haya marriage

what is marriage?

if 2 do 7 pheras with each other will it become a mrg?😕

if boy kept sinddor to other will it become a mrg?😕

if a boy kept manglsutra to other will it become a mrg?😕

i dont think so

mrg is a life long bond where to persons stay with each other by trusting each other😊
both should accept each other heartfully😳
there should respect each other
above all there should be love between them
then it will become a mrg even without a sindoor

during haya sindoor mrg
already harman attracted to soumya 😳
there is a unknowing feeling towards soumya for him
so when harakh said to harman to keep sindoor on soumya forehead he did it because he wants her he thought both can be happy with each other nd he can give all happiness to her not because harakh kept gun on his forehead

if he kidnapped surbhi instead of soumya on that day iam sure he will escape from there or run away 😆😆

nd soumya respect harman she trust harman nd soumya felt after her mother it is harman who can take care of her like that nd give secure feeling to her
so both sides no restrictions for this mrg as both want each other during sindoor mrg😳

so when harman kept sindoor to soumya itself haya complete mrg of haya happened nd with pheras he made their mrg official😳


where as harman mrg with surbhi is not a mrg at all😡 as harman dont like her at all
its a one side mrg as only surbhi wants him but not harman
harman heart is filled with soumya his gulabo😳
i dont think this mrg breaks haya mrg as harman heart filled with his gulabo nd soumya heart is filled with harman this is enough for two persons to stay life long❤️

so iam not going to accept harman mrg with surbhi as a mrg its just a play

for me mrg means its haya mrg only





what do u think frnds ?
ur opinion on this mrg?

Lovely post..
Haya and Harbhi marg ma kuch nahi boal sakta kab CVs kya kare..
Mera ko ya sare shadi samjha nahi ati hai tv ma kyun ki sab apne hisab sa karta hai haya marriage ma pehla phera uska baad sara rasma aur mahi ka saath harman ki shadi ma pehla phera hua tha par Surbhi ka saath shadi ma pehla sindoor and mangalsutra pehnaya phir phera hua aisa kaisa😳 cvs apne game plan sa shadi ki rasma karta hai..

Originally posted by: Mona_90

Lovely post..
Haya and Harbhi marg ma kuch nahi boal sakta kab CVs kya kare..
Mera ko ya sare shadi samjha nahi ati hai tv ma kyun ki sab apne hisab sa karta hai haya marriage ma pehla phera uska baad sara rasma aur mahi ka saath harman ki shadi ma pehla phera hua tha par Surbhi ka saath shadi ma pehla sindoor and mangalsutra pehnaya phir phera hua aisa kaisa😳 cvs apne game plan sa shadi ki rasma karta hai..

Mona cvs played with the institution of marriage
Don't know how they are going to rectify it
CVS made mrg a joke

Originally posted by: Kashish_shine

Hey usha,

I will throw light on this subject with my tiny knowledge in a balanced way. If you ask me, marriage is like a bond when you will spend rest of your life learning about each other. Every now & then things will blow up, but that's the time marriage vows need to be kept intact. In short, marriage is a memory of togetherness with a bit forgiveness & a promise to never give up the sacred knot and vows!

Here, both Soumya and Surbhi made me unhappy and I can't support either. See if anyone will denote "Phera" & "Sindoor" as objects , then it carries no meaning. But we respect it due to the essence it possess! We respect as the holy chants bestow some sacred vows, which couple need to adhere.

I completely agree that a marriage is like a journey of togetherness. Even without vermilion, it can be justified with due trust, love, care, respect & understanding. Coming to Soumya, till the second marriage hadn't happened I can every way justify it. But after the second marriage, the fallacy came out. Soumya is married to Harman means she needed to respect the vows which HaYa took during 'Pheras'. But she broke it. For example, The essence of the 2nd phera is respect & love. A bride (Somu) will stay by groom's (Harman) side with every thick and thin and support him always in return of soul love. Though Harman gave her all love but she broke this respect irrespective of situations. Here comes the loop hole that though the marriage doesn't need phera & sindoor to show but respect and trust it needs! Earlier Somu trusted Harman that in any circumstances, he would come & rescue her from every danger! Where did that trust move away? From the day, Harak Singh kept gun on Harman's head to marry Somu, he kept all the vows and respect intact but in the thin times Somu broke that.

Coming to Surbhi, it's more than a deal now! It's a deal in the guise of marriage. Harman married her in the behest of KASAM & surbhi married him to give Somu Di a CHAD, as of now. No respect, love, care are there in this marriage. As per psyche, this marriage can't be justified like wise if respect is breached, how can I justify Somu's marriage? It's all about psychological aspect.

Coming to legal aspect, according to Hindu marriage act, 1955 HaYa marriage is legally untenable. But as per NALSA judgement, 2014 of honorable SC, HaYa marriage could get legal stamp if accepted in court. And the right to protection of transgender bill is already passed in upper house but many clauses are diluted. Well, if the 2nd marriage would not happen then there was every scope to maintain the chest of HaYa marriage. But legally, in prevailing circumstances HaYa marriage is unsustainable as Harman is married to Surbhi. Though there is no respect, love and care still lawfully both are married.

Finally, in my POV both marriages possess loop holes. Its someone's perspective to see things. If someone doesn't accept HaYa marriage, I can't deny & if someone doesn't accept Harbhi marriage, I can't deny too. It depends on which angle, one judges the institution of marriage. This is my POV, rest up to you to judge. Anyone is free to deny.

Kashish i agree with you
True love trust understanding respect each other is very much needed for any mrg

Soumya thinks surbhi can give happiness to Harman which she can't give she did this to give Harman family life but sad thing is none care his feelings what actually Harman wants he likes it or not
Nd i always support Haya mrg as both love each other nd his mrg with surbhi is acceptable when Harman accepts this mrg but Iam sure he will never accept it he loves his gulabo
Harman love for soumya is beyond everything
I hope cvs don't destroy Haya mrg further

U put many gd points legally
Thanks for the great information
Very well said dear


Hope cvs didn't forget the concept of the show
Nd they should come to the original concept soon
Else it will damage the show

For me marriage is more about love, trust, caring, understanding..

Originally posted by: anitarani

For me marriage is more about love, trust, caring, understanding..

But yes marriage rites are important...Over here Harman &

Saumya marriage was with their consent...in fact even during

the pheras when Saumya took ill...Harman showed his first

step of understanding & care, carried her...and finished the

pheras - built on a solid foundation...but Saumya's kalpana se

pare situation shook this foundation which was choked by the

immense pressure of family/society...Coming to his marriage

with Surbhi... because of the kasam...there is so much anger,hatred, frustration...on the part of Harman...he's not interested...the foundation itself is so weak ...how will it stand the test of time...don't know..

very well siad anita description of marrage
solid foundation of haya mrg will become more strong in the future

Rashmi sharma has always played wid the institution of marriage in her shows..Ppl can say dat marriage is a sacred bond of love etc.

@usha.. Agree Shadi jaisa Pavitra Rishtey ko TV Shows Majak bana deta hai apne Ghatia track sa😳