Why is BP so unloving towards Panna-Inder?

Guys, I fail to understand one thing - why does BP always seem so rude and angry with Panna and Inder? They are his own kids and they are a part of the family he wants to return to! So why don't I see any fatherly love on his face for them?

Today, I felt so bad when Inder said to BP - "what about MY pain all these years? what about MY tears that I used to hide from everyone?" Any NORMAL father hearing that would have immediately softened and felt guilt+compassion for his child! And yet, what did BP do? He started seething with anger, yelled even louder at Inder and even raised his hand to attack him!!! Did you guys see how he was just seething with anger at that time? Why sooo much anger at his own son?? He wants Inder to give him the respect worthy of a dad but why don't we see the fatherly love and concern in BP for Panna and Inder when that is the ONLY thing that can melt those kids?

He cried like anything reading Ruby's letter so we know he is CAPABLE of that fatherly love. So how come he doesn't feel any of it for Inder? How come Inder's expressing his pain didn't make BP hug his son instead of attacking him??!!

Originally posted by: abhi786

I think BP expected panna and inder to forgive him and accpet him as father.. He couldn't bear the angerness and hatred towards their father.. He though his family would accept him now that he is asking fo forgiveness, rano and dadi have already melted.. BP has seen BM's concern towards him..

So he believes if BM agrees, he will get his family back, dadaji, inder panna all even in dislike will accept him as their father . So now he is staying that he couldn't bear Inder talk like that to his wife Shailu..I think here BM is silent, so BP is showing his concern for her and wants to to show the family members that now he cares for her ...

BP very well know panna and inder support their other a lot, and they will surely accept him, if BM accpet him.. I think he will show fatherly only when they accept him and respect him as their father.. that's not going to happen easily..So now he is targeting only BM to get her sympathy and showing show-off before family..

Totally understand what you are saying but you see, there could be the reactions of a distant relative or even a friend but here BP is their FATHER! Think of our own dads in our personal lives. No matter how many mistakes I make or how much I may argue with my dad, his love for me is boundless and unconditional! That's how parents love their children - pure, unconditional love! And I fail to see any of that in BP. Dadaji is rude with with BP too but BP is still respectful towards him. So when Inder is rude with him but also expresses his pain, as a dad, how come BP's heart doesn't cry for his son and make him wipe his tears?

Originally posted by: neel_jay

Guys, I fail to understand one thing - why does BP always seem so rude and angry with Panna and Inder? They are his own kids and they are a part of the family he wants to return to! So why don't I see any fatherly love on his face for them?

Today, I felt so bad when Inder said to BP - "what about MY pain all these years? what about MY tears that I used to hide from everyone?" Any NORMAL father hearing that would have immediately softened and felt guilt+compassion for his child! And yet, what did BP do? He started seething with anger, yelled even louder at Inder and even raised his hand to attack him!!! Did you guys see how he was just seething with anger at that time? Why sooo much anger at his own son?? He wants Inder to give him the respect worthy of a dad but why don't we see the fatherly love and concern in BP for Panna and Inder when that is the ONLY thing that can melt those kids?

He cried like anything reading Ruby's letter so we know he is CAPABLE of that fatherly love. So how come he doesn't feel any of it for Inder? How come Inder's expressing his pain didn't make BP hug his son instead of attacking him??!!

Because BP was selfish then his dreams and he is selfish now my family when he didnt do one obligation of being an eldest son.

Originally posted by: pearlali

Because BP was selfish then his dreams and he is selfish now my family when he didnt do one obligation of being an eldest son.

BM is wrong and Inder is right atleast when BP said if such children we dont need children BM should have slapped him and said if such pati than no pati is better and that would have been ice in the whiskey Inder and BM relation right now its whiskey and nuts relations all around

son and parents (dadjee and majee and Eshwar + Inder panna and BP BM) 😭😕

Atleast for this one BM should have said something children like this and no children than Eshwaar Dadajee is right child like u he should never have had not only deserted his parents but wife and his children the top most even an animal doesnt desert his children its children who desert the parents never parents that desert a child u deserve it stand up BM or Inder is right u are bluffing everyone say it if u love him fine but atleast standup and tell the truth quiteness over here will break everything you build for 15 years.⭐️

OMG, I was totally appalled when I heard that today! BM is totally wrong if she listened to that crap and still kept quiet. Inder has been a WONDERFUL son and BM should totally have kicked BP for saying that about him.

And you are absolutely right, Dadaji is the one who has the right to say that dialogue for BP - "aissi aulaad nahi chahiye"!

I can't understand that either. Maybe he cannot accept the fact that they have not accepted him back.

Its disturbing to see that though (through the eyes of Badi Ma) who I feel the most sorry for.

another reason to hate Ishwar Kashyap😈

I was disgusted the way he thinks he owns them, I mean they clearly hate this guts and he has the audacity to think that they are still going to forgive him and accept him🤔 ugh what a d-bag

Originally posted by: Tani91

another reason to hate Ishwar Kashyap😈

I was disgusted the way he thinks he owns them, I mean they clearly hate this guts and he has the audacity to think that they are still going to forgive him and accept him🤔 ugh what a d-bag

Main reason is he is not showing repentness instead he is just forcing everyone to forgive him forgiveness is not taken by force but by pashaymani, showing respect to their opinions, and love instead he is fighting his place back like they took his place away when actually he himself left his place what is Eshwaars complain now😕

Originally posted by: nivin0

I can't understand that either. Maybe he cannot accept the fact that they have not accepted him back.

Its disturbing to see that though (through the eyes of Badi Ma) who I feel the most sorry for.

I don't feel sorry for BM anymore, esp not after today! Somebody gave a gaali to her obedient, loving son in front of her and she kept quiet?! I wish she would grow a backbone and show some strength of character. I'm totally disliking her these days.