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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

I'm not expecting ishan to forget what suhana told him. Was suhana right? some part of it? he has expected suhana to change and she has. what he did to change in him self? i'm not asking him to look like Sid. When suhana said something he took it wrong way. thought she wants him to look like sid but ever tried to find out may be that is not what she wants. his brothers make fun of him, his looks, suhana said something of the sort if i'm currect? did he ever tried to change him self? not for any one else but for himself? why not because he happy in his own skin? r they all wrong?

Listen to me open minded on this , In my life many people called me many things, made fun of me yes. did it hurt? yes. What did i do? i'm still me but change little bit. as long as i was comfortable. i can not forgive those people they has hurt me. but were they right? yes upto some point. since they were right abt something. i changed those things and they were the first to congrats on my changes. well i'm just as confuse as everyone else on changes on ishan which does not make sense.

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gia_k

@gia_k

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

I don't agree with you at all ishaan is not right he is so selfish and only care about his own happiness. and he is so hypocritical Why is it one min he shows he is sida sada nxt min over confident with sona. One minute he doesn't like going to clubs nxt min he us off clubbing with stupid sona. One min he is caring considerate to suhana then when maharani sona appears he becomes self centred inconsiderate and selfish only caring for himself n sona. Does he not feel at all embarrassed about his closeness to sona he can't be that dumb n stupid to realise how he is flirting with sona and how he is giving priority to her over his wife. He is quick to point out suhana mistakes but maybe he should take good look at himself n his behaviour towards suhana . Suhana has been making an effort but what has ishaan done? Expect run rings around his sona darling. He should be scolding sona as well for shouting at his wife and for interfering like a stupid
🤬. I'm from uk and if a girl like sona did that here she would hve got one tight slap as well and alot more verbals. Even what she was wearing I think ishika should walk around in mini skirts n short dresses and she how her mother reacts coz she don't hve a problem when sona walks around in short dresses and I'd love ishika to go out to disc with her best guy mate and do exactly wat sona is doing to ishaan and see the looks on elders faces.

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Sheema

@infinity00

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

@ Himanshu,and inferiority for which only suhana is responsible

Well is it ONLY Suhana who made fun of him, EVERY body in his family does , his, Dad, Mom, radha bua, Ileash , Inder, Rajni , Disha, Ishika, even Dadaji questioned , why Did Suhana Agreed To Marry a Dude Like Ishaan????? yes its Suhana,s falut all the way, she is a WOMAN, and after mairrage she has to ADAPT herself according to Ishaan not the other way around, and thats her falut, she was lucky that she got Ishaan a simple loving guy, she should have been thankful and accpeted him straight away, she did the same mistake which Badi Maa did with her husband, NOT GIVING ANY ATTENTION to the HUSBAND, always busy trying to be GOOD BAHU and enjoying her self in her Saural, what was thinkung, thats not enough, Ishaan is a man, he wanted to be loved by his wife, which he didnt get, now how much can he bare. Suhana should come down to earth, and accept her position as a wife , who should love her husband unconditionally, thats what the WOMEN should do and EXPECTED to do. Sonali is Ishaan friend, his sould mate, so she has every right to ask that question, Suhana should not have slapped infact should have appologised to them and she should have left them in HER bedroom as she looked like an outsider. Infact Ishaan should have straighten Suhana out long time ago, and he should have slapped Suhana.

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Netri

@iViews

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

@gia_k

That's it Gia, u said it all. It's not only abt UK , US or India. Everywhere in the world girls like Sona gets tight slaps and husbands like Ishan gets much more behind close doors, Front of everyone and ohhh for rest of their 🤬 life.

No one in their family thought wrong in it, is amazing. They all proved to be blind to their actions. My own husband would not do any kind of idiocrasy in front of me in public with anyother girl. He knows when i'm angry my one look is enough. i have trained him 😆 🤣 While he has trained me the too. 😆

No husband in entire world is brave enough to hug, chipking , going to pub, etc in front of their wives & did i mention in their bedroom? When i saw him dancing with sona today i thought " Suhana give him slap too " he needs to wake up from this dream.😕 🤢

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Himanshu Sinha

@Sinha18

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: venture
@ Himanshu,and inferiority for which only suhana is responsible

Well is it ONLY Suhana who made fun of him, EVERY body in his family does , his, Dad, Mom, radha bua, Ileash , Inder, Rajni , Disha, Ishika, even Dadaji questioned , why Did Suhana Agreed To Marry a Dude Like Ishaan????? yes its Suhana,s falut all the way, she is a WOMAN, and after mairrage she has to ADAPT herself according to Ishaan not the other way around, and thats her falut, she was lucky that she got Ishaan a simple loving guy, she should have been thankful and accpeted him straight away, she did the same mistake which Badi Maa did with her husband, NOT GIVING ANY ATTENTION to the HUSBAND, always busy trying to be GOOD BAHU and enjoying her self in her Saural, what was thinkung, thats not enough, Ishaan is a man, he wanted to be loved by his wife, which he didnt get, now how much can he bare. Suhana should come down to earth, and accept her position as a wife , who should love her husband unconditionally, thats what the WOMEN should do and EXPECTED to do. Sonali is Ishaan friend, his sould mate, so she has every right to ask that question, Suhana should not have slapped infact should have appologised to them and she should have left them in HER bedroom as she looked like an outsider. Infact Ishaan should have straighten Suhana out long time ago, and he should have slapped Suhana.

