Originally posted by: Skepblun
I loved today's episode. A 9.8/10 from me (0.2 deducted for annoying and caricaturish Khotti baat oldie and Guman's tamasha).
Please spare Saras yaar! He wants to do something for them because he feels he is responsible for the unhapiness and cracks in VC-Guniyal relationship and VC-Kumud relationship. Plus he has never had anyone for him after his mother passed away and they moved to Dubai. So while he is suffering from a fear of hurting those who he gets attached to..he does not want to be reason for taking away joy from others who have everything in their relationships and an actual family unlike him!
He is just suffering from fear of losing loved ones and a guilt complex wherein he holds himself responsible for the pain suffered by those who he is attached to. Give him some leniency on account of his traumatic childhood yaar!
I am sure interacting with Kumud and VC family will help him rid himself of his fears and misconceptions about himself as he succeeds in interacting well with them and mending cracked relationships. He'll someday see himself in a new light.
Yes, yes I think you are right. His own fragmented relationships have made him realize that the
warmth in Desai family is special and he in no way wants to be responsible for damaging it.
Thanks for pointing that out.
His guilt - a heartless dad and a mom who is only faking affection , can do that to a small child
As one fb showed, when he was small, she was quite mean to him.
And if you have seen your own mom take such a drastic step, and then are uprooted from your home, taken to a new country, brought up in a loveless environment, yes, fear of losing all loved ones can happen too.
Thank you, good insights .
Edited by arshicritic - 12 years ago