Is RB right in judging everyone?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I just wanna say in the beginning that I do not support Ishwar talking to her rudely at all..


This is just my observation of her...she always jumps at the first chance to judge everybody...she was the first person who was after suhana in the beginning and now Ishwar

I know ishwar deserves it all but RB herslef is not washed in holy water either...she treated her son like a piece of garbage all his life until noww...did anybody say anything to her no...did anyone in the family judge her or let anybody else judge her no...in fact they all stood up for her when the relatives spoke ill of her...I get that what happened to her was unfortunate but what was deepak's fault in it...nobody knows what could happed to deepak if she was not taken by the keyshap family and given this much love and support and took care of deepak as their own...then she started loving deepak but did anybody judge her..no again she was welcomed with open arms...now i am not comparing her and ishwar by any means but just saying that they both had people affected by their decisions especially kids...ishwar made his kids suffer by his selfishness and RB made deepak suffer by her memories of something unfortunate that happened to her that she had no say in...so why does she jump at the first chance she gets to judge other people...without understanding suhana's situation she made her conclusion that suhana would be bad for family and never adjust but what happened...suhana loves them more than anything and that same suhana made her come closer to her son...I dont remember but did she ever apologize to suhana for being mean to her in the beginning and thinking ill of her

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Posted: 13 years ago
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An adopted chid always feels more responsible for the parents than the birth child.
Radha Bua has looked after Daada and Daadi for so many years. She has lived in the house and loved Ishwar and Panna like her own chidren. She is Baadi Maa's chamchi...
She has seen all their pain and her anger at IShwar Kashyap is because of all the pain and heart ache he has caused her family.
I know people who have gone through similar situations and while the parents might forgive their son, the children have never forgiven the father or had anything to do with him.
Recent case in the news is the example of Steve Jobs, while he found both his birth mother and father, he only met and looked after his birth mother but even though he knew who his birth father was, he deliberately choose not to acknowledge him or have anything to do with him.
Radha Bua is rude but because she loves Daada and Daadi as her own parents, even Daadaji once told Deepak that till he came to the house, Radha Bua used to treat Daada and Daadi as her chidren and looked after them.
Ishwar Kashyap who abandonded his family to make money and success has no right to tell Radha Bua anything, he lost all his rights the day he choose success and money over his parents, wife and children!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ann-belle ,you rock. Agree with you
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The difference between RB and IK is
IK chose to leave his family...
RB had no choice in what happened to her...
Her hate and anger towards Deepka is understandable he was a reminder off what happened to her...no body wants to live and repeat a rape everyday...everytime she saw her son she saw the animal that raped her...and thats a pain that takes a life time to come to terms with...
IK is pain cold hearted wants his way and doesnt care for anyone ...

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