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hello guys . i recently found IF and this is my first post about shakti . i always have lots to say but due to pure procrastination i never type.
i have a lot to say about harman and his treatment of ladies mainly his sister .topic for another day
i too have a lot to say about people who complain about surbhiđ¤đ¤Ź being shown a lot (this is for another post but one thing we should all remember yes we have hayaâ¤ď¸love story but do not forget the synopsis is about TWO sisters.) .
today i will finally focus on the revelation because recently i have been reading a lot of harmful things that are said by a lot of ignorant people(people who say things like i don't want sumo to be trans because poor harman not people who are not sure about what being trans means.).
now i will like to stop any person who considers themselves trans-phobic homophobic should not read. AND since am not fun of crude words and cant remember childhood names i will be using medical terms for private partsđł.
everything i know about transgenders and intersex people. the min problem is that most genders that are not born purely female or male are usually just piled under the transgender umbrella .
GENDERS I KNOW;
1) a person that is born female or male inside and out and never feel out of place.
2) a transgender person is generally a) a child who is born as boy/girl but when he/she reaches the age at which they can differentiate genders he or she slowly grows to realize that the body in which they where born in is not who he is. this is more of a mental and inner problem than a physical one. its not that they don't like the body they have they just feel that they are in the wrong body.this leads to taking medical actions to make theirs outsides match their insides. a transgender person is not a crossdresser.
3) in other cases a woman gives birth to a child and they say its a BOY. and they bring up that child as a boy . the parents notice some feminine things about the child bu don't pay attention because he is happy and never really questions anything. but then something happens . when he reaches puberty instead of muscles she starts developing breasts and then all of a sudden things start changing fast. and his features start changing into that of a girl and the only thing that will ever make a person doubt her gender is the fact that when she was born they thought she was a boy and she has not had surgery at all. this person is also considered trans gender because they will be able to fertilize an egg.why?? they where born with a p*nis but most importantly they have a scrotum. on the other hand a child can be born a girl same thing but when she reaches puberty instead of breast she remains flat chested and and her voice starts to break etc.none of them are intersex because the double changes are outside only not inside . and therefore they are transgender (this is what is generally known)
4)in other cases a girl child is born and and as she grows she has both a male and female private part but the difference is she does not have a scrotum and in this case she is neither transgender or intersex what she has is not a p*nis but because of the hormone levels in her body her cl*t*ros has grown bigger than its normal rate and because some families are too ashamed they don't go to doctors for test discover this and also know that she is 100% liable to fall pregnant.
5)an intersex person o the other hand is a person who is BOTH female and male biologically . MOST importantly anatomically .because you can just have a mutation on the outside but inside you are just male or just female . as an intersex person this can be physically visible or in some cases just on the inside for an intersex person it can be shown only on the inside or both physically and anatomically . i once watched a documentary about intersex children . it was about a man who was born inter sex and but his mom wanted a girl so they had an operation and took of his p*nis and he was brought up as a girl but as he grew older he knew he was a boy and wanted to be a boy and when he reached puberty his body produced more testosterone and it proved that what he felt was right and he was meant to be a boy but there was nothing that they could do about it . which is why there was a big debate even though it will be easier if the operation is done as a child .the parents should atleast give their child the right to choose who they want to be and if they e en want to have the surgery at all.
so its now up to you to decide or debateđ which you thing somu is and please please i do not want anyone coming here and crying about how poor harman he has been cheated đand how what if somu cant have children Then world would endđĄ. and how can he stiil love her after that they can be friends but not lovers .please DON'T (long post for another day but if interested i will write my viewđ.) corrections and sujestion welcome am not an expert . am just a girl who grew up in a homophobic environment but still believes that . we where all made by one God and only he has the right to judge and so i have no right to force my believes and unjustified fears unto others. so i might not understand LGBT but am a supporter and always willing to learn and try to understand.đ
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