Don't know why Disha and Rano are criticized

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Posted: 13 years ago
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For once I think they are showing something so natural in this SOAP and we are against it.
This should have happened long back.
I don't why a bahu like Suhana is tolerated. In my opinion Rano is correct in thinking about Ishaan and his happiness. Suhana has never pulled her weight in the house hold work. Disha works outside and at home too. What if Disha and Rajni also refuse to do the house work. There have never been any rules for Suhana. Badi maa always buts in for any decision making which I absolutely hate. The house is full of matured people including two of them older than her then why is she so dominant.
I grew up in a big joint family so I know what goes on there. This was very unrealistic so far. I am glad that they are showing some reality now. Nobody is still evil and trying to hurt Suhana but retaliating for your own beliefs is very natural.
Suhana is taking advantage at home, at the studio and everywhere else she has been. This can not continue.
I am very happy for the time change or off air. I really wish that before this happens Suhana matures and quits her baby/teen age accent. (nine baje, MIL etc). I was really hoping that they show her growing up and taking more responsibilities in the house but I guess this isn't going to happen.

This is just my opinion and no offense to any Suhana lovers.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even Suhana lovers are not happy with Suhana not growing up. You are right , in joint family things do occur and problem arises on daily basis...one is not completely evil or complete saint. I am not liking complete partially towards one member of the family . BM use to teach Suhana a lot of things, now she is advocating her more then it's required. I would creat resentments and it is creating it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Don't know why Disha and Rano are criticized...

Well , They don't have Maa aka BM . Who ever BM supports , world can't critisize them . 😆

When Rano raised the valid Q " what does suhana do as in household work ?" BM jumped in saying jaise hi uske kaam ka bank baan jaye gaa woh bhi ghar ke kaamon main haath batane lagegi . Well, bank baan gaya ? Kaam main haath batane lagi ? NO , Y not there is another bahana " Suhana aaj kaal ghar ke issues main itni uljhi hain ke kaam karne kaa sujtahi nahi " i have given upon her , i think u should too .i agree fully with u .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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um maybe because they're borderline insane with their unnecessary grude against Suhana??😳

Rano is biploar one minute she's like "Oooh evil witch Suhana" next minute she's "Oh wow what great work she's doing" and then next minute she's "ugh I cant stand her, get her out of my face"

and Disha with her blame game on Suhana when clearly Elesh is at fault yet somehow conviently everything falls at the fault of Suhana.

Rano and Disha both are justified with their frustrations against Suhana but not in the way they're showing it. Yeah I know life is not always fun and games and its time to get serious which for Suhana it seems like an eternity but the way these two are acting towards her is a big NO NO because they're wrong and rude and insulting. Atleast Suhana takes the initiative to apologize for what that laloo director did but what did Rano do? blow up her face and rant about how ungrateful she is...Suhana didnt make Elesh an agent, he became that on his own terms but here ms "I'm too good for my devrani" is acting that Suhana is the manipulative witch of the family that has everyone under her spell and only because of her, her family is suffering and what not🤢

Also a bahu like Suhana is tolerated because she cannot DO anything else...its an established fact that Suhana isnt your cookie cutter bahu so why the hell is everyone out there to make her into one?😕
Edited by Tani91 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What if the director would have insulted BM ??? It was not Rano,s fault they way she was humiliated ... If I would be invited to SGP sets by let's say Anita jee and then I am badly told off and insulted by the director ...who would I blame ???? The person who invited me there ???

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Posted: 13 years ago
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^sorry but I clearly remember that Suhana told the director off and stormed off the set in middle of shooting just to take care of Rano...now if that doesnt show care then what does, she told him off and Elesh was the one that had to calm the director down

and when KK came home she was ONLY trying to see if Rano was ok but Rano kept her grudge up and made the issue into a big deal. Suhana came to apologize to her as well but again Alok had to tell her that Suhana wasnt at fault even though he wasnt there. It was Rano's fault that the director yelled at her in the first place, she kept on interupting shooting by yelling out random comments...YET Suhana gets all the blame?? wah kya logic hai😳


Also if the director had insulted BM, BM would NOT have made such a huge issue like Rano did and Suhana would have done the same, stormed out off set to make sure BM was ok. Also if you were invited on set and the director yelled at you then arent you at fault?? You did something that's why he yelled at you right...if Anita ji was just sitting there doing her work and you did something then WHY would you blame Anita ji at all???😕
Edited by Tani91 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Surprisingly , Rano is behavingly maturly this time . I agree Ilesh didn't do much but he went after Rano so she thinks Ilesh came after her , was worried for her & he sides with her not director . Not going after Rano , whatever the reasons Rano thinks Suhana approves of what director did. Suhana has her reasons for not doing the task , so does rano .

My own mother has made many blunders in life , v all laugh at her but never pull her leg in public . Nor let anyone humiliate her . V won't stand that , i won't for MIL too. Rano was out of her eliment , enthu , excited n happy so she made a blunder . She doesn't deserve to b humiliated or shouted in front of hundreds of people let alone strangers . Director might have slap her , for rano its equalant to slap .

Suhana's fault is she didn't went after Rano . Rano was wants to b heard , respected in same manner as BM . I agree Holi was a wrong example but this time Rano is not at fault . BM is spreading the distance between Suhana - Rano . She needs to step aside . The way BM asked RB , Radha tum batao tum kya chahti ho ? Y didn't BM asked RANO tum batao tum kya chahti ho ? If rano is wrong then tell her What do U think if V do this way ? Thats all it needs .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ tani , if this was bM incident , then along with Suhana entire Kashayp family would have felt insulted . Suhana would have chopped of Directors head & put a nice little bow on it . Since its Rano they all feel Rano is wrong as last time .

I dont hate suhana but I don't like somethings suhana does .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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^again I say this...that this would not have happened with BM in the first place because BM would not have done something as stupid as Rano did and even if director did end up insulting BM then I do believe that Suhana would have told the director off the way she did with Rano. I dont see any difference there.

However it would have been a completely different scenario had Suhana not acknowledged it at all...Rajni was right, Rano made the issue into a huge deal. Yes I agree that director had no right to insult Rano that too in front of Suhana's co-workers. There is only so much patience a man has and a man like that laloo director, well it was a miracle that he kept up with her for two days...but she was at fault, if Rano was doing something stupid then Rano should be blamed for it...its not as if she is a 2 year old kid who messed up and the blame comes on the parents, she is a grown woman who is responsible for her own actions so she had no right to be rude to Suhana who was trying to see if she was ok...sorry but that just makes her into a big drama queen, I understand that she wants respect and love like everyone gives BM but for that she has to act that way in order to receive it
Edited by Tani91 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I get it , U want them to appologise to suhana which they will . Soon enough & without any progress until next time same issue resurface with different facde .

As u said earlier , Suhana shouldn't b expected to b like Rajni or Disha she is her own person . Y r U comparing Rano with BM .

U have ur POV & I have mine . I agree to disagree with u . I don't want to streach this more than this .

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