Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
I watch this serial off and on and I have some questions
Why does Simar constantly hush Roli up and expect her to ignore the wrong doings of the family and bear it silently like SHE does ?
Simar believes that the way she does things and what she allows is right.
Why does she never allow Roli to make a point and treats every question raised by Roli as 'Her Bachpana' ?
She thinks because she is older she is right. ^ as before
Why is she hell bent on moulding Roli to be a replica of HER ? Why cannot Roli be her own self and DIFFERENT ?
Even I want to know the answer to this question. ^ as question 1 I guess.
What is so good in being a COWARD and bearing injustice by swallowing every damned insult ? Why should Roli who has the fearless spirit to give back good tit for tat and survive smartly be groomed to be a spineless coward who hangs her head down in shame and nods mutely to ANY order given to her ?
Exactly! Roli fights for her rights and she is right. Simar on the other hand believes that those bhabis will one day wake up and become good.
Who has given Simar this right ? Does being an elder sister mean Not allowing the younger one to have any individual opinion and suppressing the spark in her so she becomes a carbon copy of the elder sister only ?
No one. She believes that because she is older...^ same as question 1.
Has it struck Simar that perhaps Roli does not need to change at all , but that SHe , Simar needs to change ? That SHE needs to learn to speak up , point out wrong things , give respect only to those who rightfully earn it ? Not people like those stupid bhabis who she keeps shielding ?
Exactly no. She is just really oblivious and still the idea does not come to her mind that she may be in the wrong.
Has it struck Simar that LIMITS are shown only with people who believe in them , not with people who stoop to dangerous levels ? The Bhabis threw glass on the stage to harm Simar Roli physically to win a mere competition . It would do them a little good to fear people if their faces were scalded ...maybe they would RE THINK before doing harm to others again . Straight talks r not making them RE THINK , are they ? It was broken bangles but nevertheless 👏
Why did she go and APOLOGISE on behalf of Roli ? And reveal her name ? Apologising for her sister as if she is an idiot is treating her in a VERY PATRONIZING and HUMILIATING way . Constantly Simar APOLOGISES on Roli's behalf . WHy ? Simar should apologise only for HERSELF . Roli 's apologies can be given by Roli and if she does NOT wish to , its HER prerogative . Apologies are a very PERSONAL affair , Simar has no RIGHT to apologise for Roli and make her look like an idiot each time .
It's her believe about Roli and her "bachpana" again...
They may be sisters but this is not maika , its THEIR SASURAL and not just Simar's sasural but also Roli's sasural . Simar seems to think of it only as HER sasural . Roli has her own place in it and NO member in that family will like being slapped in full view ...not those Bhabhis , not Mataji , not the sons ...NOBODY . So Why did Simar expect Roli to swallow it and then just put it behind in a jiffy and act as if nothing happened by putting on fake smiles ?
It's the elder thing again I believe. She is older and she is awalys right vagera vagera... well I guess CVs trying to promote "Sasuraal Simar Ka I guess.😕
What she expects is Roli to have SUPER HUMAN SUFFERING ABILITIES . That in itself is wrong . If she has them its fine but she should not expect OTHERS to have them . Why should they ?
Trying to understand that myself.
That Father .JAMNA ...Why did he not give his younger daughter a chance to explain HER side of the story ? Its COMMON DECENCY . That if a problem occurs , HEAR BOTH SIDES OUT . Even COURTS do that . But JAMNA did not and Simar did not either .👏 I have no clue why every one became so anti-Roli.
Why did Simar hurriedly run out of the car and catch Roli's hand to show Sasural that everything was FINE between them ? Is not that a LIE ? And is not she the PERFECT BAHU , the SACHAAI KI MOORAT ?
I felt the exact same way! To me that hand holding made her look really self-centered.
She slaps Roli in full view of Sasural and tries to show Sasural ALL IS WELL . Are sasural people DUMB ? Don't they know BASIC things like PEOPLE ARE OFFENDED AFTER SLAPS AND DO NOT TAKE IT LIGHTLY ?👍🏼
Simar should understand that HAQ of an elder sister should not be confused with BLATANT DISRESPECT of an individual after GROWING UP . Even JAMNA slapping Simar in full view of Sasural would be EQUALLY WRONG as Simar is GROWN UP .👍🏼
As far as I see , Simar has NOT realised her mistake AT ALL . She is treating Roli patronizingly by constantly treating her like an impossible child . What Simar needs to do is realise SHE went wrong , overboard and THAT was wrong and it should NEVER be repeated again . 👏 From your post to CVs ears.
I see no acknowledgement from her side of her mistake . I see WORRY for Roli . Oh , that thoughtless girl ! How she needs to understand !
I see THAT . And its very humiliating for Roli is what I feel . Anny younger sister will resent her elder sister for taking over to this extent .
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