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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all I don't understand why Harman's sexuality is being questioned?? Some people are saying that Harman is a homosexual and stuff.Homosexuality is a state in which a person gets attracted to a person belonging to his own sex.
And Saumya is an intersex.She suffers from a genetical disorder.That does not make her a man.
As Ishu said,the term Kinnar is used interchangeably for Intersex,Transgenders,Eunuchs,etc.
Apart from that Saumya is definitely a girl.So what is the problem if Harman gets attracted to her?? When he didn't know the truth,he saw her as any other girl and was attracted to her beauty and innocence.After knowing her reality,he accepted the bitter truth and decided to help and support her as a friend.If he develops feelings for her in future,then it's completely natural.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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cmon guys we can agree or disagree but why leaving the forum😆
its just a show

and i dont know what wrong with harman loving soumya
soumya isnt a man shes a girl having some disorder thats it
she didnt born in boy body then feeling like girl later

yes its a bold conept but those r human also and have all rights to be loved

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Posted: 9 years ago
#13
exactly my point..ye true love ka concept sexuality ke upar nai ho skta...saumya crying im wife blah blah...dis girl doesnt even undrstnd anything...no hard realities of lyf exist for her...and harman is jst sitting at home and doing nothing...and cribbing for saumya and blaming his parents...
and kinnar society doesnt even luk like one...as all r women... mujhe to kothe wale type ki feeling aati he..sry for d bad word but its a fact..wen u use d word kinnar u have to show male dressd as one...why all women..as kinnar thing is 99% associated wid man nt woman...

and all kinnars cant b treated wid opertn..agar aisa hota to har koi world me normal hee hota
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

First of all I don't understand why Harman's sexuality is being questioned?? Some people are saying that Harman is a homosexual and stuff.Homosexuality is a state in which a person gets attracted to a person belonging to his own sex.

And Saumya is an intersex.She suffers from a genetical disorder.That does not make her a man.
As Ishu said,the term Kinnar is used interchangeably for Intersex,Transgenders,Eunuchs,etc.
Apart from that Saumya is definitely a girl.So what is the problem if Harman gets attracted to her?? When he didn't know the truth,he saw her as any other girl and was attracted to her beauty and innocence.After knowing her reality,he accepted the bitter truth and decided to help and support her as a friend.If he develops feelings for her in future,then it's completely natural.

N Harman sexuality could have been questioned when he had physical relationship with Saumya knowing her truth
Living someone doesn't make someone question ur sexuality
N it's not like that there is no life without physical relationship
But even in HaYa relationship there is scope through operation which is so correct
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Posted: 9 years ago
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They cannot show all of that in 80 episodes. Harman has his own past, his own story but that cannot be revealed so soon. For that you need to have patience.
As far as saumya is concern yeah she doesn't think about what will happen after 21 years when she wont have her mother and sister. Ohh well yes that's true but cvs cannot show an overnight realization. They shouldn't rush through the aspect. Right now saumya goal is to solely get out of that place because she doesn't want to live there. That is something realistic they are trying to show. However she will realize that her mother and sister will leave one day and might not be able to support her. For that too you need to have patience.

Lastly Harman is not even in love with saumya, they are not rushing through that at all. He consider her a friend and he's doing all of this for the sake humanity. That's one thing cv of this show has kept clear from Harman side. But yes his friendship will turn into love but that will be later.

Saumya is intersex. Kinnar is a word use for both intersex and transgender. She's an intersex which means she has problem in her organ but that doesn't mean she cannot live a normal life. It's a treatable condition and just that people are less aware of it. That's what cvs are trying to shed light on too.

Harman is not a poorly sketched character. He is actually the strongest character on tv right now. He is bold and unique. His characterization is not just limited to angry young man with no expressions. Like I said have patience
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Jist for all those screeming harman to be a homosexual or pan sexual etc etc... no...soumya is not a man and she is intersex but her chromosome is 46xx which means she is very much female as u and me...the intersex is word created by society for its needs its not a medical term atleats not what they r showing in show... I.tersex in medical term has a different meaning all together but rven there the person still have female chromosomes.
And ppl speaking abt its about physical relationship ..love not happens etc.. in chennai there is a man who married a kinner and they are staying tigether for past 30 yrs the man says he loves his wife in a deep way that lack of physical intimacy doesn't bother him...
And also this forum is not for HaYa fans..there are many VD and RD fans who every day scold the show for lack of showing proper characterisation of leads... and rushing throught the scenes...
And forum is open place where every one can post here none suppresses others...
Give CvS some time to develp their story may be u might come to like it...
@ISHU dont even dare to leave forum
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@andromeda
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Being a die hard vdian from past 7 years still am 100% agree with you all guys all of u said what I exactly want to say in this matter so I think I have no need to say anything more on this topic and abt harman character not been sketching strong enough can any one show me a single character on any channel stronger than harman it's not only abt a perfect son perfect husband not only abt angry young man or not a chocolate lover boy it's all abt going against the whole social system at the sake of humanity it's really not a matter of joke the actor and the character needs a lot of guts to portray this and who says vdians r detouch from this show just come and see on social media how much vdians r excited for harman and vd is getting so many new fans and followers for his harman character worldwide
Leave us Indian vdians there r 5000+ Turkish fans who r so much in love with harman and vd that they trended for two days only to receive a hi from vd so there is no question about his popularity