Agreed sheema dii, i too felt that ishaan is wrong but he has not realized it yet but i just want to show both the sides of a coin and i am just telling that both needed to expel their anger as soon as possible and as we know suhana never hide her feelings but ishaan has confined so much emotion, pain in his heart which need to be expel and to be sort out so as to ensure the true beginning of their true love story which can not be happen jab tak ki ishaan ke mann ka gussa aur uske mann ki chubhan aur uske mann ke baat bahar nahi nikalti...same is the case with suhana too that she too need to confess the reason behind her anger over sonali and she is going to do it.

But i was fearing that ishaan this time too will confine his feelings inside his heart but was happy on the note that at least this time he is going to expel all his feelings .............only after that ki dono ke dil mein aur koi baat ya confusion nahi rehenga and we will get to see the blossom of love flowers in their heart....you took wrong inference from my comment ....i hope now you understand my point too

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Payal

@payalibm

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

if one has to get goin the marige life then one has to be patienc love,one had to,ishan knew what suhana was and is now n knew the differnce too well,
its no where like ke suhana hasnt excpted her fault gracefuly aftr behavin like a child n being spoiled rich brat,she instantly realised her mistake n rectiyed it which in real nun of us is able to do n ishan knows this
i m not sayin ishan not wrong in his part but i wont even agre fuly,if one is lakin behind other spouce has to gv one time to rectify or change n since begning suhana is changin n geting adjusted,here ishan losing patience is what me not getin n optin 4 extra martial affir is really whats bothering me coz this is what writed hasnt potryed isahn as,but complete opposite
i agre evrything has limit but where their is one givin n other not but here its nuthin like that,f ishan is givin then suhan too,sou whats i think is write has plan B for ishan n suhana,its like ishan makin suhana jelous n to be shure of her feelings which she has started developin now 4 ishan n to be shure she too loves him,n nuthin like she had feelings 4 that stupid sid guy

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Like I mentioned in another thread.. I do not blame both of them.

They are going through a tough phase.. we cannot say you are right and you are wrong

Ishan probably wanted a companion who could understand him.
And he found that in sonali.
He loved the fact that he can be himself in front of her, getting more attention I mean everyone makes fun of him in the house and sonali treats him like a king .. who wouldnt want that.
SO I think he did not want to see hte problem , he wanted to just not worry about anything .. specially suhana..
with suhana he had to be always careful of what he said, what he did.. even though he loves her a lot, he could never find that comfort level with her... until she chose to.

this is the primary reason he just turned deaf and turned blind to this problem.

I wouldn't really blame Suhana or Ishan, good thing they are letting their frustrations out and once its out and clear everything will be fine.

And I am not upset with badima and dadaji too.. cuase they did what they thought was best and if its bringing results then fine!

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mjtruelegend

@mjtruelegend

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: netri
What he really need to find is the other side of that coin. Suhana is wrong but What sid did to her was far worse that suhaana is doing to ishan. plus do u remember how much time suhana toook to forget what sid told her ? "She is not marriage material " Truth was it was sid who was not marriage material.
Now this do u this breaking her heart twice is worth all this?

OMG my heart goes out to Suhana..really. I'm sorry guys of you disagree but Ishaan has not gone through as much as Suhana has. Yes Suhana was very harsh to him at the beginning but at that time, her reasons were justified-I don't blame her for the way she reacted at the wedding night-SHE GOT THE SHOCK OF HER LIFE. Although she wanted to marry Sid at the beginning she never physically flirted with him in front of Ishaan. In fact after the wedding, Suhana told Sid that her could not come close to her or touch her, so didn;t do anything wrong in going to see him after his accident. Its good that she did as she found out about his nature. Ishaan used to be so understanding and sensitive towards her feeling's so where's all that gone??? Don't tell me that the presence of a friend can change your attitude towards your wife!!

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Netri

@iViews

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

OMG my heart goes out to Suhana..really. I'm sorry guys of you disagree but Ishaan has not gone through as much as Suhana has. Yes Suhana was very harsh to him at the beginning but at that time, her reasons were justified-I don't blame her for the way she reacted at the wedding night-SHE GOT THE SHOCK OF HER LIFE. Although she wanted to marry Sid at the beginning she never physically flirted with him in front of Ishaan. In fact after the wedding, Suhana told Sid that her could not come close to her or touch her, so didn;t do anything wrong in going to see him after his accident. Its good that she did as she found out about his nature. Ishaan used to be so understanding and sensitive towards her feeling's so where's all that gone??? Don't tell me that the presence of a friend can change your attitude towards your wife!!

Some one mention in one of the posts that Ishan is possessed by Sona .....😆 I believe it's true so here is the cure

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gia_k

@gia_k

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

this is the 21st century and why should a woman put up wid nonsense and her husband openly flirting in showing attention to another woman. Are woman meant to sit chup chap take crap of their in laws and show unconditional love but watch her inlaws n husband be totally hypocritical. Have we not evolved. If suhana had to behave life a wife then ishaan has to behave like a husband. She has left her home to be with ishaan and her inlaws should he not be making more effort making her feel welcome and part of parivaar but wat is he doing ignorning her running of with sona touching up sona flirting with sona excluding suhana. This was an arranged marriage and when time is right for suhana to open up n declare her love she will do so why are people interferring n forcing her?. Ishaans is jus trying to cover his tracks make out like he is the bechara but I dnt feel sorry for him one bit. All sona has done is brought the worst out of ishaans character a side I'm sure suhana dislike and if sona never came I'm sure she would hve fallen I'm love and adjusted. It's not only a woman that has to adjust but a man does to.

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