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diya09

@diya09

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Posted: 14 years ago

When Badima and Rano were the young bahus of the family, the ego clash was bound to happen there too. Badimaa had seen a lot of tragedy in her life but she always presented her smile to the whole family. Her personal issues or mood variations never effected the family atmosphere. She could have given a long loud lecture to the whole family regarding Ishwar. But she never did that. Over her problems and herself she always preferred the family and its happiness. "What ever may come in my life but I will never allow my family to be effected. "

When Alok wanted to give all happiness to Badima he have taken away his wife's rights. Rano was never given any right on his salary or any role on any family decisions made. But Rano not only never complained but never even burn any complaints in her heart.. She supported Alok's and the family's decision wholehearted. "I will give all my happiness, even in return of sadness to keep my family happy"

Now that Rajini the senior bahu is so irritated that she just couldn't find that whole family was witnessing her shouting. Not only kashyaps but Bajpayee's too.. If she herself was in place of suhana, i am sure that she will never forgive her bhabhi for insulting her father. She is like " How do you expect us to understand u when u don't understand us (even being senior to u) ?

Disha who was always respected in the family, was irritated with her problem. That brought her hidden feeling out that Suhana is given more priority in family. Her sadness was so high that she couldn't find elders standing there for the whole. It was like "let it be anyone's birthday how can u expect me to enjoy for u when i am so upset?"

Suhana the one who is blind to the outside world other than Ishaan. She is sensing others problem but not able to overcome her happiness for Ishaan. " I kow others are in pain.. But i don't want to be in sad mood again at any cost, I just want to enjoy my happiness !"

After watching the the behavior of younger bahus of SGP, i feel that patience and maturity level of the younger generation compared to the elder generation is too low. Its not only in SGP but in all families..

Edited by diya09 - 14 years ago

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

Everyone's different and it's not a generational issue. Rather, it is the fault of the CVs for introducing this track bit late into the show because it doesn't totally justify R&D's sudden hostility/anger towards Suhana or Suhana's seeming immaturity.

Plus, as far as BM and Rano are concerned, they are complete different personalities than any of the 3 younger bahus...hence they are incomparable to the younger generation.

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keenu gill

@Keenu.G

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Posted: 14 years ago

everyone have their own views about this issue, so i wont say tht i agree or disagree but for me I dun think its generations that matters..

no matter ur age, you learn the maturity and patience with your circumstances that you face in life.. [ I will say tht i have more patience than my mom! ]

What matters here is the situation they have faced!

in the earlier generation i.e. Rano, Rb, and BM.. they have faced tough situation together.. for instance.. RB being raped.. BM loosing her husband.. so as they say during such rough circumstances, the more shoulders u have to lean on..better it is for you.. and Rano thankfully she hasnt faced any such prb but she has seen other two suffering frm it.. so I dun think during such circumstances, the feeling of envy/ jealousy will come in.. rather it will be sympathy, love and respect!

For rajni, disha and suhana, its prolly the same case... they have always stood together to help one another.. for instance the BT track, amnesia and even sona track.. [ in the comin epis i m very sure we will see the similar type of bonding again becauz i think the sole purpose of this outburst is to provide reason for suhana to come out of her la la land]!

I dun no how much i make sense here, lekin what i want to emphasize on is, its the life circumstances tht teach you to be mature and have patience in life but not the age itself.. My cousins always said tht i was very mature since the age of 14 itself.. I think its all because of the situations i have faced before.. and family issues tht taught me to become more responsible.. nothing else..

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

I wholeheartedly agree with you Keenu...generation doesn't matter and even situations are different. Plus, I'm keeping in mind that this isjust a means to an end: CVs are trying to create a track with a set ending: Suhana coming out to be a better person and maybe even R&D. The methods may be however.

And y'know, it's opposite for me...family situations has made me more immature. 😆

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keenu gill

@Keenu.G

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: MadameX
I wholeheartedly agree with you Keenu...generation doesn't matter and even situations are different. Plus, I'm keeping in mind that this isjust a means to an end: CVs are trying to create a track with a set ending: Suhana coming out to be a better person and maybe even R&D. The methods may be however.

And y'know, it's opposite for me...family situations has made me more immature. 😆

you were lucky ekta! 😊

my life at this moment seems like a fairytale to many, but i wasnt lucky enough to have good childhood.. it started to get better after i was 15..

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Keenu.G

you were lucky ekta! 😊
my life at this moment seems like a fairytale to many, but i wasnt lucky enough to have good childhood.. it started to get better after i was 15..

No, I think you misunderstood me. 😆 I have a pretty serious life and stuff has happened...but instead of me maturing out of it, I guess I became immature in that I started to have the tendency to ignore the seriousness and graveness of siuations and only look for the humor in it. 😆

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Sheema

@infinity00

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Posted: 14 years ago

I differ her, there is a difference in thinking, some positive , some better then old generation but one thing for sure the older generation , older then me had more patients, they were able to go through many difficulties with out complaining , my generation was slightly different we had little bit less patients then them , but we were vocal , this generation is mostly me and mine, I am sure you would disagree but that's what I see, everything starts from me then ends on me, it is a good thing as well atleast this generation can not be taken for a ride, they are vocal, but the same time there patients level is not that much, if you don't agree with me or if I dont get my way then it's everybody else,s fault not mine. Family is mother and father and before marriage brothers and sisters but after , not that much(with men) I can't generalise but this is what I see around me.

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luvsis4ever

@luvsis4ever

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Posted: 14 years ago

I too agree with you diya...i also watched the same situations where elders were more patient and had a clear view ...😉

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Anamta

@ShadowImbue

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Posted: 14 years ago

@diya I think patience and endurance is the quality that comes with time if u are patient than how can u be called younger time teaches u to become patient.Such kind of issues like misunderstandings and clashes happens in the joint family systems as u can't keep everyone happy at the same time and just like the way Suhana is being treated or pampered few of the members get pampered in joint family and other complains although they also treats them the same way but when they face any problem they get annoyed easily and than those who bothered them least starts bothering them the most than their unconcious i-e a person is given priority and there mistakes are neglected became there concious when elder generation was younger it must had happened with them too but later on everything becomes normal than these issues are forgotten only blissful memories are remembered.

Edited by firefly99 - 14 years ago

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diya09

@diya09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#10

Happy to see so much of responses and thank u to all...😊

I have heard that,

A boat/ship is meant to face the storms, the rough water and to sail ahead.

Life gives different troubles only if the person has the potential to withstand it.

In order to to take the proper lessons out of our life or to use our complete potential we need a certain level of openness(towards life), awareness and discrimination. I feel that these were common in older generations than ours. If these qualities are more in a person, then let life give any number of problems he will handle it and will come out as a matured person..

If difficult circumstances alone makes us matured then people will not commit suicides, people will not be admitted in mental hospitals due to some bad incidents in life...

The slogan in olden days was "Give, give, give and give and never turn back to see what you gained". But now its "Give and take. Give as much as u can so that you get it back.". Earlier it was for greater good but now its for my good...

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