman was hiding her from this world which actually uses a kinner's beauty for money making but will celebrate that same kinner's death if tomorrow she dies (just like the market incident) ..This is the bitter reality that Soumya might realise later and regret for choosing this world over her Harmanji 🤔 .. Mayb she will then realise Harman was never ashamed of her identity but was scared of the kinner world which takes advantage of her same identity ...But for her to realise this bitter reality and remove all that doubts from her mind completely , it was important that she steps into this world once and then herself realise the difference between who is her own and who is stranger .. In the end she will get the message loud and clear that its only Harmanji who is her real family and wellwisher .. No Saya or anyone ...

And yes bangkok is there .. dont worry .. its just delayed by another week .. but actors hv confirmed it ..

Originally posted by: Flora15

well friends,i dont know what should i say abt yerterday's episode which left me in tears .After a very long time ,i cried for a character(harman).I am not a fan of vivian or rubina .I didnt even know them till this year.in fact i started watching the show from ,jan,2017.but after watching the whole series ,i felt harman faced more troubles,struggles ,pain than others including soumya in their love journey.He not only faced the wrath of his family ,fought with kinnars and world but also took pain soumya gave him inadvertently on the name of sacrifice .If you watch any episode randomly you will know the fact.Soumya 's pain is evident being as kinnar but harman just took all pain of her by dedicating his life for her without expecting anything from her( not even a physical need ,by the way he didnt get a proper hug or confession from soumya yet 😆,consummation is not even in wildest dreams ) .i couldnt see harman's pain when he came home alone.As a strong man when he controlled his tears but they were still rolling out from his eyes.i felt disturbed ,carried the same emotions whole night.May be like Haya as their fans even it is a tough phase for us .

Flora,you are amazing yaar,i got inspired by your story and became more responsible towards life.you always fascinate us with your posts.thank you.

hey friends,did you notice that anita rani is missing from forum from quite long time.plz ,comeback dear,we miss your posts.

hai jyothi,i always adore your posts and your are always at your best to analyze the characters POV.

i want to share my observations with you jyothi and i will appreciate if you share your analysis on that.

if you notice saya 's behavior yesterday ,she behaved that she is kind of enjoying sadistic pleasure of Haya separation and she is also truly jealous of haya .when ever she felt that soumya emotionally melting for harman ,she brain washed her and closed the window doors.she immediately agreed to send soumya for nak without even feeling bad for her and thinking twice to put her in that job.which mother in the world does that? i accept her MU for harman but cant accept her behavior with soumya when ravina said soumya abt harman's love ,i found her restless and scolded ravina. she has always been wild,selfish and sadistic from the beginning ,she tortured nimmi like hell .i thought she is changed in the middle after nimmi's death but i was wrong .i dont know whether i am over reacting but this is what i feel right now.i would love to know your opinion on that.

God cant be everywhere thats why he created a mother.

If preeto,mallika or saya,raavi are mothers ,then its better not to have a mother .No child deserve this kind of mothers.

Preeto,i mean who does that to her own child? loving your son doesnt mean you spoil him,make him useless and rub your thoughts and wishes on him and show hell for him.i completely understand if she doesnt want to accept a kinnar as her bahu.you have to convince your own son or tell me strictly your opinion on that ,if case if he doesnt agree than ask him to have a life on his own but this continuous plotting,planning and now crossed all the limits of faking love and concern for him.she back stabbed him worst of all.even biggest enemies wont do that.when will she get exposed man? i want preeto 's expose than soumya's confession now.nobody in that family truly love or care for harman except chintu .He is so unlucky ,in that way atleast soumya is lucky to have nani,nimmi and surbhi.

I missed one point here that is self sympathy and self discrimination of people.self sympathy is the biggest enemy for us. i use to be like that but after seeing so many under privileged kids ,i realized that i am so blessed and should help people within my limits. thats why i donate to save the children organisation every month.i often see the talk of this world and that world in the serial.what freaking world they are talking abt ? we all live in the same world,stop being self discriminated and self sympathized .As long as you dont respect yourself and work hard for living ,world will not treat you equally.we should force this world to respect us.instead of asking for nak,why cant they start work like tailoring,manufacturing candles,matchboxes etc.they cant cv's show this kind of economic and lifestyle development in kinnars through soumya character ? instead of making her to dance and beg.this will really change the mind set of people who watch the serial.for ex ,i changed alot .i dont shy away saying that i use to look down upon homosexuals but this serial my thinking completely.i respect everybody's sexual identity and treat them equally.i use to make fum of karan johar for his sexuality ,now i dont ,i talk abt his work and respect his personal life .come on showmakers,dont only think abt TRP's .this show has lot of potential to change the old mindsets of society .give us progressive tracks but not regressive and negative tracks .

Initially ,we all thought that soumya will be shifted to bangkok but it looks like she is shifted to an another kinnar house.will preeto do something for this bangkok shift ? i really dont know.

is bangkok track really there? sometimes i get this doubt.

friends,anybody help me on this by sharing any confirmation msg from PH or from actors.sometimes we cant believe this channels .