i completely agree with u guys that suhana is at fault here coz she has been very brusque and insensitive. but isnt it rajni and disha's fault just to assume what food to cook. its not like suhana was not at home. they could have just asked her once. everybody has different taste for food and that much freedom should be allowed for guests atleast. don't u always try to find ur guests' likes and dislikes before serving them something?
suhana too is at fault for openly communicationg with people. she now lives in a joint family and so has to learn to consider others in her equations. some thing she is totally new to. she has never had to do these before. her upbringing was totally different. she has never had to ask for anything. everything would be done or brought for her without much effort from her side. but she is not bad at heart. yes she has got a thing about 'her having the very best of everything'. but come to think of it, all this has been fuelled by her dad. he was never strict with her in terms of lifestyle. she has never had to count money or do saving.
she never cooks apart from a couple of random times her and there. i dont think she has ever made a meal on her own. therefore it is very hard for her to fathom how much effort all that takes. but somehow she gives the impression that she is ready to change slowly with help from others.
like they say there are always 2 sides of the coin and no one can clap with one hand...
what do u guys say?
Edited by shiuli84 - 15 years ago