Its very easy to say I would say this to him, or I would do this to him, but same like a child who is sexually abused by someone they know same an abused women who is being punished each day by her husband, boyfriend. they dont tell because of fear.
Fear of the world knowing there truth, fear of the world looking at them in that way that they are weak individual that how could they allow something like this to happen to them.
Having education has nothing to do with it. Ishan keeps saying that to Sona that she is a modern girl, and educated girl she should leave. Its not that easy. There is a part of her that is still in love with her husband.
This happens within the most briliant people and the most uneducated people also. This happens within the very rich and posh and the very poor and living in the streets. So money and education has nothing to do with it at all.
Same like a child who is being sexually abused by her father, she or he too still loves his or her father even though they know what they are doing to them is wrong and they fear him. Its all mental really. Your body knows its wrong, and your mind knows its wrong and to get help or get out, but some where in your brain its telling you that it will stop or change or you cannot let the rest of the world know this secret of yours that would change your life and the way people will view you.
I am glad that they are doing this type of a topic, I hope they show are more realistic then they were with the brain tumor story .
Every day there is a women in the world, in India that is being physically abused by her husband or boyfriend. She is afraid to tell anyone.. SHe cannot go to ther family in fear of there family values, she cannot go to her friends in fear of what they are going to say about her. There are not a lot of places to go in most countries for abused women because of the way the will be shown.
I wish that people in this forum would stop saying " why isnt sona just leaving him." why is she putting up with him"