Jaha mujhe paraya samja jata hai...

When Ilesh said this... I was wondering how easily he said it... how could he say things like that to...

Family who took care of him since he even didn't know how to speak & walk... BM, Rano and RB feeded him from their hands... made him sleep in thier lap... Alok made him learn how to walk holding his hands... Dada - Dadi sang lullaby for him... Inder being elder faught to other street boys for him & protected him... it was this family who supported him when he was not earning & jobless... they took care of his expenses & needs... Kashyaps showered their UNCONDITIONAL LOVE to him😊... and after one incident... without finding out what the Truth is he said "Mujhe us ghar me nahi rehna... Jaha mujhe paraya samja jata hai... "😔🤢

How easily Ilesh said it... out of anger, frustartion... but is his words justifiable😕?? Ilesh saying such words to family member was plain wrong according to me... His frustration even doesn't justify his anger..🥱 it's always easy to blame... He blamed Inder... who had always put his siblings before him...

I wud love to know your views... do share it... I was free today hence, thot to write something... sorry if I hurted anyone or bored you guys... It's my POV. 😃

nice post sachi. 😃 i haven't been watching sgp for a while now not because the episodes aren't worth watching, but i just don't find the time 😆 but i have the idea of the story since i read updates, so will present my view accordingly.

very good post sachi...😊

and this example is very relatable to our daily life...this often happens in families. When something comes up that makes us angry, we tend to forget all the love and positivities...like when parents don't give what one child wants but at another occasion gives that thing to another child, a thought always crosses the mind that parents love the other child more and not me...even though that isn't the case, parents are really equal in their treatment...so this same case applies to ilesh. just because inder and alok doubted his work, he can only think negative about them for right now, just because of his anger... i'm sure once he realizes what he has done, he will regret it BIG TIME!

nice post Sachi

Originally posted by: Feefi

and this example is very relatable to our daily life...this often happens in families. When something comes up that makes us angry, we tend to forget all the love and positivities...like when parents don't give what one child wants but at another occasion gives that thing to another child, a thought always crosses the mind that parents love the other child more and not me...even though that isn't the case, parents are really equal in their treatment...so this same case applies to ilesh. just because inder and alok doubted his work, he can only think negative about them for right now, just because of his anger... i'm sure once he realizes what he has done, he will regret it BIG TIME!

Nice post Sachi, I think deep down ilesh knows what he isdoing is wrong, deep down yes, but he is hurt, humiliated, lost ( his life turn up side down) He doesn't eve know ehat he is saying. Just like suhana break things, some people break others heart. BOth things should not happen. Temper is not something that U get anything by loosing it.
All Ilesh knows & understands is He has a good job, gets paid for the job, He does what is asked from him, his employers r happy with his work, people at hiswork place respects him ( which kashyaps doesn't) Has anyone of them told him ever Ilesh beta V r so proud of U? Ever. NIkkama, aalsi, mufta khanna khane wala. THey say all these things for a while ( everyone has their way of expessing love but U must also use those 3 words too) I )Love U & I m Proud of U goes long way. When he wasn't working, he must not have liked to hear those words but he knew they were rigt. So many times, Ilesh told Disha ke what kashayaps have done for him, can not b repaid. So he understands but in this moment He has forgotten everything & only focussing on the negative.
What ever fake maan samman he thinks he has from his work place, soon he will learn that what is more pracious in life for him.
If U remember after the czke fiasco, KK said " Suhana kahin der naa karde apni zindagi ke iss sunahre rishton ko samaj ne main " I loved that dialodg. It goes also for Ilesh & rest of us. One moment of anger does far more damage than everyday figt. As for Inder - Ilesh figt is nothing, they must have had bloody figts growing up. My Dadi used to say, " Maat bhed hoy pan, Maan bhed naa hoy " meaning Its ok to have difference of opinion, but not the difference in thinking.
Again, Inder also could have done few things separately, he could have taken Alok and told him what he learned from his boss then both alok, inder could have asked him separately, the way inder gaanged up on him in front of family for him was harsh. When ilesh learns the true natur of his work he will apologise. I have said, felt so many things in heat of anger which once I calm down makes me ashamed of my self so once he is calm enough to think, he will learn.

Nice post 😊 I agree with everyone's views on this one.

I think some where at the bottom of his heart Ilesh knows how wrong he is. But he is in this denial mode where he does not want to accept that he is wrong..So he is blaming everybody around him..