Originally posted by: laxmi_s
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Haila, selfless love?!...yahaan bhi 😲....now I'm going to have a dejav when I type 😆...Socho appu..... Smoky mountains...... evidences..... ???? 🤣 chotu...badmaash...😕😕 but good one... 🤣🤣🤣👍🏼
But seriously Laxmi, awsome topic 👏.Thank u appu......🤗 But when I say women, I would like to highlight 'Indian Woman' 😉. We cannot say the same about all women universally, : Appu..... We cannot generalise anything for any term..... the greys r there even in India.... but let's talk about God's wonderful creation 'woman' here as she is supposedly thought of to be the most patient, sensible, mature and responsible....Yes... flaws r there in every human appu.... but we cannot restrict the goods or the bads within a certain frame for a certain term....Yes
IMO, an Indian woman is the epitome of sacrifice, courage, character and values. The way an Indian mother, wife, daughter, daughter-in-law upholds these relationships so beautifully and selflessly, it is very difficult to see something similar in other cultures. agree here completely..... 👏... well said appu...I don't agree yaar...there are other cultures that are just like Indians...there might be little differences how we live our life based on the society we live in. Same Indians when they come to US there is drastic change in them. Mainly it is the society that controls individual behavior. Women in India as Appu pointed out (some of them) still live in bad marriage. That's because the society doesn't approve divorce as much as the western world. Same couple when planted in US, in a year they are divorced. I have seen many such cases. Some live in open relationships. Agar duniya mein 'Super Woman' hain, it is definitely our Indian women 😃!..... need not be necessary.....Appu.... a mother is a mother and will always remain a mother..😛.. So, i disagree that due to some minority-odd women we should restrict this beautiful term to just indian....!
About Indian wives, they know their husband might have lot of drawbacks and some of these might be the kind they may not even be able to tolerate, but still how lovingly the wife sticks to the husband 😳. For her, the happiness of her family is her happiness. She doesn't have something as 'My happiness', it's the happiness of the family that completes her happiness 😳. Some of them even tolerate physical abuse and still stays with her man .And what to say about the selflessness of Indian mom 👏. Thus, an Indian wife and mom can truly be termed selfless 👏.:..... Appu, there r men too in India who r loyal to their wives but when women act crazy and love their independence to family life..... it results in divorce...so again i cannot say all indian women r true to their bond....!
I have soo many examples of such great women in my family circles itself, including my mom and grandmoms, seriously, I am going to have a tough time when I get married as my role models are soo difficult to ape 😳.Me too appu... we have seen the good women around us..learnt the right values from them and will pass it on the next generation too.. but we cannot generalise this statement that all indian women r good and others r bad....
But as they say, 'Aim for the sky, you will atleast reach tree top', hope I atleast reach the treetop 😃....Definitely u will....u are so grounded appu.... have a clear conscience and have a very sensible thinking.... u r a lovely woman appu......😉 and u will be def. successful as a good wife and a wonderful mother...👍🏼..! you have a good head on your shoulder Appu. 👍🏼👍🏼
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