Saumya has very low self esteem

Since monday i m totally confused what writers are doing with Saumya.
Saumya always seems innocent soul, wont harm anyone. But now influence so fast and bad with Preeto. She was never ever influence by Saaya and Guruma! Innocent Saumya would never help Preeto getting Harman marry to Surbi. This is her sister.
After Nimmi dead Saumya seems totally lost.. no confidence. and has so low self esteem...Seems she lost her Shakti. She always had little confidence but still not so lost..

Saumya always wanted Harman to accept..her but when he did.. it did nothing to her.. no scenes of happiness etc. blame the writers of this... the execution of Saumya and screenplay last weeks is not good. Like sindu is back.. did they ever explaing where she went..

- Does she really believe she will be happy in a corner seeing her husband with her sister
- Does she really believe she is helping everyone with this and it will help Harman
- Does she realise she is letting her sis marry into a mad house, a man who is married, doesnt love her.

What does Saumya want? Writers show her thoughts and not give her non sence dialogues.. Give some respect to the character

Hope writers keep Haya intact. Afraid

Im feeling the same.i dnt understand why cvs ruined soumya innocent.Gosh what hve they done to my favourite character soumya and harman also if he also agree with the marriage.bck to track please.

They are not showing Saumya side; why the sudden change. That Preeto daily torture got to her. Also there is no interaction with other house members at all.. So it is difficult to understand i kinda agreed.
But it is Saumya low esteem .. because she is kinner.. she is doing this.. but writers dont seems get it execute it correct right now.

Saumya always had self esteem issues...and after the extreme

I must say i struggle with that part too, why does Saumya allow Surbi to get involved in this all. It is her sister. Writers dont explain it all. Saumya would never do this i firm believe. Also why indeed emotional blackmail. Before Nimmi dead .. it was Saumya who wanted to be totally honest to Harman .. etc.
Now after Nimmi dead she is totally lost.. but the execution what is happening so wrong..

Saumya is too battered emotionally at the moment...She is at her

Agree with you..
Show ka Kalpane se pare characte hai sab.. Crap and Crap😔

Saumya has issues with self esteem, has no confidence of living alone.

Nimmi loved her, protected her but did not give her confidence to fend for herself. She treated her differently. Saumya just grew up without questioning Nimmi who loved her. All she had from her childhood was the fact that she was not wanted by her father, GM, loved by nimmi, but never allowed to ask questions or question any thing. Did Nimmi allow her to think what is right or wrong or what rights she has? Saumya did what Nimmi allowed her to do.

When you grow up that way, you have no ability to question anything. Even after marriage, and once her identity was known to Harman, and then to Preeto, she gets brutally thrown out. Her pleading to her father was of no help. Again, she realized she had no power or could question her fate.

At Kinnar house, Guruma forced more things on her. But we did see few glimpses of her resistance. But again she was kidnapped and in a situation where she had no power.

Saumya cannot have confidence in herself based on her situation.

After returning, what she has been brainwashed about is she cannot make Harman happy. For her Harman's happiness is more important than her. (She had never in her life given importance to herself). Preeto has physically but more importantly emotionally manipulated her. Please see the episode Dec 15 Part 2 and Dec 16 Part 1 where Preeto cleverly, deceivingly is emotionally torturing Saumya. Saumya does resist. She choses to leave the house, but Surbhi finds out form an emotional Saumya and agrees to marry. Now we see the torture of Saumya by Preeto to convince Harman.

It is Saumya's majboori. She wants a roof, doesn't want to go back to kinnar house, and may be subconsciously wants to be able to see Harman (Dec 5 episode Saumya's monologue) and be close to him. She knows she cannot be a wife, but the longing of love is there.

What I wanted from the PH is to show how being imperfect, how Saumya still gets her rights as the only patni of harman

Crap crap .. everything is crap..

Thx for all the respond
Yes true is also how Saumya grown up with Nimmi. Totally locked up and protected by mother but hated by father.

Today after the bomb came. I understand now why sudden change happen in Saumya so fast.
Sad for Saumya kinda for Harman too.

From now i dont know what to think kinda. Love Harman and Saumya