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Tejesh Ejanthkar

@tejeshec

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: MadameX

Wait Keenu, I don't get it...you stay away from your parents or you don't? 😆

She has stayed away for 10 years but now I guess she is with her parents and tomorrow might have to move out again..Hope its clear now,...😆

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: tejeshec

She has stayed away for 10 years but now I guess she is with her parents and tomorrow might have to move out again..Hope its clear now,...😆

Yes, thank you Keenu for clarifying your life to me. 🤣

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ramzzz

@ramzzz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: MadameX

Aw, what a filial son. 👏 (not being sarcastic)

But wow...10 years?! That's crazy...I've only been apart from my parents for like 3 weeks recently (otherwise I've always lived with them together)...and that was pretty hard from me. I missed mom's cooking a lot...especially when I would come home from school hungry and my uncle didn't cook anything 😡😆 so I had to cook which I'm not used to doing immediately after school because mom would already have hot food out for me. So even because of that I had to eat achar for the first time 😭 because of no food. 😆 And it made me feel so homesick even though I was living in my own home. House feels so empty and I just didn't like it. Talkative me had to stay quiet most of the time...so overall it was not fun either. 😆 So life without parents for me thus far wasn't quite a happy experience and I don't think I ever want to leave them. 😒 So basically I'm like you Sushma.

no matter how difficult it is but evribody has take this step one dae..parents are always there..they would always want their child with them..but once they see that kids are determined to make it ..parents should not stop their kids..they should be the ones who encourage their child to speard their wings to fly..becos even i had been the baby of the family even till the day moved out my parents were doin one thing or other for me..cos they thought i wont be able to cope with evrithin..but once i moved out that stopped and i am happy that i took that decision at that time..

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Tejesh Ejanthkar

@tejeshec

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Julie parents can get selfish initially for a short time when their emotions n love takes over them but once they realize that they are coming between their child's growth they will be the first ones to back out. But as auntyji said home is where parents are not where u are.
What a mother goes through only she can understand. People say things like she is not the first person on the earth to stay away from her children blah blah but still these things don't alleviate just cuz others have done it.
Every mother goes through it even fathers do but in case of mothers its something else

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ice.maiden

@ice.maiden

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: ramzzz

no matter how difficult it is but evribody has take this step one dae..parents are always there..they would always want their child with them..but once they see that kids are determined to make it ..parents should not stop their kids..they should be the ones who encourage their child to speard their wings to fly..becos even i had been the baby of the family even till the day moved out my parents were doin one thing or other for me..cos they thought i wont be able to cope with evrithin..but once i moved out that stopped and i am happy that i took that decision at that time..

Sometimes the decision to stay home or close to home is that of the children.

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ramzzz

@ramzzz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

owk i agree parents do become selfish but soon they let go ..its their love..but then there is also the thing that if the parents had done it at their times then why do they hesistate for their children in the initial stages.. that can bring a person self esteem down as well..not evrione is strong willed and make a stand in front of their parents..

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ramzzz

@ramzzz

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: ice.maiden

Sometimes the decision to stay home or close to home is that of the children.

owk maybe sum children or people wud like to stay close to home but wot about for those who dont want to..

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Tejesh Ejanthkar

@tejeshec

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: ramzzz
owk i agree parents do become selfish but soon they let go ..its their love..but then there is also the thing that if the parents had done it at their times then why do they hesistate for their children in the initial stages.. that can bring a person self esteem down as well..not evrione is strong willed and make a stand in front of their parents..

when they are kids they don't understand what their parents are feeling...U have to be in their shoes to feel it...So when their turn comes they also feel the same pinch

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ramzzz

@ramzzz

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: tejeshec

when they are kids they don't understand what their parents are feeling...U have to be in their shoes to feel it...So when their turn comes they also feel the same pinch

isnt it the same cycle goin over again and it will keep on goin..all m sayin the parents would have felt the same wen their parents wud have hesitated or simply not allowed them to take that important decision in their life..they would have felt angry, depressed or even resent their parents and would have thot m not gonna do that to my child..but they du it aniways..i have a child and wen ever in life wen my daughter will be ready to take that decision i will not hesitate in any way..

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Netri

@iViews

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

I get it suhana is grieving for the family now, I m not asking her to not, but All I m asking her to understand what Ishan is saying? think abt it. Thats all. It doesnt mean Ishan is not grieving also. He is too going to miss his family, more than suhana. Suhana has been in the family for last 2 years while Ishanhas spend more than 25 years with family so many memories. She can ask Ishan Y or what he wants thats all.

Tejesh, My mom feels the same thing with me & my brother. In my case I tell her, damad khud hee chuna thaa na aab pachtaye kya ! :-) LOL. But both my bro & I made promise to her that V ll b there when she needs us. I pray everyday that I can b there.

Sushma, I agree with U. It is hard for me live in a country alone, far from family, our people, . I m not happy with some of my hubbys choices but I feel I have no choice. I want to b there for my parents but I know deep down It depends on circumstances of life. My dad diesnt like US at all, he calls it prison, while my mom is willing to live in priison so she can live with her kids. :-):-) Sometimes I feel, V Women always get scruwed with cosmos. V have to follow our husbands foot stapes willingly or not. 😆

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