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Posted: 8 years ago
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Saumya has no self respect? Has she sacrificed a thing called self respect just to be with harman?

Saumya showed so much attitude when she was kidnapped and kept with the kinners? What happened?

Is daily humiliation happiness for her?

He hair is pulled, she is treated as trash by most and yet she is happy to doll up and wait for some romantic gesture from Harman.

She is a shame for womanhood.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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CVs have totally failed here...in showing an individual who
was brought up with nil acceptance, always hidden from
society, who never was allowed to interact with the outside
world...now this weak person thrown in midst of the tigers
and sharks of this world...where survivial of the fittest
is the norm...in this state...the CVs should have step by
step chosen to show Saumya coming out of her shame
of her physical disablity, accepting herself...and then
would come the boldness to stand up for herself...Rather
after touching upon a sensitive topic of kinners...CVs
chose the regressive Saas Bahu way ...putting down
and downsizing her existence to such ...its beyond
pathetic.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its rather a total shame on the CVs for only capitalizing on the
subject of kinners and doing nothing in the name of social
awareness but showing more regression and abuse in the
guise of social justice.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#4
She's a victim of a life-long abuse from her own father and dadi, and after finding out the reason for that abuse, she went through first kinnarland trauma, then the kidnapping and almost selling trauma, then her mother (her only shakti for a long time) death trauma.
Then, when she was most vernalable she went through the biggest trauma of all; a.k.a Preeto, who didn't leave a way to convince her that her mere existence in life is a horrible crime that deserves worst punishment possible!
So, of course she hates her being a kinnar and thus hates herself very much, she thinks it's all her fault, that she's "bad" for all her beloved ones! She thinks however bad any of them treat her, it is her just punishment, that she deserves it for the horrible crime of being a kinnar, and of course, she thinks she doesn't deserve Harman's love or devotion, and thinks herself the worst thing that ever happened to him!
So, you tell me, if someone hate themselves all that much, would they have any place left for self-respect?

Of course CVs exaggerate that too much, resulting in a rather distorted image of her state, not to mention bad execution that doesn't give her proper space to showcase and clarify her inner turmoil and psychological problems to the viewer...
Edited by H_H_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: H_H_

She's a victim of a life-long abuse from her own father and dadi, and after finding out the reason for that abuse, she went through first kinnarland trauma, then the kidnapping and almost selling trauma, then her mother (her only shakti for a long time) death trauma.
Then, when she was most vernalable she went through the biggest trauma of all; a.k.a Preeto, who didn't leave a way to convince her that her mere existence in life is a horrible crime that deserves worst punishment possible!
So, of course she hates her being a kinnar and thus hates herself very much, she thinks it's all her fault, that she's "bad" for all her beloved ones! She thinks however bad any of them treat her, it is her just punishment, that she deserves it for the horrible crime of being a kinnar, and of course, she thinks she doesn't deserve Harman's love or devotion, and thinks herself the worst thing that ever happened to him!
So, you tell me, if someone hate themselves all that much, would they have any place left for self-respect?



Bang on...so beautifully u have described it all...how can this fact not be
recognized...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: H_H_

She's a victim of a life-long abuse from her own father and dadi, and after finding out the reason for that abuse, she went through first kinnarland trauma, then the kidnapping and almost selling trauma, then her mother (her only shakti for a long time) death trauma.
Then, when she was most vernalable she went through the biggest trauma of all; a.k.a Preeto, who didn't leave a way to convince her that her mere existence in life is a horrible crime that deserves worst punishment possible!
So, of course she hates her being a kinnar and thus hates herself very much, she thinks it's all her fault, that she's "bad" for all her beloved ones! She thinks however bad any of them treat her, it is her just punishment, that she deserves it for the horrible crime of being a kinnar, and of course, she thinks she doesn't deserve Harman's love or devotion, and thinks herself the worst thing that ever happened to him!
So, you tell me, if someone hate themselves all that much, would they have any place left for self-respect?



If she can respond to love from Harman, she should be able to respond to abuse as well.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She is behaving like typical Gopi bahu at athe end of the day.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

She is behaving like typical Gopi bahu at athe end of the day.


Gopi bahu was born a real woman...
not Saumya...

this fact to grasp, understand her suffering is the
crux of the matter sadly not dealt with...She
needs a lot of counselling and help to think and
behave like a normal woman...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#9
What response? Any rare response she shows is involuntary due to her strong feelings towards him, and she actually beat herself up when she does -involuntarily- show him any reciprocation, thinking herself at fault and guilty... and she quickly goes back to giving him the cold shoulder (that's driving him mad) thinking she's thus protecting him from her harmful self!!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#10
If she is really a kinner,then what is the future for her? In that house?

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