In my opinion both the leads (I mention I never was Rubina fan am hardcore vdian) has shown a huge guts to pick up the subject as it's extremely difficult to play a kinnar onscreen for a beautiful actress and its more difficult to romance and stand for a kinnar friend of wife onscreen both vd rd deserves a big round of applaude for choosing the concept
And abt cleaning all misconception so it's only 80th epi running how can all will be cleared by cvs let them give some more time to show their creativity plz have patience
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagingBlaze

See , we haven't even crossed 90 episodes of this show . And neither it is 24 that it will be to the point ending in 24 episodes or any such shows which will end in 100-125 episodes . This is a daily soap and I think RS is gonna take her own sweet time in clearing the confusion or she might not even clear the confusion . So other than waiting , or quiting or watching your favouites part or reading WU if you have any other option then even I would like to know so that it can help me also . Secondly , yes this has been many ppls POV that Harman Saumya's character is the poorly edited character bcz in one episode Harman realises his love and Saumya never thought of herself . YOU SERIOUSLY NEED TO BLAME CV's and PH for not showing enough of Harman Saumya as an individual and in the one Maha Episode they show all love , friendship etc etc which is not digestable for anyone of us . And probably this is one of the reason that ppl are confused and its not only you but even we all are confused . Thirdly , I suppose that we ppl here are not CV's and PH who can give the best of the answer in relation to the show . Even we all here at IF have minimal knowledge with regards to show or TG subject so we can't just say anything w/o proper knowledge therefore at times I wonder why people ask us questions bcz even we all are clueless like you guys since even we are not able to digest some parts of the show . RS can show anything at anytime . It will be best for you to ask your confusion on twitter or anyother social site where CV's and PH can answer it bcz only they know what they want to show their leads as (Gay, Tg , IS etc) .. In reality and in school days people used to clear their doubts either with teacher or with the topper for the simple reason that they have much more knowledge about that subject/topic . And here I suppose majority infact no one is teacher or the topper . And if you are saying Bye after reading my post about the questionaire thing then YOU DON'T NEED TO LEAVE FORUM BCZ OF ME . I will be leaving the forum today itslef only . So you can plz relax . Don't feel bad . Ppl here are very nice and they will help you out with their suggestions and POV .. Good Day :) And if you are on twitter then do ask the PH that why can't they skectch a good character for Harman Saumya . The nation wants to know :)


Ishu my darling what is this yaar why are you leaving the forum u didn't say anything wrong any where plz don't dare to leave the forum will kill u
Tu mera sher puttar hai mera shera
On a serious note lshu never ever thought abt to leave the forum
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@ishu thappad khayegi forum chorne ki baat ki to. If u say like these tab to hum sab haya fans ko forum chorna padega and i dont think haya fans are less in nos
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ya I agree with you on some points. Harman and Soumya's characters aren't well written. Specially Harman's. At entry they showed him as a reckless guy who has to escape from home in fear of police.Harak singgh used to put him to jail whenever sees him. He had no interest in his father's business and never went to office. Then suddenly after marriage we saw him in office for only 1 day.


Coming to your question about harman's sexuality. Harman was head ovever heels in love with somu but the dday he got to know her sesexuality he srarted hahating her. But it was not hatred it was his frustration . He found it strange to be in love with a kinner. He sstopped calling her gulabo. But deep in his heart he had feelings for Soumya. Then he come uo with friendship proposal. I aggree that it was kinda odd that all on a sudden he kept friendship proposal to soumya just affter he threw plate of food brought by her.


Again coming to point... Harman is also confused about his relation with soumya. He knows their relation can be of husband wife in our society so he calls her a friend. And clearly he said quite a lot that he will find out somya and give her back to nimmi. He never told he would bring her back to his house. Because he knows it will look sstrange. But gradually he will accept the fact that he lloves somu. And oneone iimportant ththing no to forget aabout Soumyas last letter where soumya expressed her love for him. After rereading iit he may dig hhimself again and find out his love.


Now coming to HaYa future well see it is a daily soap. So it must have a male lead and a female lead. And there will be some romance chemistry bond etc.. Here it feels ajib because soumya is a kinner. But till date Cvs showed HaYa as the main couple of the show and maano ya na maano people accepted Haya as couple irrespective of Somu being a kinner. Your soso ccalled TRP aunties apapproved HaYa which isis proved by kakast weweeks trp🤣 Now CVs can't just back from HaYa it will be just a suicidal attempt for them if they now try to remarry Harman with another girl and become friends with somu rest of life.

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