What the hell is WRONG WITH ISHAN??!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Guys, I agree that Sonali is in on the plan and that is why she is behaving inappropriately with Ishan. BUT, WHAT THE HELL IS WRNG WITH ISHAN??!!! If he loves Suhana like he claims to, why is HE behaving inappropriately with Sonali. He ignores Suhana and puts her down in front of Sonali. Not just that, he gets too touchy, feely and intimate with her! How would he feel if Suhana met a male childhood friend and got so touchy feely with him??

He claims to love and understand Suhana, right? So how come he can't sense Suhana's anguish like the bhabhi's can and even badi ma and dadaji can? Everybody else can sense Suhana's emotional turmoil, they can all see sadness in Suhana's eyes, except Ishan, her husband!!
I felt so bad for Suhana today.. I cried with her almost all of the episode and I'm SOOOOOOO mad at Ishan right now!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: neel_jay

Guys, I agree that Sonali is in on the plan and that is why she is behaving inappropriately with Ishan. BUT, WHAT THE HELL IS WRNG WITH ISHAN??!!! If he loves Suhana like he claims to, why is HE behaving inappropriately with Sonali. He ignores Suhana and puts her down in front of Sonali. Not just that, he gets too touchy, feely and intimate with her! How would he feel if Suhana met a male childhood friend and got so touchy feely with him??

He claims to love and understand Suhana, right? So how come he can't sense Suhana's anguish like the bhabhi's can and even badi ma and dadaji can? Everybody else can sense Suhana's emotional turmoil, they can all see sadness in Suhana's eyes, except Ishan, her husband!!
I felt so bad for Suhana today.. I cried with her almost all of the episode and I'm SOOOOOOO mad at Ishan right now!!
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OMG MY thoughts exactly😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheemu83



OMG MY thoughts exactly😡
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OMG we all tink alike seriously i am so disappointed in Ishaan i am very annoyed seriously i dont blame Sonali for all this its Isaan's fault too your right he always get toucy touchy wit Sonali.....if Suhaana need to realize her love for Ishaan then Ishaan too have to realize Suhaana importance i think now its Ishaan's turn to realize what his wife mean to him.....he cant even see Suhana's tears he was scolding her OMG that was so shocking i couldnt believe my eyes it was not that Ishaan which we use to love......and he hold Suhaana so tightly when she said shut up to Sonali thats so sad i dont want Suhaana to talk to Ishaan for a while he deserves a punishment but nowadayz i am loving SGP and i am loving Suhaana everything is going perfect MASHALLAH👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i had problems with ishaan only when they were going in a scooter...or the movie plan itself...

bt shouting at suhana...was correct....in my POV..
for first suhana knowingly did not call ishaan and inform him that she is not coming...
who will not get worried...and ishaan being a person who loves suhana a lot is really tensed and worried and when he comes back worried and sees suhana enjoying music...which person would not get angry...

ishaan was not in his senses when he was shouting at suhana....that shouting was just how much ishaan loves her and was worried for her...and doing it in front of sona he was not in his senses....and he got more angry when suhana said she doesnt care....and i have to say ishaan is not a mind reader...he can only sense if there is something wrong at times...he is so confident with suhana that she will never have any prbs with him and sona...and now when she is having a prb...he is not realising that it could be him and sona...

then suhana saying shut up was just her "other feelings" thats taunting her...it was not for that exact moment....and ishaan shouting again suhana was again correct as sona did not do anything wrong...she was just trying to explain the situation...

just my POV...😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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before somebody asks me....il post my other view also...

suhana asking sona to shut up was very correct from her side...as she is not at all liking it...and now she said they are husband-wife and had more stress in that....suhana was abs right shutting up...

sona coming in middle was also right as she feels guilty that becos of her there is a fight and she just wants to explain what really happened....

ishaan too was right shouting at suhana...as he does not know suhana telling that was out of her frustration...and ishaan just felt suhana doesnt care for him...so he belted that anger out...

it was one of those complex scene...which has been done so very well by everyone..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Did anybody see that when yealling at Soinali.....Suhana used the term Husband and Wife and not official wife hoon.....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

before somebody asks me....il post my other view also...

suhana asking sona to shut up was very correct from her side...as she is not at all liking it...and now she said they are husband-wife and had more stress in that....suhana was abs right shutting up...

sona coming in middle was also right as she feels guilty that becos of her there is a fight and she just wants to explain what really happened....

ishaan too was right shouting at suhana...as he does not know suhana telling that was out of her frustration...and ishaan just felt suhana doesnt care for him...so he belted that anger out...

it was one of those complex scene...which has been done so very well by everyone..

