Why is Deepak taking the heat ?

I do not understand why Deepak is letting himself being treated like this.😕 No one has any right to ignore him , especially his mother, he never questions her or asks for anything , he simply takes it, I don't know how 🥱

Honestly, I agree with you.
Here is my opinion. In real life if such a situation arises where you cannot love the child, it is in my opinion better to abort the child... especially if it is a rape situation. You have to ask your self whether or not you will be able to love the child unconditionally regardless of what happened... if not, the child does not deserve to be punished for a crime he did not do and for something that was out of his hands.. so dont have a child if you are not gonna love him.. End of story

I was watching the show yesterday with my mom, and she was asking why doesn't Deepak question his mom? its not very realistic, how ever timid you are, your going to ask why your mom doesn't even look at you. I understand Radha bua's pain but at least the guy deserves to know the truth.

well, even if radha bua went through alot...deepak should question her...afterall, how worse can it get to...

Originally posted by: priyankumupal

I was watching the show yesterday with my mom, and she was asking why doesn't Deepak question his mom? its not very realistic, how ever timid you are, your going to ask why your mom doesn't even look at you. I understand Radha bua's pain but at least the guy deserves to know the truth.

he does but at the same time.it's very realistic.. he's been raised this way.. to be a good obeying child..he's been isolated since his childhood so he has no self confident to talk to anybody.. he's the oposite of me.in school, i'm just like deepak.. but when i'm at home.. i'm loud and fun and confident...in my sociology class we took two different scenerios(one where child was abandant with no mom and one with mom and analyzed it..) radha bua loves deepak. that's why she sent him to boarding so that he won't be too unconfident.. she couldnt shower him with love so she sent him to a place where he would be.. i think she didnt abort him cuz she felt that he is her responsibility and i think if he didnt look like her rapist, she wouldve been able to love him..

what's unrealistic to me is that NOBODY questions radha bua.. no ishaan, ELESH.. inder. nobody! i capatalized ELESH because i understnad inder and ishaan but i expect it from ELESH!

Originally posted by: brainychild92

he does but at the same time.it's very realistic.. he's been raised this way.. to be a good obeying child..he's been isolated since his childhood so he has no self confident to talk to anybody.. he's the oposite of me.in school, i'm just like deepak.. but when i'm at home.. i'm loud and fun and confident...in my sociology class we took two different scenerios(one where child was abandant with no mom and one with mom and analyzed it..) radha bua loves deepak. that's why she sent him to boarding so that he won't be too unconfident.. she couldnt shower him with love so she sent him to a place where he would be.. i think she didnt abort him cuz she felt that he is her responsibility and i think if he didnt look like her rapist, she wouldve been able to love him..

what's unrealistic to me is that NOBODY questions radha bua.. no ishaan, ELESH.. inder. nobody! i capatalized ELESH because i understnad inder and ishaan but i expect it from ELESH!

Actually the other members of the family not asking questions make more sense to me than why Deepak won't question. The senior members must be feeling that, it is best to give space to someone who has gone through such a horrible thing in her life. The younger gen, just look at what the older gen are doing and probably follow their lead on not questioning what is obviously going to bring nothing but trouble for them. Its a selfish human trait that we prefer not to get ourselves into any negative situation if we can help it.

As you said, Radha Bua probably send Deepak to hostel so that there will be people to care for him, but it could also be out of her selfish(though understandable) desire to be away from anything that reminds her of what happened to her. I guess Deepak for too long has been suppressed so he doesn't know how to question what is happening around him. its a really sad situation. Only by helping Radha Bua can Deepak be helped. So the family should really try to get Radha bua some help.

The fact that bothers me the most is that even after soo much samjofying from dadaji, dadiji, and badi maa, Radha bua fails to understand. Deepak should treat Radha bua the way she treats him so she actually knows what it feels like.

I agree Radha bua is acting very selfish, even though she loves him she can't stand him anytime. and like Radha bua Deepak has also gone through a lot because of his mother and thats not fair!! Not only Suhana or Deepak, every member of the family should make her understand in every possible way. She has to come out of this somehow 😕

i really think she shud have aborted when she found out she was pregnant...if she cnt stand him,its incredibly mean to have the kid and thn emotionally abandon him..deepak is literally thirsty for his mother's love and he dsnt get it..and its so unfair..bringing a child into the world and thn leaving him to fend for himself is just too unfair..and i thnk she sent him to the hostel so tht she dsnt have to interact wid him..

Originally posted by: anu rulz

i really think she shud have aborted when she found out she was pregnant...if she cnt stand him,its incredibly mean to have the kid and thn emotionally abandon him..deepak is literally thirsty for his mother's love and he dsnt get it..and its so unfair..bringing a child into the world and thn leaving him to fend for himself is just too unfair..and i thnk she sent him to the hostel so tht she dsnt have to interact wid him..

Mhmm.. I've heard that a mother will do anything for her child's happiness but this time around, the mother will do anything to be happy herself and keep her child from happiness. A mother in all circumstances gets hurt but doesn't let her child feel a pinch but this time around it's quite the opposite