Badi maa/husband scene - contradiction?

remember that scene in one of the earlier episodes.. dadi, rano and badi maa talking and badi maa says when they first saw rano... badi maa husband liked her a lot and told badi maa.. that she shud take care of rano and keep the family united... and then she goes on to say.. parivar se itna pyaar karne wala insaan aise kaise parivar ko chod kar chala gaya?

but yesterday scene gave a different picture.. it looked like the problem was something else and badi maa has the answers to why ishwar left and what was the problem between the 2 and she didnt paint him as some one who expected from her to unite the family etc.. like she said yesterday... she was involved with the family and wo mujhe apne liye chahte the...

arent the above 2 contradictory?

did the CVs forgot that scene and brought yesterday scene as a new explanation so as to draw a parallel between suhaana and badi maa's character and their situations? bcos badi maa said... main kya karti mujhe kuch samajh mein hi nahin aata tha... maybe indicating she was also quite immature or something...
or was it that bade papa did love his family.. and in keeping the family together etc.. but over the period of time.. when family took precedence for badi maa much more than her husband the rift started?

i would be welcome if someone convinces me both the above scenes can be logical... bcos badi maa appeared so clueless as to WHY ishwar left her in the first scene and knows exactly why in the second... i had a feeling CVs just decided to change it.. was this there in OBS?

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

alrite minu...il try to convince..but iam not good at that for sure..😉i may confuse you bt bear with me

Thanks for the reply 😊

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

..she said the same like it was her mistake in the flashback also when they read the letter..but the family doesnt belive that..they belive bade papa was selfish..

Oh there was a flashback is it? I have not seen it. I started following SGP from when deepak's track started.. maybe 1 episode before suhaana was slapped.. so have not seen all this.

What was the content of the letter?

Badi maa's track sounds interesting.. i hope they explore it later on.

Shwetha, you explained it well .... yes, when we hear it in a short we may feel like it is contradictory, but if you join bits and pieces of Badima's dialogs, everything will get cleared....😊

also , anothr small thing was that in a previous episode they said that badi ma was just lik suhna and she didnt know anything about taking care of the family and she used to wear jeans and stuff and today badi ma told suhana that she was very "gharelu". dosnt make sense

Originally posted by: deepakrulz

also , anothr small thing was that in a previous episode they said that badi ma was just lik suhna and she didnt know anything about taking care of the family and she used to wear jeans and stuff and today badi ma told suhana that she was very "gharelu". dosnt make sense

iam not sure...bt wasnt that before her marriage or when she was newly married...😕may be she changed after that...to be an ideal badi bahu...may be...😉

Originally posted by: deepakrulz

also , anothr small thing was that in a previous episode they said that badi ma was just lik suhna and she didnt know anything about taking care of the family and she used to wear jeans and stuff and today badi ma told suhana that she was very "gharelu". dosnt make sense

one thing I don't understand is , they said everyone had love marriage.. so I guess badi ma was exception just like suhana