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Posted: 14 years ago
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HI everyone,

I have been a silent reader on the forum, but today i decided to break the silence...all becoz of the power the serial has on me. In today's nuclear family world, where we can't see past our true siblings, this serial comes as a reminder of how beautiful family is. I have learned to be a good human being, but not among the "expressive" people, I have found it often difficult to go up to my parents and tell them how much I care about them, I am a dutiful daughter-in;law but would not call myself a loving one. Because i never liked most of the things my in laws did. Either because I misunderstood them or I never wanted to change my ways to adjust in the household. I felt i was better off the way i was. Happy with my work, my family, my spouse. But...hold on...I was missing out on so much. One month into the serial and I started to realise I hadn't communicated with my extended family in quite sometime. My inlaws aren't that bad, I am from a different background and will need to understand thier ways as now they are my family and a part of my life.There might not be a badi maa to hold my hand when i make the adjustments but that doesn't mean I shouln't make an effort....The little moments of happiness and the sutle moments of love/undretsnding shared among the characters brings tears to my eyes...I really wish each and everyone of us have the extended famly co-ordination that the kashyap family has. For some it's a dream for some it's reality, never the less, i will work towards being such a human being, for it could imapct the values I give my children and the generations to come.

Has anyone else been touched by this serial in the manner I was?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I didnt watch today's episode yet, but your post has defintely touched me. Thanks so much for a realty check.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey samsam...

very very well written and expressed...
i must say i have changed a lot...iam doing post graduation..and for me the way iam behaving with parents has changed a lot...

i used to get a lot angry first...and never used to listen and try to understand why they are telling like that...but after SGP..i understood..and i never get angry or atleast never hurt my parent....(a reason why i like KK a lot..)

then the track abt grandparents...i have started spending more time with my grandma...and sit patiently and answer her queries...

so SGP has impact on all ages of people....

thanks for writing..and do write more...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: samsam76

HI everyone,

I have been a silent reader on the forum, but today i decided to break the silence...all becoz of the power the serial has on me. In today's nuclear family world, where we can't see past our true siblings, this serial comes as a reminder of how beautiful family is. I have learned to be a good human being, but not among the "expressive" people, I have found it often difficult to go up to my parents and tell them how much I care about them, I am a dutiful daughter-in;law but would not call myself a loving one. Because i never liked most of the things my in laws did. Either because I misunderstood them or I never wanted to change my ways to adjust in the household. I felt i was better off the way i was. Happy with my work, my family, my spouse. But...hold on...I was missing out on so much. One month into the serial and I started to realise I hadn't communicated with my extended family in quite sometime. My inlaws aren't that bad, I am from a different background and will need to understand thier ways as now they are my family and a part of my life.There might not be a badi maa to hold my hand when i make the adjustments but that doesn't mean I shouln't make an effort....The little moments of happiness and the sutle moments of love/undretsnding shared among the characters brings tears to my eyes...I really wish each and everyone of us have the extended famly co-ordination that the kashyap family has. For some it's a dream for some it's reality, never the less, i will work towards being such a human being, for it could imapct the values I give my children and the generations to come.

Has anyone else been touched by this serial in the manner I was?


Well said..... Keep writing😊 . I was lucky enough to grow-up in a family like that and this series reminds me of those happier days.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@samsam76
Firstly i wud like to appreciate your honest post..... Sam...u moved me to tears..... i am so glad u opened up your heart and keyed in your thots..... loved reading it immensely.... cud relate how much this episode has stirred the soul in u from reading your post dear....Crying 1
BTW.... welcome to our forum dear...🤗.. believe me keying in here brings lots of positivity and the members here r so warm and share a bond similar to the SGP parivaar kind.....I am very glad this serial has made a hell of lot of change in your perception towards your in-laws and u have dived in deeper in managing your bond effectively.....
It's very human sam... that we expect things to be greener and if not.... we brood about it and just not think about working on it.... it's happened with me too.... i know about the time i felt even after giving my best.... why the time has been so much testing on me..... but it's said.... darling....if u don't fall.... how will u know to get up and walk again....so i accepted every fall in my life as a new chapter and proceeded to move embracing that lesson well..... Life is like that.... we more we embrace it.... it returns a hug....either in the form of pain or bliss.... accept both... later we only gain...!
U have stated that .... wish every inlaws share a bond as they have shown in the Kashyap parivaar...somehow i feel Sam..... Is it not in us also to see what we expect ?.....and accept them as they r and then work out to bring the desired change in them..... Do we really do that...? How can we expect the change in a miraculous way? A bond rests on the quote:GIVE and TAKE..... so dear.... i believe... i will keep doing my best to the relationships i have in my family and not anticipate or expect much in return....but be glad with what i have ...... there r so many around who crave for even what i have .....
Many viewers have even been of the view that the serial has been shown too sweet to digest and that such a parivaar does not exist.... I again wud not agree with this as with every bond they have shown there is a sadness attached to it...be it badimaa's estranged husband.... be it Panna who does face an ego prob with Raunak.... be it Inder/Panna who have been missing out on their dad, or be it Suhana who has been a brat due to the absence of a mother in her life..... Whose life is sweet....?
SGP has always shown how these people r dealing with their problems in this way.... never declared.... "V r a happy family" so i guess it is in our thinking as to how we perceive things.... We can change our attitude, our perception without anticipating much from others which is in our hands.... let us do that first....and contribute our share to work on a bond....and then make a parivaar like the Kashyaps!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks everyone for the lovely replies. Thanks laxmi for the advice. It felt like an older sisters guidance and I shall abide by it :).
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome to our forum Samsam, good post. Laxmi, dont have to say how good you were as I am tired of saying it, you are always good. Very well said altogether. My moto of life is do whatever you can do for people around you and dont expect anything in return staright away. Since my mother passed away I saw a different side of her which I never knew, I recieved so many calls from so many people I didnt know saying that my mum did so much for them , she was always there for them, and I was like WHEN as she never shown any signs to us that she was doing all sorts of things for people and community around her. So I have learned that no matter what , always always be nice to everybody , even if they are horrible to you, there might be a reason for that, dont try to find that reason , just accpet and move away from the situation and let the other person decide when they are ready to reason with you. I know its difficult but seeing SGP I know for sure so many people can relate to it as you rightly said no body,s life is perfect in Kyshaps and even Bajpai,s.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Excellent post! This serial certainly reaffirmed my belief in one thing - Life is what you make of it. You can choose to be happy, or your can choose to be miserable. Everyone has a baggage, but that shouldn't deter you from living life to the fullest. THAT is what SGP has rightfully shown me.

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