Agree Febs , Now If Rjni tells everyone now , they won't b able to enjoy ishan's B'Day or cancel the B'Day . Tomorrow He may loose it or May not but If he doesn't then everyone feels they told prematurely , & nothing happened !!!! U pick ruin someone 's B'Day or let them enjoy the BDay ... If someone will b worried at the party , that will b just inder - suhana not whole family .