It's not just the shouting part. Too much has happened before that... Ever since Sona has come back, all Ishan does is "sona, sona, sona, sona, sona, sona, sona, sona, sona ........" Like SERIOUSLY!!
Has it ever crossed Ishan's mind even for a minute - what if Suhana's childhood friend suddenly returned from nowhere, came to stay WITH THEM until God knew when! Then he couldn't stop doing "Suhana, suhana!" and she couldn't stop chanting his name either! And he gave her dresses of her favorite color, put on her favorite perfume, flaunted their friendship to him again and again and proved to him how he knew Suhana so much better than Ishan!
And worst of all, if he always got touchy feely with Suhana and Suhana also completely ignored Ishan in his presence?
Tell me, how would Mr. so-called PERFECT Ishan feel then??
Tell me this - even his own dad told him yesterday - "Grow up, stop doing this "sona, sona", think how it would make Suhana feel". My point is - EVERYBODY else can see it, why can't Ishan?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Feats

OMG we all tink alike seriously i am so disappointed in Ishaan i am very annoyed seriously i dont blame Sonali for all this its Isaan's fault too your right he always get toucy touchy wit Sonali.....if Suhaana need to realize her love for Ishaan then Ishaan too have to realize Suhaana importance i think now its Ishaan's turn to realize what his wife mean to him.....he cant even see Suhana's tears he was scolding her OMG that was so shocking i couldnt believe my eyes it was not that Ishaan which we use to love......and he hold Suhaana so tightly when she said shut up to Sonali thats so sad i dont want Suhaana to talk to Ishaan for a while he deserves a punishment but nowadayz i am loving SGP and i am loving Suhaana everything is going perfect MASHALLAH👏

I completely agree with you. The way he has been treating Suhana ever since Sonali's entry is not the way a wife should be treated at all! I know how I would react if my husband's childhood friend and he started behaving this way. I would throw both of them out of the house!
I admire Suhana for her dignity and decency. She was VERY dignified and decent today. If my husband came back from the movie in that situation and asked me why i didn't come, i would be very scathing and taunt - "oh, i'm soooo sorry, i was really sure that you would enjoy the movie soooooo much with your beeeeeest friend, that you wouldn't even NOTICE that your WIFE was missing! actually, i had thought you didn't even remember anymore that you were married!"
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: neel_jay

It's not just the shouting part. Too much has happened before that... Ever since Sona has come back, all Ishan does is "sona, sona, sona, sona, sona, sona, sona, sona, sona ........" Like SERIOUSLY!!
Has it ever crossed Ishan's mind even for a minute - what if Suhana's childhood friend suddenly returned from nowhere, came to stay WITH THEM until God knew when! Then he couldn't stop doing "Suhana, suhana!" and she couldn't stop chanting his name either! And he gave her dresses of her favorite color, put on her favorite perfume, flaunted their friendship to him again and again and proved to him how he knew Suhana so much better than Ishan!
And worst of all, if he always got touchy feely with Suhana and Suhana also completely ignored Ishan in his presence?
Tell me, how would Mr. so-called PERFECT Ishan feel then??
Tell me this - even his own dad told him yesterday - "Grow up, stop doing this "sona, sona", think how it would make Suhana feel". My point is - EVERYBODY else can see it, why can't Ishan?


agreed except for @
bold...
ishaan is not a perfect man nor he has said himself to be perfect...
its just our assumption....he is just a normal man...
he has his own characteristics....

yes he is getting too much with sona...and i agree and everyone agrees....
but i will not totally blame ishaan for that....
suhana has always made fun of ishaan of not having girlfriends and all...and now suddenly when someone comes everyone including us are surprised to see how ishaan behaves with the girl...

as alok said he has to grow up...with the relation he is having with sona...he is behaving in the same way he used to behave with her....and he is continuing it...becos of his confidence that suhana wont mind....

the minute he comes to know abt suhana's feelings towards sona...he will definitely change himself...

and abt him not seeing suhana's feelings....again i think its his confidence in suhana and also his old childish relation with sona....

and abt if suhana's childhood friend had come....i think ishaan would have kept quiet with his feelings becos he knows suhana doesnt love him...and he has no right to tell anything to suhana abt her being with her friend....

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Exactly..What actually is wrong with Ishaan?..From the starting of the show,Ishaan has shown a lot of maturity..like when he explained Suhana what is right and what is wrong and stuff like that..but after watching tomorrow's episode...I have no words left for Ishaan at all.His charachter has no consistency...and it has degraded like nethin!!!..No one's a kid here except Suhana...So Ishaan should very well know what is right and what is wrong...he should draw a line and not cross it.day before .yesterday also he ignored when Alok told him to stop the Sona Jaap...and yesterday..I felt like 😡😡 at Ishaan..Dude..why so abnormal?😵...I mean...Ishaan saying..yeh helmet Suhana ka tha..ab tum pehenlo...arre yeh helmet to tumhe perfect fit hoti hai..Suhana ko nahi hoti thi..and that too in front of Suhana??Thank god he didnt get kicked out by Suhana😆...and why go by scooter at all?Ishaan says he loves Suhana..then cant he just feel that whatever Sona is doing is not being liked by Suhana?😕😕He could have insisted on everyone going by a cab rather than the scooter..Ishaan seriously..is being a LOSER and nothing more than that these days...strictly in my POV..He was becoming champu during the Sona jaap days..and now he has bacome a FULTOO LOSER and nothing else.👎🏼

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