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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am not offensive towards the feeling of a mother towards her child, but for me it was an illegitimate demand to Badi Maa from Dadiji...

It was very selfish from Dadiji...God knows for how many years she saw Badi Maa living in loneliness, crying but she forgot all those pains of Badi Maa just for two drops of tears of his son...what rubbish

Badi Maa did nothing wrong and she suffered for so many years and on the other hand Bade Papa left her alone, went to foreign, enjoyed his life to fullest and when he lost his job he wants to to be given and return back.. I don't want him to be forgiven because I want him to suffer for all those deeds which he did to Badi Maa for the rest of the life

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Posted: 14 years ago
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completely agree with you...but the scene reminds me that daughter in law can never become a daughter...once the son came back badi ma became the DIL
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yaah,dadiji's demand was not right,demand..🤔 i think she said it as a matter to b considered by BM,by creating sum kind of force.for a +ve result...as they say maa ka dil...aisa hi hota hai.{emotional}..well, atleast i can't say anything about ishwaar cos his side of story is not revealed yet...
as per BM side i say she suffered a lot,and she needs to make her own decision now .without any pressure of the present family conditions/members...aww man the look she gave when dadiji said ' tumhe usse pannah de ni chahiye' was heartbreaking..it was like questioning...she became thier daughter, loved them,held the family together,she stood for their entire family in all conditions...how can sumone forget her role in making RB normal again...relief atleast dadaji understands this...
i hope we will soon see what actually BM wants...
no offence...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: zak_ris

I am not offensive towards the feeling of a mother towards her child, but for me it was an illegitimate demand to Badi Maa from Dadiji...

It was very selfish from Dadiji...God knows for how many years she saw Badi Maa living in loneliness, crying but she forgot all those pains of Badi Maa just for two drops of tears of his son...what rubbish

Badi Maa did nothing wrong and she suffered for so many years and on the other hand Bade Papa left her alone, went to foreign, enjoyed his life to fullest and when he lost his job he wants to to be given and return back.. I don't want him to be forgiven because I want him to suffer for all those deeds which he did to Badi Maa for the rest of the life


I dono about feelings of a mother...but I do completely agree with you zak... That is so mean from Dadi's POV to forget the pain which BM, Inder-Panna, Dadaji and Alok went through... And now she want her son back just seeing him only once... I would say BM shouldn't hear Dadi this time understanding Inder's pain at least... He is the one who hates BP the most bcz he know how much pain BM suffered bcz of that man... I want BM to stand for herself and her children and decide...rather than saying .."teek hein...agar maa chahthi hein tho mein na nahi bolooni..."
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: itsmeroma

completely agree with you...but the scene reminds me that daughter in law can never become a daughter...once the son came back badi ma became the DIL


agree...BTW did anyone noticed today dadiji addresed BM as bahu...she always used to call her badi...now sudden change...
and why the hell was she doing emotional blackmail on BM and plzzz BM dont give ears to her words and stand for ur decision...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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so damn true ... i also felt so disgusted that how can she ask BM such a thing !!!!!!!! jus coz she keeps sacrificing n dusnt say anything tat dusnt mean u keep taking from her...
this is something which happens in real world..also..gud pple r always exploited ...till dey hv nothing left to give n den dey r thrown away like some piece of trash !!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: crysind


I dono about feelings of a mother...but I do completely agree with you zak... That is so mean from Dadi's POV to forget the pain which BM, Inder-Panna, Dadaji and Alok went through... And now she want her son back just seeing him only once... I would say BM shouldn't hear Dadi this time understanding Inder's pain at least... He is the one who hates BP the most bcz he know how much pain BM suffered bcz of that man... I want BM to stand for herself and her children and decide...rather than saying .."teek hein...agar maa chahthi hein tho mein na nahi bolooni..."




Ishwar is BM's culprit...Only she has the right to take any decisions regarding Bade Papa's fate.. If Dadiji is forcing Badi Maa, then all her claims of loving Shailaija would become false...
As a true person she should stand by Shailaija and let her decide about Ishwar's fate.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: zak_ris




Ishwar is BM's culprit...Only she has the right to take any decisions regarding Bade Papa's fate.. If Dadiji is forcing Badi Maa, then all her claims of loving Shailaija would become false...
As a true person she should stand by Shailaija and let her decide about Ishwar's fate.


As some one said above... Daughter In Law can't be daughter...Dadi is proving that ... When it came to BM & BP's feelings, Dadi is moving towards BP...😲 I can't believe this...😕 That lady who took care of these old parents till now has no value now..She can't even tell her wish about her own life... How mean..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you guys. It was totally wrong. I mean if she misses her then go talk to your husband get his permission and then you can go and visit him outside.

I just hope BM doesnt forgive and accept him because she is a bahu and a wife. He left her and her children and went and got married and had kids. Now that they abandoned him, he is back for the family that he left behind. This is just wrong. If BM had done the same thing no one would forgive her. Instead of trying win back BM, BP should just try to build up a relationship with his kids and not demand BM to forgive him
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I still can't believe that she did that!! 😲😲😲The audacity!! My oh my. Yes it's true mother's love their children unconditionally but I still can't digest that she asked BM to accept him. Wow

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