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mjtruelegend

@mjtruelegend

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Posted: 13 years ago

Disclaimer - This is not about who is right or wrong, and I am certainly not taking any sides, just putting a thought forward. You may or may not agree...there is no right or wrong...different people, different views! Simple!

Just like we have the dessert at the end of the meal, because its the most scrumptious part of the meal, there is a saying "you save the best till last" (that can imply in any case or scenario)..so I really don't see it as a big deal that Suhana would introduce Ishaan last. At the end of the day the media came to see Suhana and the whole family, so all were there and she was introducing them, as they came. Anyone in her position would become bemused and bewildered because she was not notified, so there was no preparations. She was fumbling a little to begin with as she was taken aback, which is perfectly natural..it was a matter of trying to deal with the media and the family at the same time. Basically she was put in the deep end, thankyou our dearest Ilesh miah!

Now I am sure if Suhana and the family were aware, then there would have been plans/rehearsals of who will go when and who will say what. It was completely on the spot, spontaneous, no time to think or prioritise! The circumstance was ugly again because of Ilesh's careless deeds!

Being the last does not mean that you love or care for them any less! In fact sometimes it can mean you love and care for them the most! 😳

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Sheema

@infinity00

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Posted: 13 years ago

So true just as Ishaan kept Suhana for the last and gave all his attention to Sona !!!

All I can say is , I have never seen any SBS or SBB show doing any such thing to,any celebrity !!! I am kind of neutral in this ... I can not blindly say Suhana was right but at the same time she was not wrong. Rano was right but wrong as well,

And sorry to say as a married woman myself I introduce my husband first and he does the same, although we are not famous or celebrity, Suhana loves Ishaan so so so so much , it's surprising to see her like that ... Sorry but I can't see this saving the best for last for your life partner , yes fianc may be to,creat suspense but husband or wife no. If Ishaan would have done that or better to,say have done it , we were murdering him for not giving Prioroty to his wife, Ishaan is the biggest support for Suhana even bigger then BM... I wish Suhana understands that .

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mjtruelegend

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: venture
So true just as Ishaan kept Suhana for the last and gave all his attention to Sona !!!

All I can say is , I have never seen any SBS or SBB show doing any such thing to,any celebrity !!! I am kind of neutral in this ... I can not blindly say Suhana was right but at the same time she was not wrong. Rano was right but wrong as well,

I am not blindly saying any body is totally right or totally wrong. I saw some people making comments that why did she say she will introduce him last? So I thought of making the post. Being the last in anything doesn't have to mean anything, it sometimes just happens that way. Meryl Streep said in her Oscar acceptance speech that "I will take my husbands name 1st today because when I usually leave him till last, the music overtakes and he doesn't always get my message" (this is not verbatim)..she used to always mention him last, because he means the most! I guess not everybody sees it that way.

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mjtruelegend

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: venture

Sorry but I can't see this saving the best for last for your life partner , yes fianc may be to,creat suspense but husband or wife no. If Ishaan would have done that or better to,say have done it , we were murdering him for not giving Prioroty to his wife, Ishaan is the biggest support for Suhana even bigger then BM... I wish Suhana understands that .

I am sure that if they were at a dinner party-a formal gathering, in a more composed atmosphere then things would have been a little different and definitely she would have kept him by her side.However when there was already a lot of commotion, then I understand completely how a person can become a little swayed! I have seen it happen (no not to a celebrity)..so I am talking from experience.

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poonam balani

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Posted: 13 years ago

yes even i feel she was not wrong...given the fact it was an impromptue interview...she started off with dadaji..then her father then ilesh as he is already known to the media and so on...she would have ended and finally this is the most important person of my life...my husband...but ilesh did not help matters by pulling away ishaan...implying suhana doesnt want it known that she is married...hearing which put rano in all the more agitated frame of mind and hense the outburst...

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abhi

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think Suhana was right in introducing dadaji first, as he is the head of the family. and next alok, and all that time Rano went away aside... Later suhana introduced her father and family, later ilesh and disha...That time Ilesh took ishaan aside and told, it's problem for suhana, as she is known unmarried to the media.. That time rano heard that and when Suhana introduced them as parents , she called ishaan and outbursted even suhana saying she will introduce Ishaan last...

Rano was also right, as she was angry because of suhana media people came to their party and now suhana introducing every oen and mediapeople doing OTT and telling to say loud, see this side, do this and that... Rano felt irritated on top of that, Elesh took away ishaan and told that it will be problem, as suhana is unmarried...

When Suhana introduced them as parents, she immediately called ishaan, even though ishaan was hesitant and immediately suhana told ishaan, she is now introduced only them and later she is introduce ishaan...

Rano somewhat felt that suhana is ignoring ishaan, and though may be suhana wouldn't introduce him, as she heard elesh words.. So suhana wants her married status secret... Immediately Rano out bursted and called Ishaan, as now she wants her son to get credit for supporting and doing so much for suhana...Somewhere
she felt suhana will leave ishaan aside ( didn't introduce him before media), and as Ishaan wouldn't feel bad, but still support suhana..So she wants to show the media that suhana is married to her son and took suhana from there...

Last Rano was wrong, as reacting before media and without waiting to see if suhana introduce ishaan or not... If rano waited few minuted, she would see herself whether suhana introduce ishaan, before media or not... Then she may react accordingly..

But assuming and thinking, suhana didn't want to introduce ishaan and bursting before media and talking away suhana is wrong.Later saying, she wants to go home, when clearly all are enjoying... Who spoiled that happiness and fmaily enjoyment in the middle, is it Suhana or Rano anger ?

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Sheema

@infinity00

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Posted: 13 years ago

Merely Streep didn't thanked her in laws FIRST !!!! Lol

A husband like Ishaan is a rarity . I am sure as a wife non of us would like to be introduced or mentioned at the very last . Unless we are all MAHAN !!

Yes it's a personal view and people have different views and different HISBANDS too !!!

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BeHappyAlways

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Posted: 13 years ago

im sure Suhana wud have introduced Ishaan last as 'And this is my most important person in life Ishaan, my pathi"... but no one had patience till tht time... all went wrong... ilesh is more immature than suhana

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566912

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: venture
Merely Streep didn't thanked her in laws FIRST !!!! Lol
A husband like Ishaan is a rarity . I am sure as a wife non of us would like to be introduced or mentioned at the very last . Unless we are all MAHAN !!
Yes it's a personal view and people have different views and different HISBANDS too !!!

Agree Sheema Di...

I wud always want my Husband to Introduce me after his Parents... 😃 and if he doesn't do that... I don't know what will I do... 😉😆😆😆 [I am not that mahaan... but rather normal human being😊]

and If I Expect it... then I wud do it the same way 😃 will introduce my Hubby after my Parents😃

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: venture
So true just as Ishaan kept Suhana for the last and gave all his attention to Sona !!!

All I can say is , I have never seen any SBS or SBB show doing any such thing to,any celebrity !!! I am kind of neutral in this ... I can not blindly say Suhana was right but at the same time she was not wrong. Rano was right but wrong as well,

And sorry to say as a married woman myself I introduce my husband first and he does the same, although we are not famous or celebrity, Suhana loves Ishaan so so so so much , it's surprising to see her like that ... Sorry but I can't see this saving the best for last for your life partner , yes fianc may be to,creat suspense but husband or wife no. If Ishaan would have done that or better to,say have done it , we were murdering him for not giving Prioroty to his wife, Ishaan is the biggest support for Suhana even bigger then BM... I wish Suhana understands that .

@Bold -- 👍🏼 Yo Sheema Di... Me likey that very much😃

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